When your relationship go downhill, you have to do something to rekindle the fire again. it usually happen when you have been together for years, and seems like there’s nothing more to come.
You get used to the presence of each other so you tend to take it for granted. You forget the feeling how to miss each other. He never told you he miss you just like in the past, and you are missing it. Nothing to worry about, dear. We are here to tell you how to walk away and make him miss you.
It is much simpler than you think and guaranteed you will get your old man back to you. The one that made you fall in love. Also read How to Make Him Miss You in Long Distance Relationship
- Give Space to Yourself
This may sound cliché but it is the first essential step to take if you want your man to miss you again. You have to literally walk away. Maybe you spend all the time being in each other’s company.
Even when you don’t feel the urge of having personal space, still do it. Tell him that you will be going in no contact for a week, not telling one another what you do, and not trying to find out either.
In case you live together, move away for a week. Let the absence fill in and you will know how much your significant other means to you.
- Be Busy (or Pretend to)
He never miss you anymore maybe because you are always there whenever he needs you. Never miss his calls, texting him back right away, and free whenever he wants to go on a date. Being a reliable girlfriend is every guy’s dream, but it’s not good for you.
Don’t make him your priority. Put your life and work over him and enjoy. Don’t pick up when he calls, text him back a few hours later, and spend the weekend with your friends.
Create as many activities as you can and be busy. If you’re not busy then pretend to be. That’s how you walk away and make him miss you. Also read Ways to Get Him to Miss You Like Crazy
- Spend a Lot of Time with Your Friends
When you are in relationship, your quality time with friends decrease a lot because you spend almost all the free times with your boyfriend. Now it’s time to have fun with your girls again. Ditch all your date with him and spend time with your friends instead.
Let him know that he is not the only one in your life. Upon seeing you behave unusually, he will give his attention to you once again and feeling jealous seeing you having fun. He wish he is the reason why you’re happy instead of your friends.
- Take a Break from Social Media
When you told your boyfriend you need a break, it means you have to take a break from everything. Including the social media. Stop posting anything for a while, especially during the break period with your boyfriend. Also read Reasons Why You Should Quit Social Media
If you still active while trying to walk away from him, he won’t miss you anyway. Let him wonder where are you and what you do. By completely disappearing both from real life and the internet, he will soon feel the void of your absence.
Once you come back, your relationship would feel like new again.
- Travel Alone
When your relationship feels deadly boring, maybe you have to find yourself again. Discover what you really want from a relationship, is it still worthy, and how you see yourself in the next 5 years. Do you see him as a part of it?
Find peace by traveling alone and answer all of those question. He will understand that you need time alone. Go somewhere you have written in your bucket list. Take time as long as you need before you contact him again. Also read Benefits of Being Alone for Your Physical and Mental Health
- Unplug from the World
Speaking about finding peace as a way how to walk away and make him miss you, challenge yourself to do one most difficult thing: unplug yourself from the world. Unplugging yourself is not just going on a solo getaway, but also unplugging yourself from the internet.
Turn off your phone for a while so you can be with yourself alone. In no time he will start to miss you. Also, unplugging yourself is beneficial not only for the relationship. It makes your soul healthier and the fact that he miss you is merely a bonus.
- Cut Things First
You know how couple always debating who should hang up first because neither want to be separated? It’s cute at first but it could be the reason why he doesn’t miss you. But if you are the one who hang up the phone first or not replying to his text anymore, he will start wonder what’s wrong with you.
Whenever he calls, be the first to say goodbye. When you are chatting with him, be the first to say good night. He will 100% miss the old conversation and he wants to call you back immediately. Also read Ways to Make Him Commit and Want Only You
However, it could be difficult for you too especially if you enjoy the conversation. But it’s necessary if you want to make him miss you.
- Don’t Try Too Hard and Don’t Give Up Easily
Now that you are reaching the bottom of our tips on how to walk away and make him miss you, we’re going to tell you the most important point above all. Don’t try too hard to make him miss you because he will either smell something suspicious or he feel offended because you have gone too far.
Don’t give up too easily either. No matter how much you want to be there for him, don’t oick up his call immediately. Just no.
We wish that all we gave you will be useful enough. If you got another tips, don’t hesitate to share with others in the comment section below.