Someone must have had a hard time in their lives. Whether it’s a small problem or a big problem that makes them not excited, lost direction, and sad for a very long period of time. When we feel down and sad, in fact not everyone will accompany us during those times, there are some who are lost without news, do not want to help, or ignore us. However, there are still people who will continue to accompany us, motivate, and do good to us who are in a state of decline.
Because very rarely people are willing to spend energy, time, and also property just to help others. Therefore it must be appreciated, and how to appreciate it in many ways. One of them is being loyal to him, always being a good friend for him both in difficult or happy circumstances. Treating the person as well as we treat ourselves and If you can, you must treat them better than that.
1. The form of reciprocation
We can find so many different forms of reciprocation. We can repay that kindness directly by giving them gifts, buying food for them and much more. However, for people who cannot reply to it directly, we can respond in another way, namely by praying for his goodness, praising him in front of others, or always loyal to him in a state of joy or sorrow, and many more.
Fulfil his or her needs is your primary goal by his side. Seeing him comfortable and fulfilled becomes his own happiness. You will give whatever you have, sincerely, to make it feel enough to love someone who is kinder to you
2. When you love someone You will become the other side that worries more often with people who you love
When you haven’t text or call your partner all day, your partner will be calm. He or she will think that maybe you are busy working or have business with friends. But that kind of calm doesn’t apply to you. You who love deeper will more often worry about your partner.
In the middle time of your busy life there will be a simple worry, for example: “Has my partner eaten?”, “Did my partner not get up late?”, “How to prepare for the exam without your presence to help my partner?”
Sometimes your heart sinks when you realize that the couple you love doesn’t worry about you as often as you do. When your partner thinks you can go through your day alone without the need to be accompanied. But you will only choose to remain silent, while trying to be a better companion
3. When there is a misunderstanding, you become the more frequent to relent
When your relationship is troubled, you apologize more and give in more often. Deeper compassion makes you reluctant to conflict with the person you really love. Even though sometimes mistakes aren’t entirely on your side, but you don’t mind pleading wrong and reopening communication first
While your partner can stubbornly defend his position, you will be the one who tries to get his heart back. Not once or twice you are allowed to stand for days because of a small mistake. Yet when your partner does something wrong, you will lightly forget and forgive without being asked.
4. Because of fear of losing your partner, you have to get lower the standards to find your partner which already set by yourself
Your partner is a very meaningful person in your life. In fact, you could say he’s the axis that makes your life go round. Imagining the sense of loss when you have to let go is very unbearable.
This fear of loss unconsciously lowers your own level of expectation. If before you felt you had to be treated very well by your partner, then now you just accept it when not prioritized. During this time you really hate male smokers, but specifically for your partner you will make an exception.
For him, you are willing to lower the standard that you have made for yourself. When you are a deeper love to person who you love, you sometimes forget to keep your promises to yourself.
5. You will try hard to understand the path of mind and habits, which sometimes its not your style
You are a totally blind girl about online games like DotA. But your girlfriend is a militant DotA enthusiast. He can stay up all night just to complete the game. The conversation also revolves around trade, rare items, support, and various other terms that you do not understand.
However, deep feelings make you happily listen to the story. Even little by little you also try to get to know the terms DotA. Although it doesn’t make sense to you when someone is willing to stay up all night just to stare at the computer screen, but as long as he is happy then you will try to understand.
Your deeper feelings make you willing to go the extra mile to “enter” your brain and lifestyle. Even though it’s hard, you will keep trying. Until you can. The journey of love is not always sweet. Once a person who loved deeper was one of the episodes of love that was classified as unpleasant. However, you can still really take lessons from these things