Having awkward silence on a date is just the worst! No one wants to go on a date and be caught tongue-tied, looking for the next great thing to say. Talking is part of the dating process, so if you're short of things to say to your date, she may think you aren't really that into her.
When you're getting ready for a date, your outfit and scent aren't the only thing you need to think about. You need to think of good conversation starters and small great topics to engage her in small talk. So, if you're planning a date with a girl you really like and you have no clue what you're going to say to her, here are a few interesting questions you could consider.
When you're on a first date with a girl, you want her to know that her comfort is important to you. Most guys neglect this. So, ask her if she likes the venue you picked for the date, it will show that you care?
Another way you can show that you care is by asking if she likes the food. You don't have to bombard her with a million deep questions, just ask to see if she's doing well.
It's important to ask a girl where she's from especially if her culture is a large part of her life and personality.
She may not have grown up in her home country or hometown, so it may be interesting to know where she grew up, since her environment largely makes up her personality.
Not everyone liked the place they grew up in. Asking her this gives you a clue into what she likes and doesn't like. It's also a fun question that could lead to a great story.
Asking her if she still visits the city, town or country she grew up in could give you an insight into how much she loved or hated her time growing up.
This question may be asked out of curiosity but it will also tell you if she likes to leave things behind permanently or if she doesn't mind revisiting situations, whether pleasant or unpleasant.
Asking the girl you like what her childhood was like shows that you have genuine interest in her journey to become who she is today.
It's always a good idea to ask a girl you like about her family, especially if she's very family oriented.
Another family-focused question. It won't only give you an idea of what her background looks like, it will also help tell you more about what shaped her.
You're giving her another opportunity to talk about her family life and that's great.
You'll know if she's from a large family or a small one. This way you can tell if she's like to be social and considerate or more closed up.
This may be a direct question to ask a girl, especially on a first date, but it's not taboo. Personal questions are usually second-date questions. However, If she seems cool, just ask.
This question could help you discover the important lessons she regrets not knowing. Everyone has regrets including the girl you like.
It's important to know what principles her family holds dear, especially the ones shaped by her culture and traditions.
This is a great question to ask a girl you like. By her answer, you can tell if she’s totally committed to all aspects of her culture including the toxic ones.
Another question that will help you find out if she likes to form her own thoughts or if she just does what is expected of her.
Another important question to ask a girl you like. Knowing where she got her education can give you insight into what she's like. When she’s talking, you could listen for an accent if possible.
Inviting her to talk about her major in school is a fun way to get her talking about what interests her.
Asking the girl you like what inspired her to pick her major could help you understand what inspires her too.
Did she get the chance to work a job that was in line with her major in college? Some more insight into her journey.
If she studied something she wasn't really into or ended up regretting later on, this is your chance to know.
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This is your chance to find out the passions of the girl you like. It may not be the most creative way to ask but it's valid.
Who doesn't like food? And most of all, who doesn't like to talk about food?
If she gives a great answer to this question, it could help you find out what kind of food your date likes and where your second date could be.
This is your chance to find out where the girl you like loves to hang out.
Asking about the future can be a bit tricky especially if she's in a transitioning phase in her life. However, there’s no harm in asking.
A very key question to ask a girl you like, especially if you're ready for a serious relationship. Find out if you can live with this.
Find out if you and this girl you like have similar beliefs before you get invested.
This is another window into her belief system. There's no need to be with someone if you can't discuss anything.
Asking her if she's happy with her current career path would give her a chance to vent if she's not and a chance to talk about her passions if she is.
Find out what she would change about her current job.
This two-in-one question could give you hints about what to avoid on dates with her.
This question is kind of a comic relief kind of question. Especially when things seem to be getting a bit too serious.
This is a great way to find out what makes her laugh. It also makes meaningful conversation.
If you want to get more laughs out of her, this could be a great question especially if her answer is yes.
Who doesn't like a good childhood mischief story? Sit back while she tells you about the most ridiculous thing she did as a child.
More interesting childhood stories from this one and if she's a good storyteller, this conversation may last halfway through your date.
This question will give you lot's to laugh about. Sharing your most embarrassing moments will definitely make you laugh, especially if you share your own experiences too.
A person's favorite animal could give you insight into their personality traits.
If she is honest enough to tell you what she isn't good at, she's a keeper.
Give her a chance to brag a bit. Everyone likes to talk about what they're good at.
There's no reason why you wouldn't want to know her hobbies. If you like her, you'd want to know what she’s interested in.
More food talk. It's a good question to throw in if the conversation started to get a bit stale or too serious.
This is a great thought-provoking question and can help you understand her personality even more.
This is a great place to find out what her inner nature is.
Everyone has irrational fears - those fears we just know are worst-case scenarios yet we can't seem to shake them off.
This is one way to find out what other people think of her. This question is only relevant if you really care what people think.
Everyone has done something weird before, so there's always going to be an answer to this question.
Her answer could give you a sneak peak into what her day looks like.
If she has a favorite food, she probably has a favorite fruit. It's an interesting fact to know about your love interest.
Her answer could tell you a lot about her. Think about the traits of the animal she mentions, she probably has similar traits.
If you prefer asking direct questions, you will like this one. Simply ask her what she likes about you.
Another good question. Let her tell you if you did well on your first impressions.
It's always better to find out if your date considers long-distance relationships to be worth her time. The earlier you're aware of facts like this, the better for both of you. Just in case one of you is planning to move anytime soon.
This could give you a clue of what your date is like when she's alone. Perhaps you do the same things too.
Give her a chance to analyze you too. See yourself through her eyes for a change.
Lots of people don't like road trips. This question will let you know two things about her; if she likes road trips and what destinations she loves the most.
If she has met your friends, ask her what she thinks of them. If she's able to relate well with them, that's a plus.
Finding out which friend your date isn't necessarily comfortable with could help you understand what she doesn't like.
This is a great question that will help you discover what brings her the most joy.
Not everyone likes to know about a potential partner's past since deep questions like these may be considered personal questions. However, it's always safer to know facts like this.
If her last relationship was way too soon before you, you're likely to be the rebound. So, find out now and you'll know where you stand.
If you're really interested in knowing the details of her relationship break, you could ask her how long it lasted.
Knowing why a relationship ended is important. Although it's always best to hear both sides of the story, hearing it from her won't hurt. Just pray she's honest.
Most people's first relationships weren't the most pleasant. However, the first relationships are always the most special. So it's useful to have some of that information.
This isn't one of those important questions you absolutely have to ask a girl on a first date. It's not necessary to talk about her, but it's a nice random fact.
Now, this particular question is important and perfect for a first date. It's best to know what they want out of a relationship with you so everyone is on the same page.
Everyone has a secret, quirky habit. It would be fun to hear her talk about her.
Dare her to tell you something no one else knows about her. Sometimes it's easier to share your secrets with a stranger.
It will surprise you how many people have run-ins with the police. Even innocent-looking people. Some people have very amusing stories to tell too. Find out if your girl has one.
This is another piece of information that would surprise you. A lot of people have cheated in past relationships including women. If she's honest enough, she may admit to it.
We've all done stupid things before. The good thing is that when we realize it was stupid, we can laugh about it.
Discussing each other's fears is a great way to keep a conversation going. Since everyone has fears, there will be a lot to talk about.
Another chance to hear a secret. However, you've got to ensure that you're both comfortable enough with each other before you ask her this.
We've all played a good game of truth or dare at least once in our lives. Hearing her crazy dare stories would really give you something to laugh about.
This is likely to be a story from her childhood since most of us told our worst lies when we're kids. Get ready to have a good laugh.
Listen carefully to the way she talks about herself and you can tell if she has a healthy self-esteem or if she still needs to stabilize her emotions.
Any healthy-minded individual will have things they like about their lives. Listening to her talk about this will be pleasant for both of you.
This is a great question if you want to find out what your date's younger self was like.
Bringing up the good memories would be nice too, apart from lightening things up, it will put a smile on her face for sure.
This is a nice way to find out if you both like similar movies. If you do, that's a big plus.
Also, a great way to find out what movies are unappealing to her. If you happen to hate the same movies, that's a score.
If she's emotional when she watches movies, this is the best way to find out.
Talking about movies and movie stars is always a great way to make conversation.
Her favorite movie star may not be her favorite celebrity, so this is a pretty good question.
Her happiest memory may not necessarily be her favorite. So throwing this question out there isn't an error.
If you'd like to make things even more interesting, tell her that she can only answer this question in three words.
If you're thinking of getting into something serious with this person, this question is really important. If you're an animal lover, you don't want to end up with someone who hates animals.
Finding out if she's a dog person, cat person, fish person or reptile person is important. You don't want to end up with a snake owner if you're afraid of snakes.
This question is light and playful. It's one of those funny questions you throw in when things seem to be getting too serious.
Most pet owners have lost pets before. This is a nice way to discover new random facts about her.
If she grew up with a pet or multiple pets, there's a chance that she is a responsible person. Taking care of pets when you're a child can help teach you responsibility at a young age.
Giving her a chance to talk about her childhood is always a good idea. Especially when they are positive events.
This is an indirect way of asking her if she finds you attractive while also finding out her taste in men.
This is probably one of the second date questions, but if you're both hitting it off faster than you expected, go ahead and ask her.
Another random question that could give you insight into her likes and dislikes. Plus, if you like traveling too, you could plan your next trip to one of these destinations.
Lmao, if you actually want to see her usher, try asking her this one. She'll definitely blush while attempting to answer it, especially if she’s a shy girl.
This is another indirect way to find out what you could do to make her feel safe, secure, and comfortable around you.
It would be nice to hear her talk about the signs she displays when she's in love. That way you could look out for them too.
Taking her down memory lane to recount some of her happy and funny memories is always a good idea.
This is the way to get ideas from her. If you're wondering what kinds of gestures she considers romantic, this is a cool way to ask her.
This is one way to find out she knows what she wants in a partner. If she doesn't hesitate, she probably knows what she wants.
This is another way to make her blush. You could say this question is more reliable.
If you think she's nice, don't hold back on telling her so. Let her know you think she's nice.
First dates are usually the hardest dates to get through. You're meeting this person for the first time so you have the pressure of making a good impression. Discussing this could take away the awkwardness.
This topic will give you both something to laugh about. Pickup lines are usually cheesy and ridiculous, talking about them will make for great conversation.
Worst date stories can both be entertaining and cautionary. If it's a funny story you can both laugh about it while you secretly learn what not to do on dates with her.
Talking about nicknames never gets old. Apart from being hilarious, you can always use it to tease her when you get closer to each other.
What's even more hilarious than the nickname itself? The story behind the nickname! Get ready to have a good laugh.
Everyone has something they just don't like for no reason. It could be a sport, a movie, or a song. Whatever it is, have fun sharing these things with each other.
Everyone gets misunderstood every now and then. It's nice to have someone to discuss these things with if she is willing to share, she's a keeper.
If you believe in the old saying; 'show me your friends and I'll tell you who you are', you may want to ask a girl this. Knowing who her friends are and why she bonded within could give you a sneak peek into her personality.
Not all girls like chick flicks even though lots of them do. It would be nice to know if your date is one of them.
If she loves the female scene, ask her which one is her favorite even though you know nothing about them.
If you love reading, you may like to know if your potential girlfriend loves to read too. Perhaps you've even read some of the same books.
This is a great way to find out if you've read the same books or if you even like the same kinds of books.
This is another question that could help you understand her on a deeper level.
If you'd like to find out what activities she may enjoy doing with you, this is a great question to ask.
This question could also be an insight into what made her the person she currently is.
The answer to this question is definitely going to be hilarious and will also let you know what she believes in.
Everyone has a deal breaker when it comes to jobs. Find out what her's is.
This question may be best for a second or third date. However, if you two are already heading down that path, why not? As long as she's comfortable with the discussion, go ahead.
Asking about her family traditions is a great way to understand her principles and what she stands for.
Ask her what makes her laugh. It would show that you actually care about her happiness and amusement.
This is similar to the questions about her most embarrassing moment. Her answer could give you both a good laugh especially if they involve an innocent mistake.
Ask her what she considers her favorite physical feature. It would also tell you what she thinks of herself.
Try asking her if she is comfortable talking about her body before asking her this. Assure her that it's not sexually motivated. Knowing her least favorite feature will help you figure out what she's insecure about and how to help her with that if things work out for both of you.
It would be nice to talk about weird conversations you've each heard. Apart from the banter, it's just nice to hear stories about strange things.
This question will help you understand what character traits she’s attracted to and perhaps is trying to develop.
Everyone has at least one person she looks up to in her life. Knowing this could give you an idea of who she's hoping to become in a few years.
Discussing things you're grateful for is a great way to bond. Good vibes equal good dates.
You'd probably ask this question if you're into art yourself. It would be nice to share your passion with her.
Asking her what she thinks about herself gives her a chance to be open with you about her perception of herself.
It would be nice to discuss a major turning point in her life. Again, it's a great way to learn about her background and journey.
A person's dreams could mirror their current lifestyles, expose their fears or help you understand what goes on in their minds. Hearing about her weirdest dream could be a light way to discuss this.
This is one of the deep questions she may really appreciate. Apart from discovering what her idea of happiness is, it makes both of you think.
Discussing movies could never go wrong, especially if you both love to watch television. Asking her what movie she saw last could open up a whole new conversation and keep things interesting.
This is another question that will show you what she’s passionate about. It's also great because both of you can either agree on or argue about how great or terrible the movie was.
You can never go wrong asking about her favorite type of music. It's a plus if you both share similar tastes.
If you're going to talk about her favorite genres, you'd probably be interested in knowing who her favorite artists are too.
We all have those songs we consider to be timeless. No matter how many times you play it, it never gets old.
This especially applies if you're both nine to fivers or if your lifestyle seems monotonous for most of the week. It would be nice to learn what her light at the end of the tunnel is.
Finding out what she does on her weekends is useful information too. In Case you'd like to plan a special weekend for her once you get acquainted.
Thought-provoking questions like these aren't just fun, they also help you understand what she would really like to do with her life if she had financial freedom.
Whether she's a night person, an introvert, or an extrovert, there has to be one thing she likes about the outdoors. It would be nice to know this so you can put it on your list of potential things to do together.
Find out what she likes to do at home too. There's always got to be a balance.
People often open businesses selling products they made or providing services they're good at. This question could help you find out what she's good at.
It's always a good sign if a person constantly wants to develop and improve themselves.
Her answer would show you what's most important to her. If she mentions more material things, just know you're dealing with a material girl.
Finding out what impresses her about other people could help you understand what traits she respects. Perhaps you could even try developing them.
This is like asking her what attitudes she hates. It's best to know this early so you can avoid doing them.
It's always a good idea to know what cheers her up. If you're going to be together, this is vital information.
When you're aware of the qualities she considers special and unique to her, you'll be able to openly appreciate them instead of just her looks.
It would be nice to know what your date has achieved so far in her life. Who knows, you may be dating a high flier.
This is another question that could help you discover what's important to her. Very few people will withhold certain things for a million dollars.
There's no place like home. Asking her what things make her feel nostalgic could help you understand what she loves most about her home.
Everyone wants to build a home someday, what would you like your home to look like? Asking her what reminds her of home could help you determine if you are on common ground in terms of what a home is.
Who doesn't have regrets? Not many people like to talk about this. However, it wouldn't be bad to bring it up. You could go first if she's reluctant.
This is a more gentle approach to asking about her regrets. If you want to be subtle, ask this instead.
If you want to know how she sees herself in comparison to how you see her, this is the best question to ask.
This is another way to ask a girl about her hobbies. Yes, how she spends her leisure time is your business now.
If you like the idea of traveling, it would be nice to know her favorite vacation spots in case you want to plan a surprise couples trip for both of you.
This is a cool way to find out what skills she has. This is a good way to get to know her in depth.
Bet you'd like to know if she's more visual or if she is the type of girl who appreciates character and attitude more. This way you'll know where you stand.
Ask her this question and you just may discover something new about her. Perhaps she's a bit naughty and would admit that to you.
Attempting to see hints from her point of view when you're getting to know her is quite useful. A question like this could help you with that.
This is another way of finding out what her life language is. Remember this information for birthdays, anniversaries, and other special occasions.
This is food for thought. It won't only make her think and get creative, it would make you think too because you just know she'd throw the question right back at you.
Let's see what she likes her men wearing or if she pays attention to that at all. If she had some things to say about this, it would be wise to take notes.
Asking questions about physical intimacy is a great way to turn the heat up a bit. If the date is going well so far and you both are getting comfortable with each other, don't be shy to ask.
If you want to know how great you did planning the first date, you could ask this question. If her description is similar to what you planned out, extra brownie points for you.
This is a really good question to keep the conversation interesting. It will result in good stories and perhaps even funnier photos.
You've got to admit, it's a funny question so don't be surprised if she laughs a bit harder than you thought she would. However, expect to provide your own good answer because she will likely throw the question back at you.
Having her share funny and embarrassing stories will keep the date fun and interesting.
This is another question that will help you discover what she's really into.
Again this question is bound to come to your mind if you like to travel. It's a great way to find out if she appreciates the same things you do.
It's also a great idea to find out if you happen to like the same hotels and if you've stayed in the same hotels.
If you're both millennials, this is a great way to revisit your childhood.
This is a great way to find out what her villainous traits are. If she can relate to a particular villain, she probably has a few of those traits too.
This is a great way to find out what makes her extra happy and excited.
You can tell a lot about a person by the storylines that catch their attention. If the movie she could watch over and over again is romance, then she may be a romantic.
Much like a book's storyline, a movie's storyline could tell a lot about a person's inner thoughts.
The answer to this question would provide you with useful information on what she's not very fond of.
This is the best question to ask a girl if you want to know her future prospects and goals for a certain time period.
Everyone has a bucket list. We all have things we'd love to do before we leave this lovely earth. Find out if hers are similar to yours.
Meeting people is great, but meeting a person's inner child is even better. Talking about her favorite childhood activity will introduce you to aspects of her younger self.
Who wouldn't want to know what inspires a potential mate? Perhaps it even aligns with what inspires you too.
At five, most of us have wild and unrealistic dreams of what we wanted to be when we were older. This could make for an inter-story.
Everyone has a guilty pleasure. It could be a cringey, cheesy movie that everyone hates, yet we just can't stop watching. Finding out hers could really give you something to laugh about.
Your date definitely has things she hates seeing others do. It's best to find out what these things are sooner rather than later.
It would be nice to get a glimpse into what she thinks is an ideal world. Her answer could show you this. However, get your own answer ready because she may like to know what you think too.
193. If you could teach anything, what would that be?
This is another way to ask a girl what she's good at and what she's willing to share with the world. It's a good fact to learn about her.
You don't have to travel halfway across the world to have fun. You can have fun or relax in the same city you currently live in. Ask her what she would like to do if she could stay in your city.
There are some things you enjoy in your city because they just aren't available. For example, skiing. Find out what activities your date loves to do when she travels.
This question is simply for fun. We all know that jingle or tune that gets stuck in your head every time you hear it. It would be funny to find out what hers is.
Still in the category of funny stories to hear about her, this question makes for an interesting conversation.
Recalling funny and memorable scenes you each had on vacation is premium. Throw this question in while you're discussing and watch the conversation flow naturally from basic to exciting.
It's rare to find people who haven't thought of turning back time to correct a mistake. Find out more about your date and her regrets by asking her this question.
You can find out the habits your date finds ridiculous by asking her this. Perhaps you find them annoying too.
If your date is the social type, ask where she prefers to go to meet people.
This question is a great intro to a whole new discussion and an interesting one at that. See what her hero name is and she may even discuss who her arch-nemesis could be.
Sometimes women don't give themselves enough credit when they do the most sacrificial things for each other. This is your chance to give her the accolades she deserves.
If she's got plans for this year, it would be nice to know them. In case you can squeeze yourself in there too.
Everyone procrastinates once in a while. Find out what tasks your date feels too lazy to complete.
Interesting questions like 'has anyone ever told you how beautiful you are?' Or 'I think I'm falling for you, can you tell?' Any question that points her towards the way you feel about her will make her blush. Most of these questions are rhetorical so don't expect a response.
When you're just getting to know a person, the best way to do this is by going on a few dates. While you're on these dates, it's best to ask a girl open-ended questions so you can give her a chance to elaborate. For example, 'what do you do for work?'
An open-ended convo is a conversation that gives both parties the chance to respond to each other with more than one word like 'yes' or 'no’. Both people are required to respond elaborately with reasons for their answers or follow up questions.
The juicy questions are questions that lead to more heated up conversations. For example, 'How many people have you kissed?' Or 'what turns you on?'. You could also ask, 'Have you ever gone skinny dipping?'
Some good flirty questions to ask a girl are; 'do you prefer to kiss or cuddle?', 'would you mind if I kissed you now?', 'What's your biggest turn on?', 'Do you always look this stunning?' Or 'what's your biggest turn off?'
I hope you found this article helpful. Remember, when you're getting to know a person, do a lot of talking but ask the right questions. Please let me know what you think about this topic in the comment section below and be sure to share it with friends.
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