27 Fun And Cute Ways To Cheer Up Your Angry Girlfriend

Last updated on November 10, 2022 by Michelle Devani

So, you have an angry girlfriend, right? She’s mad, and you don’t know why, or she’s upset about something, but you don’t know any great ideas to cheer up your girlfriend. 

Well, lucky for you, this post is full of great ideas on cute ways to cheer up your angry girlfriend. True, she’s feeling upset now, but there are cute things you can do to cheer up your girlfriend.

This article will give you more ideas on ways to cheer up your girlfriend than you’ll know what to do with. Women love guys who try to make us smile and forget what’s wrong. One thing that you may be wondering is how to make her smile. Well, half of the sweet ideas are aimed to make your girlfriend laugh or smile all the time. You’ll soon turn her mood upside down!

Do these little things, the good things listed in this article, and she will feel like someone special, someone who is no longer sad or hurt, but who you hear and love. 

Here are a few bonus cute things you can do to cheer up your girlfriend: Have a date night, spend quality time with her, play card games all night, make her feel happy, and surprise her with her favorite food to eat!

Cute Ways to Cheer Up Your Angry Girlfriend (Make Her Laugh)

So, I had to come up with some great examples of things that would cheer me up if I were mad at my boyfriend or someone else entirely. These ideas actually brought a smile to my face! When I’m angry about something, the best thing that anyone can do to cheer me up is to try to make me laugh or smile. My man is not super funny, though, so I came up with these!

I think they are surefire ways to cheer up your girlfriend because they will make her not so mad. I mean, really, how can you be mad when you are laughing or smiling? How can you be angry when you have tears of joy streaming down your face? In the next section, we’ll cover the more obvious ways to cheer up your girlfriend, but these ideas are fun, as well.

One awesome thing you can do to cheer up your girlfriend is to practice empathy. What would cheer you up if you were angry about something? If you can make your girlfriend smile, you are golden! It may just take a bit of work if you are chipping away at that intense anger. Give her a nice hug and show her that she is not alone in this battle or trial that she is facing!!

  1. Send her a funny gif.
  2. Bring her balloons!
  3. Have a singing telegram sent to her home.
  4. Watch funny videos or watch movies that are funny together.
  5. Send her flowers.
  6. Tell funny stories or jokes.
  7. Remind her of an inside joke the two of you have.
  8. Dress up like a clown or a server at a restaurant.
  9. Tickle her.
  10. Talk baby talk with her.
  11. Repeat everything she says in a funny voice.
  12. Make fun of her enemies.

More Cute Ways to Cheer Up Your Angry Girlfriend (Find the Solutions)

Here are some more great ideas on ways to cheer up your girlfriend if she is angry about something. Talk to her and listen carefully, and she’ll be wondering what happened to her ditzy boyfriend, who didn’t previously know what to do during the hard times. If you keep talking to her about what is making her so angry, you will determine the cause.

Once you know what caused the anger, you can talk about it and try to calm her down rationally. Don’t forget that a hug is always welcome, too. She may need you to be the man in the relationship and really show her how much you care by how you treat her. Put your romantic relationship at the top of your to-do list because your girlfriend needs you right now.

It can be hard to calm someone down and practice these ideas when someone is full of anger, but in the long run, you will be glad you put your efforts into your romantic relationship. After all, would your girl not do the same for you? If you know that your girl would cheer you up by cooking your favorite meal and making you eat, you know she is a keeper!

13. Listen

listen

PsychCentral talks about how to become a more skilled listener. First, you need to consider your audience. With your girl, what is most important to her. Do you need to lend a hand and touch her on the shoulders as she is discussing what is bothering her? Does she prefer space to sort out her feelings and emotions?

A second great trait of a good listener is the ability to empathize. This is all about putting yourself in someone else’s shoes. How would you feel if this happened to you? What would you be thinking about? Now, imagine what your girl is going through, and try to see things the way she might be. Discuss this realization with her.

Some other tips include showing open body language; in other words, don’t cross your arms when you talk to your girl. Avoid distractions, too. That means that you need to turn off your cell phone notifications. Your friend’s email can wait if your girl is pouring her heart out to you. Instead, pay close attention and show you care by listening.

14. Apologize

If you have done something wrong, you should most certainly apologize for it. This doesn’t usually require a lot of effort, and it can go a long way toward resolving things in your relationship. If your girl feels like you aren’t paying enough attention to her in your relationship, work with your schedule to find more time for her! Make her feel wanted!

15. Show you care

As mentioned in the previous section, there are many ways you can show you care. You could do anything from sending her flowers to writing her poetry if you are talented in those areas. You might just need to be a good listener and let her talk the issue out, especially if you can sense that she may be needing some extra attention

Consider running by the pharmacy or supermarket on the way home and buying her some of her favorite candy or flowers to cheer her up. She will realize that you were listening to her when she was complaining about her awful day and that you cared enough to stop and do something special for her. It will mean the world to her!

16. Calm her down

Try to discuss what is bothering her to determine what you can do to help. Usually, women just need to vent about what is bothering them. They don’t need a man to come in and save the day; they’ve just gotten upset over something and need to let it all out. Just be a good listener, and you are sure to win her heart!

17. Talk to her friends and family

If her anger is uncharacteristic and you’ve exhausted every possible solution, you might need to enlist the help of her support system - her friends and family members. Get their take on what is going on and maybe even ask for their advice on what you should do next. They may have some kind of insight that will help you in the long run.

18. Make her dinner

make her dinner

This is a nice gesture to show your girl that you deeply care about her well-being and want to be a man that deserves a queen like her. If you break out the candles and flowers, you are sure to make her smile with your actions!

19. Surprise her

If your relationship is to survive the long haul, you will need to get to know your girl pretty well. Determine what makes her tick, what makes her happy, and how you can fulfill her needs in the best way possible. Once you better understand her, you can surprise her with little gifts or sweet gestures, and this will absolutely make her day!

20. Give her space or time

Some people just need to be alone - to be in their own world for a while to process information the right way. Often, these types of people feel that if they are around others, they will lash out and take their anger out on the wrong person. I’m the opposite. I prefer for my man to let me talk things out and get it over with quickly.

I think this leaves time for more enjoyable things or productive activities. However, I have known plenty of people that need their alone time or space to process everything. If you think your girlfriend is like that, give her what she needs to get better. Be thoughtful and try to accommodate her in every way that you know how to.

Ask her if she needs some alone time to process everything that’s happened (what she is upset about). See if there is anything you can do to make her happier right now. If she says she really just wants to be alone, make sure she means it. You should be able to tell that from her tone of voice. Then, give her what she needs.

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21. Talk sweetly to her

Send her sweet texts. Write her a love letter or some poetry. If you don’t have talent in the writing area, you can just speak to her in a baby voice to make her smile. Just remember to be empathetic - think about how you’d want to be treated if the roles were reversed. When practicing empathy, it’s a good idea to ask a lot of questions.

You might say, “Why is this upsetting you so much?” or “What was it about the instance that upset you the most?” When you start to understand how she is feeling better, you will better be able to cheer her up. And the more questions you ask, the better you will understand her and how she is feeling. 

22. Be honest

Be straightforward with your girlfriend. You want her to know that she can trust you and everything you say is sincere. If you have to, you can sugar-coat it a bit for her, but don’t just lie about the way you think she is acting. If she is being ridiculous, don’t tell her that, but don’t lie and say that she is behaving in a normal way.

23. Let her get her anger out

Let her scream into a pillow, or take her paintballing - anything that will allow her to let off some steam! Sometimes, doing things like this can calm you down quite a bit. If you are making big gestures to cheer her up, she will acknowledge this and appreciate the effort, so give it all you’ve got when you try to help to calm her down.

24. Spoil her

Buy her chocolates or her favorite food. Give her a spa treatment. Be her butler for the day and run all her errands. Help her with any chores she may have. You could do her grocery shopping for her, hit the post office, and mail some packages on her behalf, or even just take her on a drive around to her favorite ice cream shops!

25. Have a movie marathon with all of her favorites

This is a great way to get her mind off whatever is bothering her. If you’ve paid any attention to her favorites, and if you at least know her favorite genre of movie, you can pull this off. Just hit the movie store or your favorite streaming application, and turn on all her favorites. Comedies are great at a time like this! Make her laugh!

No matter what types of movies or tv shows she loves, she will appreciate the gesture. Plus, watching television and listening to the stories can easily distract her from the thing that is making her so mad. You may find that she has a new perspective on the subject after watching a motivational speaker or inspirational movie. 

26. Take her on a romantic date

If you really want to distract her, break out all the stops. Rent a limo if you can afford it and buy some red roses. Ask her to get dressed up and take her somewhere fancy, where she can wear a nice dress and enjoy dancing. Then, take her to an elegant restaurant to show her that you truly think she is special - a one-of-a-kind gem!

27. Enjoy nature together

enjoy nature together

Watch the sunset together or go for a nature walk. You would get some great exercise while enjoying nature together. Consider what you could do outdoors. You could play a sporting event, join a sports club, or just take a walk around the neighborhood. Also, you may not know this, but nature is a great calming force. It can help you relax!

FAQs

How do I make my angry girlfriend happy?

If you want to make your girlfriend happy, be a sweet companion and give her a hug or tell her jokes. Make her smile, but whatever you do, don’t force her to tell you what’s wrong. This will only prove you want to “fix” your girlfriend, not make her happy in a sweet way.

How do I cheer up my girlfriend when she's moody?

Make her smile, give her space, and admit when you are wrong. If you think things couldn’t get worse with girls, understand that relationships are hard work, and girls have a lot of hormones. Realize when you’ve made a mistake, and always know that things could be worse.

How do I comfort my girlfriend over the phone?

Well, you can’t force a hug on her, so work to make your girlfriend less sad and help her forget what she feels such anger about. You can do this by listening and talking. Explain how much you love your relationship and that you are eager for her to calm down.

How can I make my GF miss me?

There’s nothing worse for girls than to miss the men they are in relationships with. When you are with your girlfriend, make sure you make her smile and laugh. Cheer up your girlfriend when she’s sad, and work to make sure you don’t make things worse.

How do you make a girl feel pretty?

You can make your girlfriend smile if you tell her she’s beautiful. Girls love compliments, especially when they come from their boyfriends. As her boyfriend, you can easily make your girlfriend smile by letting her know that you are in love with her beauty.

To Sum It All Up

How do you cheer up your girlfriend when she’s mad? How does your girl act when she’s angry? What does she do when she’s mad? Calm her down using one of the ways we talked about in this article, and you’ll cheer up your girlfriend in no time! Please comment, too!

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Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.

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