19 Things Guys Secretly Want to Do with Your Boobs When You Are Both Together

Last updated on July 12, 2024 by Michelle Devani

It's not so much of a secret that guys think about BOOBS a lot.

If you can be the woman that lets him live out these fantasies, he is going to like you much more!

So, perhaps you're wondering what he's secretly wanting to do with your boobs when you're together?

While I can't tell you for sure, I have created a substantial list of things that a lot of guys secretly love to do with boobs.

Before we get into that list though, I want to share a personal story with you...

Back in my younger years, I was always the woman wondering what to do to make men like me more. 

I tried to be more fun, more flirtatious, more sexual, more hard-to-get.

But I was always the woman who guys would get bored of after a few dates. 

No matter what I did with my boobs…:/   

Thankfully, that has changed now and it all started when I began to learn about a psychological concept called the 'Hero's Instinct'.

This concept explains a primal part of the male brain and the female behavior it responds best to. 

If you can learn to trigger a man's 'Hero's Instinct', it can completely change the way he thinks about you and treats you. 

When I learned how to do this, my relationships with men became far more serious and meaningful. Amazing men began to want to lock me into relationships and I’ve never looked back (read my personal story to learn how it works).

It would appear that few people know about this concept, so it really is the way to treat a man no other woman can.

With that said, here's my list of activities you might want to invite a special guy to try with your boobs.


19 Things Guys Secretly Want to Do with Your Boobs When You Are Together

19 things guys secretly want to do with your boobs when you are together

Guys (straight ones, at least), have a weird fascination with boobs that you, as a woman, may not fully appreciate. They do all sorts with your breasts when you get frisky. However, the odds are a lot more goes through your boyfriend’s mind when you’re together than he gets to do with them jugs.

While some of the things guys secretly want to do with breasts may be specific to size, it doesn’t really matter how endowed you are in the grand scheme of things. Big, small, somewhere in between, or whatever other way you would describe your girls, what matters to most men is that you have them.

And no, this isn’t just about fantasies like cladding your boobs in the sexiest lingerie ever made and doing the unthinkable to them and you – though, that’s also an option. But I’m talking about things that may not even make any sense whatsoever, not sexually at least. And heads up, not all of them would feel great either.

Anyhow, since you asked, here are the things boob guys secretly want to do with your boobs in and out of bed when you are together.

1. Name them

Starting with one you may or may not have done yourself, given about 11 percent of women name their boobs. Guys may not be crazy about what size you are sporting, but believe me when I tell you, they lowkey pay extra attention to each one's detail.

Even at that, they are about as fascinated with your boobs as you would be with an identical set of twins you don’t live with. They wonder if you can tell the difference between each breast and think, if only they had as much time with those babies. Basically, your man wants to see so much of your boobs that he can differentiate them enough to give them nicknames that’ll stick.

2. Then shout the nicknames to the world

If you thought telling one from the other was the height of men’s secret longings for your boobs, then you are in for a surprise. No, your man doesn’t just appreciate your rack enough to think they deserve to be identified by names, he also wants to announce the awesomeness you get to take for granted.

And not just on guys night as bragging points between friends. What they secretly want to do is more like shouting it to whoever would listen and raise your boobs lion king style for the whole world to acknowledge. Some things are so good it just doesn’t feel right to enjoy them alone, and your boobs, my dear, are some of those.

3. Trademark them

Another similar fantasy I’m almost certain men have with breasts is to leave their mark on it, whether or not you are in an exclusive relationship. I wouldn’t know where to even begin rationalizing such thoughts, but you just know that’s something some men want to do with your babies.

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It is nothing as extreme as human branding, where they press burning iron into your skin, but they still secretly want to leave an unerasable mark. They want everyone who has the privilege of seeing your breasts bare, man or woman, to know that they got there first, and more, that it is theirs.

4. Motorboating

You read that right. Men want to ‘motorboat’ your breasts. Like your guy looks at you and appears to be present but what he’s really thinking about is pressing his face into the flesh of your boobs and unleashing his inner child.

To elaborate, he doesn’t just want to settle his face on your cleavage with your boobs standing guard on each side. No, your man wants to rock his head from side to side quite rapidly while simultaneously vibrating his lips and making a ‘brrrr’ sound. 

That may not sound like a lot of fun for you, honestly, I’m not sure it is for them either. It’s just one of those things the breasts make you want to do, I guess.

5. Use them as a pillow

Another thing that you’d think shouldn’t be a secret is guys wanting to use your ample bosom as a pillow. It seems pretty mainstream on account of almost every guy having rested his head on a woman’s breasts at least once. But no, they want a little bit more than that.

You see, when they do it openly, there is always a limitation like how they place their head and how long you can support the weight before they have to shift. What these guys secretly want is to use your chest as their eternal pillow, with your heart still beating underneath, keeping the vicinity nice and warm, but without the usual restrictions.

They don’t want to care if it hurts, your breasts have gone to sleep, or you, the bearer, have to change position. How do you even begin to reveal that to women?

6. Fondle them mindlessly

fondle them mindlessly

Another thing many men don't disclose but would love as regards your boobs is 24/7 access to have their hands on them. Not just when you are making out or having sex or but whenever they damn well please.

They want to caress your boobs as a source of inspiration while they think and use them as something to do with their hands when idle. Maybe, they get to do some of that in the bedroom, but they secretly want the universe to make it okay to do that whenever, wherever, without consequences.

7. Play ball up in them

What do breasts and a basketball hoop have in common? You may need to ask the next guy you go out with because, given a chance, he probably wants to turn yours into one, too. This is another desire guys have with boobs that has little or nothing to do with sex.

This one usually comes up when you are together, chilling out, with you wearing something that gives just enough of your cleavage away to trigger their playful side. Often, after the sexual tension has been eased and he’s just kicking back in delight, thinking of other ways those beauties can be of service.

So the big idea is to treat your jugs like a heaving ball hoop and throw some candies into your cleavage, just because.

8. Jiggle them with reckless abandon

It's no secret that men like rough play. Despite what the statistics might say, it's also common knowledge how much straight men love boobs. So, I guess it doesn't come as much of a surprise that guys secretly want to combine both of their likes in one activity whenever they are faced with boobs.

Believe it or not, that guy doesn’t just want to stop fondling your beautiful ladies when you get busy. No, he wants to put both his hands on them and explore every inch without having to worry whether or not it feels good. He may or may not also want to make your body move passionately, causing your boobs to jiggle wildly in response and then watch them bounce back in slow motion.

9. Let them roam and just do your thing

Things guys secretly want to do with your breasts also include an activity you’ve probably done a million times without counting as anything. They want to watch you free your chest off the boulder holders and just go about your day like there’s nothing amiss.

You could be doing the most unsexy thing you can think of, and you’d still be putting up a hell of a sexy show for your one-man audience. I know it’s like a sex fetish for some people, thanks to porn, among other influencers, but this one isn’t just limited to cleaning or breastfeeding. 

They may not be able to unhook your bra outside the bedroom without violating your body or ending up in prison IRL, but such rules don’t bind fantasies.

10. Feed off of them

This one may not come as huge news, but it certainly makes the list of things guys secretly want to do with your boobs nonetheless. Whether your boyfriend has seen your rack nude or only gets to see them with clothes on, a boob guy who is attracted to you has most likely thought about this.

Could be as a follow-up to the previous point, freeing your boobs of constrictions and watching you cook dinner topless. Or, as an act leading to sex with other edible stuff like ice cream and hot fudge. Whatever ends in them taking your nip nips in their mouth, the delicious taste of food is just a bonus.

11. Sink their teeth in and pretend to be vampires

Sometimes, when a guy fixates on your orbs, and you think he’s zeroing in on your chest hair, you couldn’t be farther from the truth. Chances are he’s really contemplating how the flesh would feel pressed against his mouth, but not just in the usual vanilla manner.

More specifically, guys secretly want to slowly part their lips, take your breasts between their teeth, and just play-bite at varying intensities. He wants to nibble, peck, tweak, and whatever other things he can do with his mouth on those beauties without having to be cautious. I imagine this would be a satisfying activity for many of them, even if it doesn’t lead to sex.

12. Fall asleep with the twins on their face

Did you know guys secretly want to do things to you and your jugs in bed that have nothing to do with sex? As silly as it may sound, they also want to know what it’s like to have boobs be a part of their body, if only for one night.

How do they imagine pulling this off, you ask? By having a generous woman volunteer to lay hers on them while they snooze soundly. If you’re busty enough, that might mean laying next to him and placing the girls on his face till he sleeps off. Otherwise, it may take some positional maneuvers. As I said, the things guys think about don’t always make sense.

13. Sleep/wake up with a boob in hand

Falling asleep is only one of the non-sex things guys wish to do with your boobs in bed, another one would be waking up still connected to them. It’s not enough that having contact with them twins may have inspired some sexy dreams at a faraway land somewhere where all their wishes come true.

They also want to continue that reverie when they wake up, if only briefly. This is one of the few things guys secretly want to do with you on this list that has as much to do with your comfort as their own. They only want to do this if they adore you, so your boyfriend or someone you’re in a romantic relationship with might be guilty of this. Take it as a compliment. 

14. Ogle them openly anytime, anywhere

It’s no news that men spend an awful lot of time staring at breasts and that many women continually have to redirect straying eyes to their faces during conversations. It turns out women do, too, but that’s beside the point.

The actual point is that the “socially acceptable” amount of staring going on is hardly enough for these folks. These guys secretly want, no, wish it were right to do this indefinitely, in public or in bed, whenever they get the urge without having to worry about giving creep vibes or getting arrested.

15. Paint them

Have you ever had a moment you wish you could just freeze in time because it’s that perfect? If you’re in a relationship with a breast guy, he probably gets a lot of those just staring at your boobs. In fact, if he’s one to appreciate art, he may occasionally think about recreating yours.

Sex positions that let you catch a glimpse of the boobs from a novel angle can do that to a man, even if he doesn’t have a single artsy bone in his body. Or it could be a view of you basking naked in the afterglow that does it. The point is, making an original work of art with your boobs as the muse is one of the things guys secretly wish to do.

16. Watch you play with them

watch you play with them

I know boys can be selfish sometimes, especially when it comes to exploring the wonder that is a woman’s body. They want to get their hands on you as often as you’ll have them. However, they also get the same amount of kick, if not more, out of watching you do things to yourself.

Left in a room with a guy who is attracted to you, if you aren’t touching each other, he’s probably either thinking of feeling you up or watching you do it to yourself. It’s an incredible turn-on that many guys prefer to keep a secret because it only takes one botched attempt to ruin it for them. And not every girl will get it right at the first go.

17. Take a picture of them getting busy with your girls

Thankfully for men, technology makes it possible to freeze whatever moment they want with your boobs without getting a third party involved. Rather than have an artist sit in on your most intimate moments in the bedroom or have you pose for a nude painting they’ll never get to finish, they can just snap.

Guys don’t just want to do these secret desires of theirs with you, given the chance, they want to have keepsakes too. Something physical to go with whatever new content those things will be adding to their spank bank.

18. Lube ‘em up and bunny rub

We have covered many things guys want to do with your orbs that are non-sexual, you had to have known this one was coming too. It’s boobs and guys we are talking about, after all. If they can barely resist the urge to bury their face in it and place their hand on it, what’s stopping them from thinking about introducing their joystick into the mix?

Hence, boob job. If you are packing something considerable and in a room together with a sexually active heterosexual man who is attracted to you, odds are he’s considered this. It doesn’t matter if you are his wife or you just met, most of them can’t help thinking it, even if they won’t ask.

19. Paint the canvas

Finally, and this one has everything to do with sex, things guys want to do with your boobs include a whole different type of painting. There is an entire category dedicated to it in porn, and trust me when I say it wasn’t plucked out of thin air.

If he watches porn, the thought of not just doing it with your boobs but also finishing on them has probably crossed his mind. And if the array of statistics on pornography use are anything to go by, that’s a lot of men.


What type of breast is most attractive?

There is no single answer to this as different people have their own idea of what they consider attractive. With breasts, some people like them big and jiggly, others like them small and perky, while some prefer something in between. On average, more people seem to lean towards the middle size, which is around a C-cup.

What happens if a boy touches your breast?

Generally, when a boy touches your breasts, he’s thinking along the lines of something sexual. He’s hoping to stimulate your sensitive bits to get you in the mood. This should happen with your consent, though, as well as anything else that might follow from there.

What size breast do guys like the most?

As with most things in life, the ideal size of breasts, in theory, would have to be medium as it’s the closest to either extreme. However, you should be more concerned with what breast size your guy likes, which most likely will be what you have, because, between you and me, it makes no real difference to them. 

Where do men like to be kissed?

Spots like their earlobes, neck, nipples, scrotum, and perineum are erogenous zones for men, but so is their skin. That means anywhere on a man’s body is a good enough place to kiss him as long as the kiss feels intimate.

Where do guys put their hands while kissing a girl?

Generally, guys like to let their hands stray when they are making out with a girl. With her consent, they trail their fingers across her skin as they kiss her and rest them wherever feels good from face to back to waist, depending on what they are trying to achieve.

In Conclusion

So, now that you know the things guys want to do with your boobs when you are together, how many of these would you say they shouldn’t keep a secret? Do you also believe boobs deserve all the accolades? Leave your thoughts on tits and the list in the comments, and share the post with the curious guys and women in your life to get a riveting conversation started.

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Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.

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