6 Signs Your Relationship is Not Working You Have to Know Before It's Too Late

by Michelle Devani

Everyone must have ever been in a relationship. There are so many things that happen in a relationship, like memorable things, good moments, etc. But sometimes we will face a problem in a relationship.

It is actually normal to face a bit problem whenever we have a relationship. But when it comes to the unstoppable problems is a relationship, it might be a sign that your relationship is not working. You also need to know how to end a toxic relationship.

The problems can be various in a relationship. Most cases are different arguments from one partner that might offend the other one. There is also a case when one—or both—partner feels bored with their relationship.

Not only those, there are many couples that have a toxic relationship, where the partner hurt them physically. These are some examples of any problems that can cause a relationship to end.

But if you are the ones that feel bored, you need to know why you get bored in a relationship so easily. In order to know whether your relationship is going well or not, here are some signs if your relationship is not working.

  • There is no trustworthiness

In a relationship, being trustworthy is really important. If you and your partner don’t trust each other anymore, it might be a sign of a bad relationship. This feeling might happen if a partner doesn’t love each other, or feel really bored about their relationship.

Maybe one of you always lying about anything. If you somehow telling lies to your partner, is might be causing big problems in relationship. It is a hard thing to fix, because once you lost trust on your partner, every problem might follow.

You need to remember that one of the keys habit to build a successful relationship is trusting each other. So, you can start questioning your trustworthiness in your relationship.

  • Never get satisfied with partner

This is one of the most common things that happens in a relationship. It is good if one of the partners want to change the other to be a better person. But when it comes to never get satisfied with the other partner, it might be a problem to their relationship.

It can indicate that they don’t love their partner just the way they are. They always want more from their partner, and they want to change them based on what they think is best. It is not a good sign in a relationship, and it is going to make it hard to continue the relationship.

  • There is no support from your partner

Supporting each other is really important in a relationship. In the beginning of a relationship, most of the partner will stand for each other. But if your relationship is not working, your partner won’t support you whatsoever.

They won’t care about what you are doing, because maybe they don’t have feeling for you anymore. If this happens, you need to recognize any other signs whether your relationship is working or not.

If your partner shows that they don’t care about you, they don’t trust you, or anything, it might be your time to end the relationship.

  • Only see the weakness

In a relationship, it is important to know about the strong and weak part of your partner. But when your partner only talks about your weakness, this can lead to a bad relationship.

If you receive the bad words from your partner over and over again about your weakness, it can lead to a mental problem. So, you know that if your partner always talks about your weakness, you need to end the relationship.

  • You can’t be your real self

Do you feel like you have become your real self around your partner? If you don’t, it is not a good sign for you to maintain your relationship. Keeping a good image over and over again in front of your partner is equal to lying to yourself.

It will cause you to be unhappy if you choose to maintain your relationship with your partner. But if your partner still accepts your real self after you show it, it might be a sign that your relationship is going well.

  • You feel like you are not happy with your partner

A good relationship should be filled with love and happiness for both partners. But if you feel sad, burdened, and stressful in your relationship, it is one of the signs that your relationship is not working. But don’t judge too quickly.

You need to recognize the other signs mentioned above to decide whether your relationship is working or not. If you are sure that there is no love anymore between you and your partner, it is better for you to end the relationship. You also need to know how to lead a happy and peaceful life in a simple way.

Remember that you deserve to be loved by someone. You need to be happy in a relationship. If you recognize the signs above in your relationship, you might need to consider to end it.

You can also seek for moral support and advice from your friends and family. You also need to believe that someday you will meet the best partner that will make you happy.

Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.