Ways On How To Get Your Boyfriend To Change His Ways

Last updated on June 7, 2022 by Michelle Devani

In a relationship, we often go to the different side with our boyfriend. The way he did things or make a decision doesn't match with us and we wish him change his ways. But it isn't easy at all. Make someone to change his mind should be done carefully without offending the other side. If you are facing the same problem with this, here are good ways on how to get your boyfriend to change his ways.

1. Don't Get Upset

When things goes not as we planned or as we want, it's natural to get upset. We demand him to change right there and then. We can't control ourselves and burst out to him. This is not good and won't bring any good as well. Pull yourself together, keep calm and stay cool.

2. Don't Be Angry

don't be angry

Being upset makes us easily get angry to our boyfriend. Anger only led to fight and he will end up thinking how childish you are to be driven by your emotion. Be collected and hold your anger. If you become really angry, just be quiet and leave the scene. Come back when you have become a little calmer. Fighting too much is a Signs of an Unhealthy Relationship with Boyfriend.

3. Don't Tell Him To Change

If you want someone to change his way, never tell him to. This only make him angry and offended. Instead, tell him calmly and slowly, ask him is there no other way better? Give him some time to think about his decision, the more you give him time, the clearer he can think and likely to change his mind. This is a part of the Things to Do to Prove You Love Your Boyfriend.

4. Don't Confront Him

Some people are straightforward about what they like and don't like. If you don't like the way your boyfriend take and you are not the type who could hold it back, you confront him right away. Telling that you disagree with him and want him to change his way. Never ever do that, or soon he will show the Signs He Has Given Up on the Relationship with you.

5. Talk Calmly

Fighting him with hot blood and emotion will not make him change his ways. So in order to change his mind, talk to him calmly with zero anger. Just talk like the way you usually talk about trivial things. This way he won't be offended because your thoughts are not the same as his. Calmly talk to him shows your maturity and true Wife Material Signs on you.

6. Tell Him How You Feel

It's important to be honest about how you feel. If you want him to change his ways and if you disagree with him in any ways, be true and tell him. Give him some reasonable grounds of why you disagree with him.

7. Give Him Another Perspective

Before deciding something, we need to look at a problem from many different angels and perspective. So that the decision was made through a careful thinking process. If his ways could be change by it, the try it. Give him another perspective that could change his mind. He could see the problem he's facing in a different side.

8. Ask Help From A Friend

ask help from a friend

When you stuck in talking to him and ask him to change his ways, seek help from his friends. You can ask that friend what is the best methods to make his changes his way. Your boyfriend is not the only one needs a different perspective. You do too. By sharing with a friend you may find out that you are too hard on him and you need to be a little softer.

9. See Everything From His Shoes

It's easy for another person to talk about this and that when someone is in trouble. That is simply because we don't know how does it feel to be stand on his shoes. You never know how hard something is for a person unless you are or have been in a similar situation. So try to understand his position and see the problem from his point of view.

10. Give Him Some Time To Think

The problem your boyfriend face may be not the easy one and he will need some time to think about it. Give him the privilege to think as long as he wish. Don't push him too hard or taking part during the decision making process. Let him thinking about it thoroughly and wait whether he change his ways and land in a new decision or not. Even if he's not, you don't need to get angry or upset over that.

11. Appreciate Him

In the end, praise him and appreciate him for everything he's done. He may not do things according to your wish but put your trust in him that what he did is best for him, and of course for you. It's good for him to see your mature side when he's having a hard time.

12. Encourage The Positive Behavior

One good way on how to get your boyfriend to change his ways is praising him for the positive behavior. When he seems to change his mind, encourage him with positive things and praise him. This way he'll know that he actually make the right decision.

So those are the useful ways on how to get your boyfriend to change his ways. No matter how much you want his to change, never use the hard way because the impact is not very good for your relationship. Keep up with him while slowly tell him to change his ways. If he truly love you, he'll listen to you and change for his own good.

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Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.