Ways to Tell Your Boyfriend What He Means to You without Words

by Michelle Devani

The simplest, fastest, and probably easiest way to let your boyfriend knows how much he means to you is by saying I love you. But everyone can say I love you effortlessly and sometimes not really mean it. It's why you need to put act beyond words in order to tell your boyfriend what he means to you.

Your boyfriend will be pleased to hear "I love you" or maybe he's not expecting you to do anything because he loves you just the way you are. You don't have to try so hard to tell him. Just little things to show your kindness will make him beyond happy. It resulted in more love, passion, and trust in your relationship.

You don't need to buy him expensive gifts, because love is not all about material things. Here are more ways to tell your boyfriend what he means to you without words:

1. Massage Him on His Shoulder

At the end of day, after a long and tiring day of works, you can drop by to your boyfriend's place to relieve some of his pain. He will appreciate it a lot when you give him massage on the shoulder. It shows that you understand him a lot and he will never need to questioned your love for him. See also How to Tell Your Boyfriend You Love Him for the First Time 

2. Listening to His Story

The way to show him that you love him is by becoming a good listener. Most people just want someone to listen to him, since the fact the person sacrifices some of his time shows that they care. Whatever he wants to talk, whether it's the story of his day at work or he wants to discuss about the latest issues, get your ears always ready for him.

3. Let Him Have a Boys Night Out

No matter how old your boyfriend gets, he is always a little boy in the inside. When your boyfriend loves you so much, he considers your feeling a lot. He may realize that you don't like it when he hangs out with his friends a lot. Give him a free boys night out to spend with his friends, without any disturbance from you. See also Tips to Keep Your Man Happy in A Relationship

4. Giving Him What He Needs Before He Knows It

If you love someone, you must know that person better than his own self. Prove that you care about him beyond words by looking deeper to his soul. Give him something that he needs, even before he knows it. If he has given up his weekend for his friends, tell him that he can go travel together with them instead of you. At first he won't realize why he needs it but once he returns from his trip, he will be grateful to you.

5. Complimenting Him

Be his number one fan by admiring every little thing he does. Tell him that he looks handsome and that he does very well in his job. Those thing assure him that you love him that much. Appreciate him for what he has done, not something that you might get. When he tells you that he gets promotion at work, instead of saying "Treat me for some dinner" you better say "Oh my God, finally they recognize your hard work!" See also If Your Boyfriend Never Compliments You, What It Means?

6. Become a Mother for Him

As mentioned above, a little boy is living inside your boyfriend no matter how old he gets. What a little boy need more than a mother? No one. It's a good chance if your boyfriend is living away from his mother. Try to be a mother figure for him so that he will always feel loved. Remind him to eat three times a day and give him all sorts of attention.

7. Support Him in Reaching His Dream

Everyone is living for his dreams, so is he. There must be many things he wants to achieve. If he shares all his dreams and goals with you (and involving you in all those) it means he loves you a lot. Now it's your turn to show him that you love him as much as he does. How? By supporting him in achieving his dreams. Even when you can do nothing to help him, just by staying on his side and cheer for him is enough. See also How to Make A Boy Fall in Love with You Without Talking to Him at All

8. Let Him Have the Remote

A simple act can be the best ways to tell your boyfriend what he means to you. When you are watching TV together, give the remote to him and let him switch on whatever channel he wants. If you usually forced him to watch a melodrama which he hates, now it's your turn to stand the 90 minutes long of his favorite soccer match. Love is all about making your significant other happy, isn't it?

9. Prepare His Breakfast

If you do care about him, the last thing you want is for him to fall sick. You can't let him go to work with empty stomach. Making breakfast on his own is troublesome and he'd rather having a cup of coffee instead. Reminding him not to skip breakfast is easy, but preparing his breakfast is a way to show you love him. Have the food sent to his office before he even reach his table! See also How to Make Your Boyfriend Deeply Fall in Love with You

10. Gifting Him with Silence

There are times when he wants some peace and silence. Not that he doesn't care about you or he gets bored, all he wants is relaxed. And if he can't enjoy some silence together with you, it means he gets comfortable with you. He may feel like he's in heaven by finding the peace within himself.

11. Caring for Him

He might find it bothersome if you keep call and text him all day. You don't need to. But make sure you're always there in the crucial time: early morning, lunchtime, and before bed to show that you care about him a lot.

If relationship is a plant, than you need it to fertilize it everyday for it to grow healthy. Loving, caring, and being reliable is the best fertilizer so that your plant could live for a long time. Remember that showing love requires more effort than just a word.

Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.