How To Tell If A Gemini Man Is Playing You?

Last updated on June 18, 2022 by Michelle Devani

Those who are in love are the one who is really hard to be given an advice. They can fall easily into misunderstanding.

Because of love, people can do such a bad thing for the one that they love even without knowing whether they are being played by their loved ones or not.

They can't even tell on how to tell if someone is playing mind games with you. But, remember that you need to love yourself first. And not to get lost on love, here are some ways to know how to tell if a Gemini man is playing you.

1. Make Lies Through Inconsistent Story

Gemini are gifted with the ability to tell a story, they are known as a good story-teller as well. Through the gift that Gemini has, we can see whether he is playing us or not, through the story that he told us.

There is a significant difference between the signs a shy Gemini man likes you and a Gemini who is playing you. The one who is playing you will have an inconsistent story. The story usually about his feelings about you. He might say he likes you to you, but what he will say to other people will be different.

2. A Smooth Talker When It Comes To What He Wants

a smooth talker when it comes to what he wants

The second thing that you can notice from a Gemini man who is only playing with you is a smooth talker Gemini man. He will be a smooth talker when it comes to what he wants, just his wants.

And if you think that by obeying to what he wants is one of the ways to make A Gemini man falling in love, you are wrong. Because Gemini loves challenge. He will ask anything he wants from you, but he won't even want to fulfill what you want from him.

3. He Does Not Want To Bring You Anywhere

Lastly, someone who is playing with you certainly does not have the intention to have a serious relationship with you. It will be harder to see things clearly whether he does not want to have a serious relationship with you or showing the signs of someone is playing hard to get.

He will keep distracting the conversation that you have with him when you are asking where your relationship with him will go. He won't even ask you to join him to go somewhere with him.

Gemini Man Bad Traits

Knowing some signs on how to tell if a Gemini man is playing you of course you will need to know some of Gemini man bad personality traits too. Knowing these will help you to know him better too.

Maybe these are some of the things you didn't know about Gemini, so here are some.

1. Moody

It is not a secret anymore that those who fall into Gemini zodiac sign will have the moody emotion. The condition around them may affect the way they feel about something. They can be triggered into a certain emotion so easily.

Because of this unpredictable mood swing from Gemini man, we need to have some ability not to be drown into their mood swing. Knowing some frenemy characteristics and how to deal with it is a good start.

2. Easily Get Bored

easily get bored

This may not be something strange or new to be known from a Gemini that Gemini is easily to be bored. This can be a good thing but this can also be a bad thing to deal with, especially to those who are not familiar with this Gemini traits.

There are some things to do when bored with your best friends at home that you can start to apply to get the conversation goes without any boredom.

3. Lazy

Gemini is a smart person indeed. But, this does not mean that Gemini loves to study. They love to try and learn new things but not necessarily study about it.

They have different interest at the same time that can make their focus separated. And not knowing how to handle or prioritize several things first can fail Gemini man at work.

Hopefully by knowing how to tell if a Gemini man is playing you, you will be able to find the one who loves you and you love.

It will take some time to find a partner who is suitable to you, but it will be worth it. More things you can know before you decided to date someone such as things you need to know about dating a partner who doesnt show affection.

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Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.