The Gemini in general is extroverted and dynamic with their bold personality traits and interests attract the other signs. When it comes to love for the Gemini man, it is easy for them to fall head over heels and, like any prince attracted to a princess in a fairy tale storybook, they will try to sweep you off your feet.
Unfortunately, like any fairy tale storybook, the reality of it is not as easy. Despite them being Prince Charming, it is unknown when the clock will strike midnight and the relationship is over.
Before we understand how we can get our Prince Gemini back, here are some reasons as to why he might leave you:
The Gemini needs spontaneity in his life. He's not one to be tied down because he craves change and constantly needs excitement in his life.
As mentioned previously, he can't be tied down, otherwise he'll be like a ticking time bomb waiting to explode at any time. It may be because you're too demanding or you're pushing him to be more committed to the relationship. He won't let anyone trap them in this kind of situation.
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The Gemini man is not someone dependable or reliable. Since he needs excitement, don't be surprised to find him constantly moving around. In order to be happy, he needs to make spontaneous choices, and he needs change and variety.
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A Gemini man that is genuinely committed will make a great companion. However, it is not easy to get him back once he's left as he can be unreliable.
Looking at the Gemini's symbol of the Twins, they are looking for someone to complete them. He needs someone to understand him especially since he is stubborn. If he's been hurt before in the past, he will hide those emotions deep down, so much that he will never reach that core where he hid those emotions. As a result, others won't be able to understand him either. Though it will be difficult to reach these hidden feelings, it will be worth it once you understand just the kind of beautiful personality he has deep down.
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The Gemini needs room to breathe. More than anything they need their independence, so it is incredibly important that you accept the freedom and space that he needs. Before deciding to pick up that cellphone and dialing your ex's number, be sure that you've given him enough space to breathe. Otherwise, he'll feel suffocated.
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While the Gemini is not the most jealous sign, they need attention. Knowing that he likes challenges and trying new things, present him with gifts that will be a new kind of adventure for him. Make him feel important, because if you don't give him the amount of attention he needs, then it may not be long before he brings it up in conversation.
If you're dating a Gemini man and you don't want to lose him, here are some tips on how to keep him:
Being able to communicate with him is a key part of dating a Gemini. They are natural-born communicators, so you will enjoy spending time with him.
He'll be different around you and around his family or strangers, so don't be surprised if you see him being two-faced (note: it's not intentional or personal, it's just his way of adapting). He's also very busy since he has lots of projects going on in his life.
Being the social butterfly that he is, you need to make sure that you stand out from his other friends.
The Gemini man won't hesitate to lend a helping hand, so always appreciate the little things he does.
Stereo-typically speaking, it may be normal for most women to want their partner to treat them like royalty. For the Gemini man though, don't expect him to come over with a bouquet of roses with fireworks in the background. He likes to keep things simple, don't expect much and don't ask for much either.
Keep things between you interesting. If you need to pack up your things in case he asks you travel across the world with him, do it. He lives for new adventures, so keep things interesting.
Dating a Gemini man can seem like a hassle, but if you try hard enough, you'll realize just how worth it it is to keep them. Don't give up on getting them back either, cause they can bring so much fun and adventure into your life.
Does it feel like pulling teeth getting him to say how he feels about you?
Some men can be very gaurded and closed when it comes to expressing how they feel - it can almost feel like they are pulling away from you. Many women make the mistake of pushing their man to say how they feel, but this is actually one of the worst things you can do as it can push him away further.
To get him to really show you how he feels and communicate how much he appreciates you, there's one simple thing, although often overlooked, thing you can say to him today that taps into how men are wired and can often lead to them suddenly pouring their heart out. My friend recorded a quick free video (click to watch) that shows exactly how to do that.