6 Signs Someone is Toxic for You - Say Goodbye to Them!

by Michelle Devani

There are many people around us. It is whether our friends, family, or even someone we just met a few times ago. But among all of them, there might be someone or people who is toxic.

They might be being toxic towards their partner, children, or anyone else. We might don’t recognize them as a toxic person at first. But once we look further, we can recognize it. You can also learn some signs a family member doesn't like you.

A toxic person needs to be stopped. This is because they might have hurt someone close to them. They might have physically or verbally hurt their partner, friend, or family.

It will lead the people around toxic person to a mental problem, having any physical wound, etc. That is why you need to know some signs of a toxic person. Here are how to tell whether someone is toxic or not.

  • Always criticize other

If you know someone who is always criticizing other, it might indicate that they are a toxic person. A toxic person usually wants everyone around them to follow their rules, and not afraid to criticize people around them.

They tend not to hear about what other people say to them, but always try to correct what people do. If you find someone who always criticize people, try to talk to them about that.

If they are mad at your reaction, it might mean that they are a toxic person. Just in case, you also need to know some signs you need to let a friend go.

  • There is no sympathy

One of a sign of toxic person is they usually don’t have any sympathy to others. If there is someone who needs help, someone who are in trouble, and anything else, people normally will show their sympathy.

But a toxic person usually doesn’t care about other people’s problem, and not showing any sympathy to anyone who is having a problem. Even toxic people don’t care about someone who is being their victim.

So, in a rude way to say, they are heartless to people’s problem. You might also need to know how to end a toxic relationship.

  • They won’t apologize

If someone realize about their mistake, they will apologize. Even if they are not saying “sorry” to other people, they will act like they are sorry. But for toxic people, they don’t feel sorry for their mistakes. Even though they have hurt other people, they don’t feel like they are wrong.

Toxic people won’t even regret their mistakes, because they always feel like they are right. This is dangerous, because there might be a lot victim of the toxic people. Maybe people around them have been hurt physically and get their mental health affected.

If you know someone who has never apologize about their mistake, you better not looking for any trouble with them. Instead, try to contact people around them, and help the people who needs help.

  • They like to manipulate others

This is what makes toxic people hard to be stopped. Toxic people tend to manipulate people around them, to make them feel safe. They manipulate people because they want to control them.

Toxic people also want to dominate other people, and by doing that the victims would feel powerless. Toxic people will do anything to achieve their dreams, so they won’t be afraid to lie to other people.

If someone tries to manipulate you or your close friends, make sure to not get affected by it. You can also remind your friends to not get manipulated by toxic people.

  • Not being consistent

Most of the toxic people are not consistent with their words. This is because they tend to manipulate people around them, without thinking about the consequences of their words.

If someone reminds them of their promises or anything, they are going to deny it. They never really be on time in any appointments they have made before. But it doesn’t mean that all the people that never make it to their appointments on time are toxic people.

If you are suspicious about whether someone is toxic or not, they don’t only have one criteria of a toxic person. If they have some criteria mentioned above, it might indicate that they are a toxic person. Also read signs its time to let go of someone you love.

  • Always look for someone’s mistake

A toxic person tends to think that they are the only one who is right. They always want people to think that they are not wrong, and feel happy if they dominate people.

That is why a toxic person used to look for someone’s mistake. They want to make other people feel inferior around them. They want to blame anything to people around them.

No wonder a toxic person never wants to apology for their mistakes. You probably also need to know how to say prevent someone from doing something.

If you have ever met someone with the criteria above, it might indicate that they are a toxic person. You can try to avoid them, help their victims, and tell other people to be careful with them.

Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.