What Does It Means When A Guy Calls You Complicated? Is It A Bad Thing?

by Michelle Devani

Girls are always right. Girls can say one thing but means the other, and that's fine. Guys should be the one who take all the blame and be on the wrong side. These kind of sayings might be very familiar to some of you. People say this a lot, but sometimes we girls just don't get it.

Sometimes we feel like all we want is not that complicated. We wonder what does it mean when a guy calls you complicated. Here are few possible meaning that could answer your question:

1. You Don't Say What You Feel Out Loud

Sometimes a guy called you complicated because you simply don't speak out. You don’t tell people what you feel. You keep it inside and just don't want to open your mouth.

This is not a very good thing, especially in a relationship. This is why a guy would usually says, "A girl is just too complicated for me to understand". Why? It's not because you actually are complicated, but because you don't say things out loud.

You can't just get pissed off and think why doesn't my boyfriend understand my depression. Learn to know what to say to your boyfriend when you are mad at him  instead of going all quiet yet mad inside. Boys, if you know this is one of your struggle, and your girl is an introvert, you need to try out on ways to get an introvert to open up emotionally.

2. You Demand A Lot

you demand a lot

When your guy doesn't understand what you feel, doesn't know what you want, you feel sad and disappointed. You want a guy to be someone who's totally caring and all sensitive.

You want someone who would know you inside out. But the thing is, no one on earth is like that, except your mother. A guy is not a fortune teller who can tell what’s inside your head and heart. Please be more communicative and don't be the one who others have to understand.

3. He's Just Lazy

When a guy loves someone, he will try to figure out what she likes and dislikes, how should he treats her, etc. If he then just said that you're complicated, perhaps he's just too lazy to love you fully. He wants you to love him but he's just too lazy to get to know you properly.

This kind of guy isn't that worth fighting for, though. This kind of guy might be all romantic, but he wouldn't persevere, since he gives up even before he tried to understand you. Boys, sometimes it's you who need to figure out what to do when a girl randomly stops texting you, instead of taking your hands off.

4. You Take Things Too Seriously

What does it mean when a guy calls you complicated? Perhaps you take things too seriously that it all becomes complicated. Even simple things could be complicated if you take it in the wrong way or wrong side. Try to reduce your anxiety and drama, try to live more peacefully and simply.

There are things that should be put at its place and still. But there are things that you should take care of more. Learn to distinguish between these two. Your boyfriend stresses you out often?

You need to know what to do when your boyfriend gives you anxiety, but sometimes you need to let go and make sure whether it's important or actually not.

5. You're Both Black And White

you're both black and white

Some people are just hard to decide. They are not trained and taught enough to make decisions about things in a wise and proper way. When people ask what do you want to eat burger or pasta, you said up to that person. But then when that person choose one, you would be all sulky and not pleased.

Most of the time, this is the case. So, learn how to make decisions that will not make people get confused. Stay on your track instead of going along with the wind.

Sometimes it feels bad when people get sulky and said that we are complicated. What does it means when a guy calls you complicated? It can mean a lot. It can be bad, it can be a sign that something need to be changed.

You need to look on the situation and perhaps asking that person which one is the reason. That way you can be sure and not assuming things, again. You can know better what to do, so that you wouldn't be a burden for anyone else and you can even live in a better way.

Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.