How to Make Your Ex Girlfriend Desperately Want You Back

Last updated on July 2, 2024 by Michelle Devani

If you are reading this you surely are going through a harsh break up with your girlfriend and looking for solutions all over the internet on how can you get her back into your loving arms. Going through a break up is a nightmarish time to experience for some, the roller coaster of emotion, the sweet and bitter memories that haunts you every time and the feeling of emptiness that follows you everywhere you go.

How to Make Your Ex Girlfriend Desperately Want You Back

Break ups happens for many reasons and the thing that you want to avoid after a break up is not that break up itself, but it is the short period of time after it. don't jump the gun by kneeling to your ex saying that you are sorry for not being perfect man for her, that will not flatter her it will only make her disgust in you because you are that crybaby.

Calm yourself up and asses the situation and if your ex girlfriend is the love of your live and all you want in this world is to get her back worry not my friend, just sit down, calm your mind and read through this article deeply because from here on out you are preparing yourself to get the love of your live back while looking cool doing it.

  1. Improve Your Life

How to make your ex girlfriend desperately want you back? Sitting alone in the corner of your room crying because your ex girlfriend leaving you and posting a sad picture or making a sad status will not make her feel bad for leaving you, you will not get the result that you are hoping you will get from her doing that instead she will feel that you are a weak and fragile man.

Pick yourself up, get up, and force yourself up into a new work projects or study. You will allocate your mind and heart from being sad because of her into a more productive thing to do. Don't forget to post every each one of your productive activity to your social media and make sure that your ex girlfriend see the post.

She will surely regret leaving you because you are no longer the man that she used to think of, you are now a much brighter and more successful version of yourself, she will find a way on how to get your love and attention back to her. (read also: Ways to Make Your Ex Girlfriend Jealous and Want You Back)

2. Improve Your Physical Appearance

 One of the easiest way to make her desperately want you back is through regret and one of the way to make her regret breaking up with you is by making your physical appearance more appealing than ever before. Spend time to go to the gym to shape up your mishapped body, get a new haircut at your trusted barbershop to look fresher and ask your stylish friend to accompany you to the nearest shopping mall to do clothes shopping.  

And once again if you want this step to work, use your social media account as a weapon. Post a status or a picture whenever your going to the gym, when you get a fresh haircut, and your new overall appearance. One way or another she will see your drastic change from a couch potato to the handsome guy that she admire everyday on intagram, believe me my friend she will eventually crawl back to you in no time. (read also: Tips to Make Your Ex Jealous and Want You Back – Sweet Revenge!)

3. Stop Contacting Her Every Now and Then 

Pick yourself up man, don't be a weakling and rely too much on her, you wont get the result that you are hoping to get. She won't sympathize on you just because you seems won't be able to live your normal live without her, you will only be seen as a weak and fragile man, not something that a girl will look up to to a man that should have an everlasting relationship with her.

Try to get busy over something that is beneficial towards you, this will keep your fingers away from blasting through her phone by your multiple text and calls. She will realize something odd because whenever you broke up with her you will contact her every now and then but this time you are ghosting on her. She will feel the emptiness of being left alone by someone that who used to care so much about her, she will surely try many ways to get you back. (read also: How Long Should You Wait to Call Your Ex Girlfriend?

4. Try To Look as Calm as You Can

Even though the feelings of disappointment running through your mind and sadness is the one who fill out your heart try not to get drown by it. Don't go through the social media looking sad and broken, because this is not something that a matured man should do. Girls surely love a matured man who got the solution of every situation that he is in because it portrays someone that reliable and calm, this is what a girl look for in every man, not only as a lover but you can be her life partner. You may also find out: Ways to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back from Another Guy

Do all your routines normally act if there is nothing that happening to you, show her that you can still reach out all your goals and dreams without her, she will regret the decision that she make dumping a matured man who has all his future planned out. You may also find out: Ways to Deal with a Hot and Cold Ex Girlfriend

5. Try To Avoid Her

This escape strategy is very useful because you want her to miss and wonder how are you know. If you are invited to a party or a event by a mutual friend that knows both of you, try to avoid it all cost. This will make curious on how are you right now and try to dig in any information about you as a form of missing you.

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Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.
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