25 Reasons Why You Should Date The Outgoing Introvert

by Michelle Devani

Reasons why you should date the outgoing introvert? Introvert, who are they? An introvert is one type of personality type who prefer to be alone rather than hang out with friends. These people usually have such features; more silent, a thinker, preferring to tell stories in writing, do more work than talking, and else. Do you have an introverted boyfriend? Why do you have to date out with introverts? Please, consider these following explanation.

Introverted boyfriends can make you happier

Although introverts are people who like solitude. In fact, they have an interesting personality when they date with you. Below here are some reasons why you should date the outgoing introvert.

1. Introverts are independent

Introverts are people who understand themselves. This is very good because they are a very independent figure.

2. More mysterious

Are you searching a mysterious person? The introvert is the one. They always make curious people around him. This is what makes other people interested in them. If you love the mysterious ones, choose he, the introvert.

3. Introverts are more comfortable with you

Introverts tend to prefer to spend time with a special person, just like you are his lover. Are you happy to have plenty of time with her? It is so, romantic.

4. Can take care of others

He understands very well with himself. So, what about understands to others? They are a person who is very considerate because they like to be near you.

5. They are faithful people

An introvert makes him a faithful character. This loyalty is a reason because they do not want to start a new relationship with a person who is completely unknown.

6. Challenge for you extrovert soul

If introvert and extrovert relationships are put together this relationship will be very interesting. The relationship that they lead will usually lead to a more serious relationship. Meanwhile, that's all reasons why you should date the outgoing introvert.

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The signs if introvert really have a crush on you

An introvert is usually quite difficult to express his feelings. However, now you can easily recognize the sign that he started to crush on you. Let's check these out.

1. Find out who you are

He's trying to secretly find out who you are, then this is the first sign he started to crush on you. He will able to be around near you.

2. Like to catch your sight

Are you and him in the same activity? Try to look at him and finds him out. if you can catch him when he sees you. That means he likes you. Just go on.

3. Looks happy

When you see him, talk to you even just hear your voice. He looks very happy. It is a mean he really likes on you, girls. What will you do next? 

4. Likes to ask back

Rarely does an introvert like to ask the other person. But this can happen if he has liked someone, like you.

5. Start opening up with you

When he starts talking about himself, it means he's trying to start opening himself up to you, girls. He believes that you are the right person for him.

6. Talking about personal topics

After he has dared to open himself before you, he will not hesitate to discuss the personal topic. In here you can understand, and their habits that they like and dislike.

7. Show his attention

Go to work or school together. In fact, he wants to accompany you anywhere. This is a proof that the introvert likes you so much.

8. Share some of his secrets

If he has shared a personal secret with you, congratulations you are a special person in his heart. The introvert will not be easy to share his secret except to those that he really believes.

9. Be a good listener

Do you have a problem? Just tell him. The introvert will be a faithful listener for you. In fact, he will try to provide the right solution for you. How, are you interested going on dating him?

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Tips the first date with an Introvert

The reason why you should go out with introverts is undoubted, they are a very caring person. The next stage, if you want to plan to do a date with them, then you will need some tips below.

1. Be your self

The first date with introverts, changing a little dress style is okay, as long as it keeps you and him comfortable. Remind this choose the outfits that be your self.

2. Meet at the favorite place

First date, what choice should be the right place? Talk to him and determine the favorite places that you and him like.

3. Do the hobbies activity

Still confused, what is supposed to do on your first date? Just do the hobbies that both of you like, such as reading books, playing pool, swimming, even eating at your favorite restaurant.

4. Tell the truth

If anyone stuck on the first date, you should say honestly. Just tell it honestly. It will be better than being silent.

5. Just the two of you

If you want to better understand him, you should be dating only you two. This moment, you will spend more time with him. You will find out, who is he?

6. Drink a little

Are you have little nervous on the first date? Maybe you need to drink a little to be more relaxed. Remember, for this one limit your drink. 

7. Start an interesting chat

Start a chat that catches his attention, just ask about a hobby or something that he likes. Give a little humor to melt the tense atmosphere on your first date. Surely he would love it too.

8. Make sure he is comfortable with you

The most important thing to date out with introverts is to make sure he is comfortable dating you. If you see her silent and pull away, that's a sign that he's not comfortable dating with you.

9. Mutual compromise

If you have an idea you should compromise with him first. Who knows your idea might look good, but not for him. Communicate everything with him.

10. Grow his confidence

Do you want to meet him with your friends? It's okay, as long as you should also be able to grow his confidence. Just say, that all will be fine and do as usual. Make sure you are always with him, okay.

Finally, Introverts are people with different personalities and they can make us feel good. With the right steps, you can also approach them even dating out with them. Good luck.

Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.