What Can I Do If I Feel Bored of My Boyfriend but I Don't Wanna Break Up

Last updated on June 14, 2022 by Michelle Devani

Do you feel bored with your boyfriend? Tired of the same routine? Need something new in your life? If your relationship has taken a down toll then you have an issue.

Don’t be alarm if you have that feeling, its normal in a relationship. Its never all beautiful and sunshine, what you need to is a change. A change in your daily routine, try activities together with your boyfriend which you haven’t done before.

Here are some tips for both of you and your boyfriend to try out

1. Do something new

Bored with your routine? Right then change it. You probably made a schedule, for a typical routine from the moment you wake up to coming back from work.

How about changing it, you don’t have to follow your regular schedule, you can either add or eliminate part of your routine.

For instance, morning routine you always have coffee with your partner. You can replace coffee with tea instead. It has healthy benefit like cleansing your body from toxic. You can also try working out together, not only its good for getting into shape but also it helps build up your relationship.

2. Try a staycation

One of the best relationship booster Is staycation why? Because it require less money, little traveling and less planning.

You can either find the cheapest hotel the city has to offer or stay at home plan something fun that both of you can do together. What Can I Do If I Feel Bored of My Boyfriend? We Haven’t Texted Much Recently and Sometimes I feel I Don’t Love Him Anymore

Staycation activities doesn’t have to be complicated, you can do random things such as Laser tag what better way of running around the house and shooting each other with plastic bullets but mind you not to rack the house.

You can also have a fun picnic in the backyard if you don’t have a backyard no problem you can have it in the middle of the living room. You can re decorate the living room to your best imagination.

3. Date Night  is a must

According Psychologist, having a weekly date night can help couples interact well with each other. They can actually learn more about themselves and each other. when we hear date night, we might assume expensive candle light dinner in a fancy restaurant well not all the time. 

Instead of having take out, try cooking. Polish your cooking skills together with your partner. If its too much work then go karaoke and sing cheesy love song. Together you and your partner enjoying a couple of drinks and singing songs. Its doesn’t matter if your can or cant sing since it’ll only be the two of you. You may also read about Why Do I Get Bored in Relationships So Easily?

4. Get out of your comfort zone

Sometimes you and your partner do things that makes you feel comfortable. Well not this time, challenge yourself try things that you wont dare do it. You can try a bucket list of things that might be too much for you. But that’s the beauty of it.

Play games that has high stakes like strip poker or ping pong, Whoever loses will have to strip or will have to do what the winner says. That should spices things up in this relationship. You may also read about Why Am I Suddenly Not Attracted to My Boyfriend Anymore? 

So those were some of the tips, both you and your partner could try to have a more better and  exciting relationship.

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Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.
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