What Does It Mean When A Virgo Man Ignores You? (13 Possible Reasons)

by Michelle Devani

Are you being ignored by a Virgo man, even though he previously seemed to really like you? 

Are you wondering why or how he could behave in such a manner? Does it not make any logical sense to you? 

Well, the answer could be found in the typical personality of the Virgo. There are several aspects of their personality that could lead to them ignoring someone who was previously very close to them.

For this reason, it’s possible to list the main reasons why a Virgo man would choose to ignore you, and that’s exactly what I’ve done in the guide below. 

This online communications tracker tool could also prove useful. It is able to discreetly infiltrate a man’s personal devices and send you data based on his communications. 

As such, you’ll be able to see how often he’s using his phone, who he’s contacting and what online services he’s using. 

Needless to say, this’ll show you whether you’re being ignored deliberately and the reasons why. 

This tool therefore provides the quickest and most effective way to find out why this guy isn’t returning your calls and messages.

But, with that said, let’s take a look at some of the most common reasons why a Virgo man might choose to do this, even when you have previously had a strong relationship.

13 Possible Reasons A Virgo Man Is Ignoring You

1. He may need space

As mentioned, your Virgo man may just need his space. If that’s the case, go ahead and get busy doing other things so that you won’t miss him too much and he can have the room he needs! Take up a new hobby or enjoy your passion in life. Love chocolate? Hit the ice cream shop and throw in a good movie! Just enjoy YOUR alone time!

2. He may want to end the relationship

he may want to end the relationship

There is always the possibility he is ready to end the relationship. If that’s the case, you should think about whether you want to fight for a man who doesn’t want to be with you for whatever reason. If he’s worth fighting for, go over the many ways to win his heart, and get to work. Buy him flowers; write him a love letter; do whatever it takes, right? 

3. He may be uncertain of your feelings for him

Virgo men can be insecure in relationships at times. If he thinks you are not serious about him and wants to have things go better with you, you may need to reassure him that you love him and want to be with him. If it’s easier, I suggest writing out what you want to say on paper and then reading it to him in person. He’ll surely melt!

4. He may need time away from you

Sometimes, guys just need a little distance from the women in their lives. That doesn’t mean that he wants to end things for good. He may just need the time to miss you in the way he should. If he needs it, give it to him. It will give you time to miss him as well!

5. He may be feeling insecure about his feelings for you

There’s always the possibility that he feels like his feelings are stronger for you than how you feel for him. Maybe you need to express yourself more clearly. Again, you could write a love letter if you think this could be describing your boyfriend.

6. He may just be busy

The reality is that he is probably busy with other things and just forgot to let you know that. He may have gotten caught up in a work meeting, got lost in a book at the library, or got stuck in a line at the bank. Maybe his cell battery died, and he didn’t have a way to let you know what’s going on. He may shortly clear things up for you. Just be patient.

7. He may be trying to get your attention

If he’s felt neglected, there’s a good chance he is trying to let you know you haven’t been giving him enough attention lately. Have you been watching too much television when you spend time with your Virgo? Have you been working non-stop, barely coming up for air? Do you think he might have felt neglected because of your schedule?

8. He may be playing hard to get

While it is very unlikely, he could be playing a game. Maybe he wants to show you how great you have things with him in your life. Virgo men aren’t known for playing games, but it is always a possibility with any guy.

9. He may want to reassess the status of your relationship

He may need to “think” about things. If that’s the case, go ahead and let him do that. You can do the same thing! Take whatever time and space you need to clear your head about the bond the two of you share. Are you in love with him? Do you want to continue going out with him? Are you enjoying spending time with him? Is he in love with you?

10. He may be tired of the way things are going

Usually, Virgo guys don’t want to play games. They prefer open communication, so if he’s tired of what’s going on between you two, he’d likely tell you that. He may need to clear his head, though. Maybe he is unsure of his feelings and needs time to sort them out. Allow him anything he needs because while he’s doing that, you can do the same!

11. He may not realize he is ignoring you

Sometimes, we all get lost in this world. We don’t intend to forget to call our grandmothers every week, but it happens anyway. He may have no clue that this is going on. A Virgo man is usually quite intuitive and insightful, understanding of his actions and feelings, so this is not like him, but it happens. Talk to him about it.

12. He may have another woman

he may have another woman

If you’ve felt ignored lately, there is a chance there is another woman. He may be seeing more than one person at a time. Have the two of you clarified whether you could date other people or not? Maybe this was just an oversight. I know there are often times when confusion takes place between two people, and it can cause issues.

Talk to your man about what’s going on if you suspect this to be the reason he is ignoring you. Do you think he feels stronger about someone else than he does about you? You should ask him about this. I know I would not want to be with someone who was also dating another person. I like to be the only girlfriend in the picture.

If you are concerned about this, I would first find out if he is even seeing someone else. Then, decide if you would like to date other guys. If you want to keep things casual, you could go with it. I personally would not want to be with more than one person, but that’s me. I would also find out how he feels about this other woman. 

If he feels stronger about her than he does about you, ditch him. You don’t need to take second place in this game. I would stand up for myself and not let any woman knock me down. However, if you just want a casual partnership, this may not matter to you. Decide what is most important to you, and have a heart-to-heart conversation with him today.

13. He may think that you are too high maintenance

Have you exhausted this man because of your high maintenance? Do you think he needs space to regroup and recuperate? You may need to rethink how you treat him if you think this is why he is ignoring you. Because if you don’t like this treatment, you certainly won’t enjoy it in the future when he has to repeat it because you are too much.

FAQs

How do you react when a Virgo man ignores you?

If you send the wrong messages to this Zodiac sign, problems may happen. Astrology tells us that Virgo men need distance/space and freedom when they ignore us. The best thing you can do is to think about the reason/the issue that is causing discord with the Virgo guy.

Why would a Virgo ignore you?

A Virgo guy may be giving you the silent treatment as a sign that he feels too much pressure in the relationship. He could feel the need for more freedom in the relationship or feel like it is too big of a difference in your opinions of one another.

How does a Virgo man feel when ignored?

Virgos may think you are sending them mixed messages if you ignore them one minute and love them the next. These men don’t like mixed messages, and they may see that as a valid reason to end the relationship. They don’t want to play games or anything like that.

Why would a Virgo man ignore your text?

Maybe your Virgo man is caught up in a meeting or driving to and from a location. He may be in a situation that he cannot control. He could be in an elevator where there is no signal. Allow your Virgo guy the chance to explain himself.

How do you know if a Virgo man is no longer interested?

A Virgo man will let you know when he is ready for the end of the relationship. He may directly break up with you, but he will not typically play games with your heart. A Virgo man understands the pain and won’t purposefully hurt another person if he can avoid it.

To Sum It All Up

Have you been in relationships with Virgo men? What was your experience like? In your opinion, what does it mean when a Virgo man ignores you? Often, Virgo men can be quite confusing in relationships! However, they typically don’t like to hurt women. What do you think? Please share, and comment!

Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.

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