Dating with a man with a good socializing skill will be good for you. Besides his useful skills, you both usually will have a good relationship because of his ability to communicate with others.
The only problems that maybe will matter to you are just his friends. He will have many friends, including female friends. And this may make you feel jealous or insecure.
Usually, a boyfriend’s female friend won’t be a big threat to your relationship. You just have to make sure that your boyfriend is reliable and he loves you more than his friends. You also can be good friends with them, and find out how to solve misunderstandings between friends.
But if you feel in your gut that one, or two of them have those certain feelings to your man, then you have to pay more attention to him. He may show signs his friends are more important than you.
Here are the reasons why you should aware of your boyfriend’s female friends.
- They had something in their past
If your boyfriend admits that he and his female friend ever experiencing romantic interest toward each other. you shouldn’t have to worry because it means he wants to open himself to you. But if you know it from another person, you have to be aware of both of them.
2. She, or maybe they hates you and excluding you
There are maybe some signs that your friend is jealous of your relationship. It will be a horrible thing if your significant other was surrounded by persons that don’t like you. They may give bad advice to your boyfriend about your relationship, or try to do something bad to you.
3. She, or they try to flirt
Now, this is a big red sign for you. You just have to see if your boyfriend feels okay with those flirt. If he seems doesn’t comfortable, then you know that his heart only belongs to you.
Now here are some signs that you should be worried about your boyfriend’s female friends.
- They hate you
- They exclude you
- They flirt with him
- You had experienced this before
- He is upset when one of them is dating
- You feel it on your gut
- He confides with them better than with you
- They post him on their social media
- You had been warned by one of them
- He is always on his phone
- He makes you jealous
And finally, here are some ways to tell if your boyfriend’s female friends are only just a friend.
- Is she was included in his friends circle?
Have you met her in his friend’s circle while he is hanging out with his friends? If she doesn’t and his inner circle know less about her, that is the thing you should worry about.
2. Make a conversation with him about this
Tell him if you feel uncomfortable. A good boyfriend will give a good solution and support you rather than takes sides to other girls, right?
3. Does he keeps her message?
If your boyfriend did something that would make you angry, then he wouldn’t hide it.
4. Is she a new or old friend?
If she makes friend with your boyfriend after you both dating, you usually can notice some suspicious things.
5. Is there any reason why they communicate?
If they chat about personal and unimportant things, you have to find out who is she.
The last and the most important thing, you have to ensure that will your boyfriend risk himself to cheat you? You have to find out how trust-able he is, and how much you can depend on him. As long as he doesn’t show signs of a cheater guy or signs of an unfaithful man, it will be okay.