21 Ways To Love A Virgo Man

Last updated on May 12, 2024 by Michelle Devani

Would you like to know what romantic behaviors that Virgo men react well to?

Perhaps you’ve just met a fantastic Virgo and are looking for advice to seduce him? 

Or maybe you’re in a long-term relationship with a Virgo and you’re looking for new ways to show affection to him? 

Either way, this article is here to help you. It features 20 great ways to show affection to a Virgo man. 

However, it wouldn’t be right to start this guide with anything other than my #1 tip to make a man OBSESS over you. 

This isn’t something you do for him, or do to him. This is a way to flood his emotions with good feelings, so that he becomes ADDICTED to you.

I learned about this techinique a few years ago - and my love life has only got better since.  

It’s based on a primal instinct within a man’s psyche, commonly referred to as ‘The Hero’s Instinct’.

When you can learn to manage this part of his psychology, he’ll turn to putty in your hands - and he’ll love it too (read my personal story to learn more).

It would appear to work on all kinds of men, regardless of their star sign.

Still, if you’re only after Virgo-centric tips, you can scroll down for my list of ideas.


Signs A Virgo Man Is In Love With You

One of the best ways to figure out how to love someone is from their Zodiac sign. It gives you insights into who they are and what they want out of love.

If you’ve got a crush on a Virgo man and are wondering just how to give him good loving when you two wind up together, you clicked on the right article. 

First, you should have proper knowledge of this zodiac sign’s major personality traits. A Virgo is someone born between August 23 and September 22nd. They are very hardworking and dedicated to whatever they believe in. As for a Virgo guy, he is attentive as well, especially to the needs of his woman. 

A Virgo man in love will always check on you and make sure you're doing alright when he can

A Virgo man in love will always check on you and make sure you're doing alright when he can. It’s one thing for a Virgo man to love and take care of you, and another to know how to love a Virgo. A Virgo man likes it when you complement each other in a relationship, but he’s also quite cautious when it comes to love.

There’s one thing to consider though, a Virgo man in love would be more open to your advances, which makes it easier for both of you to connect with each other. However, to ensure you seal the deal and learn different ways to love this zodiac sign, here are 27 things that could help your cause. 

21 Ways To Love A Virgo Man

1. Be emotionally and intellectually supportive

A Virgo man likes very supportive women, especially with their ambition or dreams. Be the person who pushes him to aim higher at work and lead him to be a better version of himself. Also, make yourself a shoulder for your Virgo man to lean on, he may be tough on the outside, but he needs all the support he can get. 

2. Don't rush him

A Virgo man in love would still want to take his time in a relationship. That’s because love isn’t something this sign rushes into. They're not big on falling in love quickly cause when they do they fall deep. They want to be able to think critically about the situation and make logical choices before walking in, neck-deep.

3. Allow him to be vulnerable

If your Virgo man can’t be vulnerable around you, then there's a wall between both of you. He has to be able to express his feelings or desires to you without holding anything back. It's up to you to create that atmosphere for him, and it's done by simply being yourself as well. Be vulnerable around him so he can be the same around you. 

4. Give physical affection

Give physical affection

One of the love languages of a Virgo man is physical touch. He wants not only to be told how you feel about him but to feel the impact of your affection as well. It's as little as holding his hand affectionately or being passionate in bed with him. If you love him, act as you do. 

5. Give thoughtful gifts

Virgo men are not big on surprises, but they do like it when a woman does something thoughtful for them. If you noticed he's been trying to get a new tie but hasn't got the time to buy one, do it for him. Pay attention to a part of his life that requires a little act of kindness and fill that spot for him. 

6. Don't be controlling

A Virgo man always wants to be in control of the situation, that's why they're so practical about everything they do and take their time at it as well. To love a Virgo man, you have to find a way to taper down any domineering habits. Virgos can take some things, but a controlling behavior is not one of them.

7. Be loyal to him

Virgo men keep loyalty as their core value, it’s one of the things they don’t play with. Once you are in a committed relationship with him, he will appreciate you for choosing to be with just him. They are also very loyal men. That’s why it’s rare to find a Virgo man who is a serial cheater. Once your loyalty to him is guaranteed, you have his heart. 

8. Be an independent woman

This star sign (Virgo) is attracted to strong independent women. It's easier for him to love you if you're not clingy and needy because that's not what he needs. He needs emotional stability, and an independent woman brings that to the table. 

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9. Control your emotions

You need to be emotionally-intelligent to be in a good relationship with a Virgo man. This zodiac sign’s ability to manage his own emotions isn’t really something he can brag about, even though he puts up a brave front. 

So he needs a lady who’s more in charge of her emotions and reactions, so both of you don’t end up swimming in a pool of raw and unchecked feelings and emotions.

10. Let him lead

There are some things you can’t change. For a Virgo man, he would try to take the lead even before you let him because that's an instinct for him. 

Virgo men always want to be in charge of any situation and the leader of a relationship. He wants to make the tough decisions, give advice, help you grow, and whatnot. Keep in mind that letting him lead is not the same as giving him control of your life. 

11. Talk to him

Communication is the foundation of a healthy relationship. The easiest way to show a person you love them is by communicating with them about it. Communication is not only in words but actions as well. Let him know how you feel about him or a situation and try and tell him things that would help both of you connect. 

12. Get along with his family

Get along with his family

It's important to a Virgo man that you get along with his family and friends; it shows that you accept him for who he is and where he comes from. It might sound far-fetched but this is a smart way to love and Virgo man and show him that you do. It does take a while for him to do the great introduction, but when he does, try to be a sweetheart. 

13. Keep him intrigued

Keep him interested and intrigued by you each time you meet with him. Virgo men are curious people, and if you expose all there is to you at first, he may lose interest. Take your time (like he does) and let him get to know you gradually. Pique his interest by discussing things relevant to the subjects of his appeal. 

14. Be a detailed person

Being a detailed person also means being articulate. You might be wondering how this would help you love your Virgo man, here's how. It's the little things that matter to him and get his attention more than the big stuff. If you are a detailed person, it'll be difficult to miss the little things around him. 

15. Be reliable

When a Virgo man needs you, be available, or he would find support somewhere else. You have to be consistent to win this man's heart forever. They are very consistent with their show of affection and are one of the men out there that you can rely on. If he can count on you to be there for him, he would trust you. 

16. Plan to have fun with him

Plan to have fun with him

Add fun to your relationship by planning surprise getaways or even dates. Just to keep your relationship lively and exciting. Virgo men get tired quickly, without any fun activities that they may or may not come up with, it gets tiresome for them to be the only one thinking up fun stuff. 

17. Don't be messy

Dating a Virgo man means learning not to be messy if you are. They don’t like clumsy women who haven't figured out how to keep themselves together or their things organized. Tidy after a sleepover at his place or yours. Keep the environment you both share neat as well. 

18. Be yourself around him

Don't try to be anyone but yourself around a Virgo man; they are the most significant lie detectors in human form. They can't stand liars and are pretty honest themselves. To love him, just be yourself. This will give him room to open up to you as well. Plus, any relationship based on lies doesn't last long anyway.

19. Be romantic

Look beyond the thick wall, a Virgo man puts up and appeals to the romantic in him by doing romantic things. Take him out to dinner, buy him sweet things, and be there for him. He will gradually take his wall down when you are intentionally romantic and caring.

20. Dress to impress

If this guy hasn’t seen you face-to-face for a long time, it’s time to spice things up a bit. Virgo men are attracted to women who dress well. However, don't overdo this. Look well prepared for the occasion you're dressed for; a perfect natural makeup would do rather than something bold.

21. Give him space

It's very important to give a Virgo man his space when he needs it. Sometimes he just wants to be alone to think or work and understanding that makes the relationship easier. 


How do you make a Virgo man feel loved? 

Dating a Virgo man is easy when you know how to make him feel loved. Oddly one of those ways is learning when to give the man personal space. They don't like clinginess at all. It's essential to show him how kind and affectionate you are as well because those are his most vital romantic qualities. 

Dating a Virgo man requires a hand full of patience; he does almost everything at his own pace. Be open about who you are and let him in, if he loves you, he will accept you. Be there for him as much as you can, and not just emotional support but intellectual as well. 

How do I keep my Virgo man happy in a relationship?  

The best way to keep him happy is to engage him with fun, romantic adventures together, or even a little surprise. They might not be so prominent in surprises, but thoughtful little deeds keep them excited. He would enjoy that because a huge part of him loves mystery and adventure. 

How do you win a Virgo man's heart? 

Be yourself, this is not just a priority for a Virgo man, but every man wants his woman to be expressive and bold. Most Virgo men are well mannered, hence being repulsive to ill-mannered ladies is normal. Get your etiquettes right if you're going to get down with this sort of man. Don't be in a hurry to win his heart; he will want to take his time with that. However, if you leave everything to go at his pace, you might not go far. 

How do you know if a Virgo man loves you? 

Virgo men take their sweet time when it comes to love, but when they do fall, they fall in deep. You can tell a Virgo man is in love with you when he doesn't mind being vulnerable around you. They don't do that with just anyone. Also, if he introduces you to his family, he sees a future for the relationship. They may seem standoffish, but once a Virgo man is in love, he gets in touch with his romantic side. 

What does a Virgo man find attractive? 

Virgo men are sapiosexual; they're attracted to intelligent women. They're also attracted to women who dress well; they are very visual. Looking good is the first step to guaranteeing his attention; however, if you overdo this; you will lose it. It's a lot easier to get his attention by matching his vibes. 

On That Note

I hope this helps you sweep your Virgo man off his feet (I know it would). I would like to know your thoughts on the subject; please leave your comments below and share this article with your friends. 

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Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.

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