What Can I Do If I Feel Bored of My Boyfriend? We Haven’t Texted Much Recently and Sometimes I feel I Don’t Love Him Anymore

by Michelle Devani

You don’t have to feel bad if you feel bored within your relationship. It’s quite normal, but you need to understand why you feel this way and you need to do something about it.

Relationships are complicated, there are times that you feel like your on the top of the world. Other times you feel you reached rock bottom. Despite all that you cant help wonder why this happened.

The important thing is that you really need to ask and answer truthfully from the heart

“do you feel bored with your relationship”?

if your answer is yes well don’t feel guilty your not the only person who feels that way. There are other people who feels the same way. So don’t feel guilty even though your partner is deep in love with you.

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Are you bored with your relationship?

You may have been together for quite sometimes. Perhaps a year or two and you have probably gone through a lot. So why now?

I’m pretty sure that you had no plan of falling out in your relationship. It just happened one day, you woke up and said to yourself I’m not interested in love anymore. Its a matter of choice, you could either continue your relationship with your lover or have an affair with someone fun and outgoing.

Before blaming on love you need to considered some of the following question. Why am I bored with this relationship? What should I do ? should I break it off ?

When you have the answers and understand them, then you can find a way you to solve your dilemma. Otherwise you will be miserable within the relationship

Now here are some reason why you feel bored in your relationship

  1. Boring routine

You are tired of the daily routine and its getting dull. From the moment the sun rise and the sun sets, you know too well what happens. You know the daily activities of your lover by heart. Its becoming a vicious cycle which can be very unhealthy.

  1. Less excitement

When was the last time you both did something fun? Exciting? Romantic?. I think this happen, when you and your lover are so into your jobs and forgot to spent time with each other. You need a break, plan a trip just for the both of you or have a romantic dinner.

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  1. Creating special memories

Remember the first time you set your eyes on each other. That moment must have been magical for both of you. Its a special memory you should cherish together. That's what keeps couples strong in a relationship but the moment you stop making memories then everything you both had was for nothing.

Its not too late to start a fresh, you still have time to make and create beautiful memories. Remember that you both chose each other.

Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.