Follow These 5 Ways on How Do You Get Your Child to Accept Your New Partner

by Michelle Devani

In our life, a failure is a common thing that happens to almost everyone. This failure also happens in a relationship. Most people who have ever been in a relationship must have been in failure.

It is whether a failure before their marriage, or even failure on their marriage. The failure on people’s marriage can happen because of many problems. Maybe, breaking up is the best solution for some people, especially if they have kids.

This is because the kids will feel burdened whenever they hear some fights between their parents. Also read possible reasons why you were ghosted.

If you decided to divorce with your ex partner, it might be the best option for you. It is another chance for you to start a new and better life with your child.

If you are planning to build a new relationship with someone, you need to make your children accept your new partner. Here are some tips to get your child accept your new partner.

  • Don’t go too fast

As you know, your child needs to get used to your marriage condition. They need to know that you and your ex partner no longer live together. So, if you are planning to get a new partner, you should not get too fast.

You need to explain to your child first about your condition. Make sure to give them enough love and attention, so that they will eventually accept it. If you already have a new partner, you can tell your kid slowly about being in a relationship with someone else.

But it is better for you to prepare your child first, by not getting a new partner for too fast. You also need to tell your partner about how to get closer to your partner's children.

  • Tell your partner to make a good first impression

When we want to meet new people, first impression matters. This happen to your child too, because they need to get a good first impression to your new partner. Tell your partner to make a good impression in front of your child.

You can ask your partner to bring your child a little gift, such as their favorite food, toy, or anything else. Your partner need to know some good ways to make a good first impression. Also remind your partner to be friendly to your kid, because this will make your kid feels that your partner is a nice person.

Also remember to involve your kid in you and your partner’s conversation, so that your kid will feel that you don’t forget about them.

  •  Spend your time together with your child

When you go on any dates with your partner, go ask your kid to come with you. You can go on some places with your new partner and kid, such as your kid’s favorite park, store, or any other places. This will make your new partner and child get closer.

Remember to talk with your kid often even when you are with your partner. It will make your child feel that you will still care about them, even when you and your new partner is going to have a serious relationship. To prepare yourself, you need to know some signs your relationship is not working.

  • Make your child a priority

No matter how often you spend your time with your new partner, make sure to put your child as a priority. Your child needs you the most, because they still need your guidance, care, and love in their life.

It is important for you to care about your child, talk to them often, and spend time with them. You can also ask your new partner to go spend their time together with your child, so that they can get closer to each other.

This way, your child will feel that they are loved by you, and will eventually accept your new partner. Also read how to end toxic relationship.

  • Ask your new partner to become your child’s friend

This is one of the most important tips to make your child accept your new partner. If your partner shows some affection to your child, talk to your child often, and play with your child, they can become friends.

You can also share some information about your child to your partner, such as the hobbies, favorite places, favorite songs, and many more. This will help your partner a lot to get closer to your child.

If your child is treated well by your partner, they will accept your partner. This is also a good sign for you to build a serious relationship with your new partner.

Building a new relationship with someone is a good idea for you, especially if you have had a failure in a marriage and have a child. You can try the tips above in order to make your child accept your new partner.

Remember that your child is a priority. Hopefully you will end up with someone that can bring more happiness in your life.

Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.