How To Get A Scorpio Woman To Love You (7 Effective Ways)

Last updated on June 15, 2022 by Michelle Devani

Are you in love with a Scorpio woman, and you want to get close to her? 

Then I'm here to tell you how you can attract a Scorpio woman and make her fall in love with you. Scorpio women are brilliant, and they are good at keeping relationships. They are also very good with their finances. 

Most times, Scorpio women are great businesswomen. They are very career-driven. Another great personality of Scorpio women is that they are known to be great leaders. They do not give up easily and are very loyal and caring to everyone around them. 

Even though a Scorpio woman has a great personality trait, she also has bad ones. She can be very dominating in a relationship and has very high standards

So, if you know you can't work hard to be at her level, it is better not to go into the relationship. This is because it might be too much of a challenge.

Before you make a pass at a Scorpio woman, please ensure you have excellent leadership qualities and carry yourself with much prestige. 

A Scorpio woman is a strong woman, and she's one of the strongest of all the zodiac signs. So she won't be with you if you don't meet up with her personality. On that note, here are 7 ways you can make a Scorpio woman love you.

7 Ways To Make A Scorpio Woman Love You 

1. Be confident and honest

be confident and honest

A Scorpio woman is generally known to be confident. She wouldn’t want to waste time on a timid man that isn’t sure of himself. And don’t think of pretending because she would know. Honesty is a big deal for her, and that will present you as a dishonest person—which might destroy your chances of being with her. 

So the first rule is to be yourself. Be confident in who you are, and be strong in your beliefs and convictions because she’s a powerful woman. You must be bold if you are ever going to get her to be yours.

2. Don’t be clingy

Being clingy is not a way to get a Scorpio woman to love you. Rather, you would be pushing her away. It’s a complete turn-off when a man tries to cramp the lifestyle of a woman. 

Don’t be a bone in her throat. If you call her and she misses it, wait for her to return it. Please don’t send her 100 texts after that, and do not be controlling at all. If she sees that you are trying to dominate her, that definitely will be the end of your chances.

Allow her to live her best lifestyle and do not dictate how she should dress, act, or which color of lipstick she should put on— except of course if she asks for your opinion. And when she asks for your advice, be happy about it. This shows that she’s starting to trust you.

3. Blow her mind away

Do this with romantic surprises. Make sure she doesn’t have a clue of what you have planned out for her. You can plan an exquisite dinner in a five-star restaurant or get her tickets to a movie premiere or her favorite concert. When a gesture is grand, it can go a long way in winning her heart. 

If she loves books, buy her one from her favorite author, even before she knows it’s out. Make her want to figure out your next move because your surprises always sweep her off her feet.

4. Take your time

Don’t rush things. When you take your time, it makes you more of a mystery. If you are too open and all over her, then you risk losing her. A Scorpio woman doesn’t trust easily, so if she is going to trust you, you have to earn it. Take your time when chasing her and get to know her very well. 

You can follow her social media handles, ask her questions about herself, invite her for dinner dates and movie night and just build trust.

5. A Scorpio woman loves gifts and compliments

a scorpio woman loves gifts and compliments

Get to know the kind of things she likes and talk to her about the gift items she loves. You don’t have to be so direct, though. You can take note of the things she needs in her life and get them for her. 

Also, shower her with gifts; for example, if she tells you she loves a particular product, you could get it for her as a gift. She would really appreciate the thoughtful gesture, and before you know it, the lady is already catching feelings. 

Learn to shower her with compliments as well. Don’t just give a dry comment like “You look good today.” No, say, “Your blue outfit fits your skin tone so perfectly’’ or ‘‘No one can pass without noticing your elegance.” Let her feel extra special. You can also compliment her little accomplishments. 

6. Respect her boundaries

Don’t intrude into her personal space or choke her with your love. Even if she’s your girlfriend already and you are partners, it’s not enough reason to cross her boundaries. Also, don’t create problems for yourself by intruding in her space. 

Let her take the time she needs for herself and do the things she loves doing. You must learn to read the signs when she needs space and wants to be alone. Over crossing your boundaries would make her lose interest in you.

7. Learn new things together

Venturing into new things together is a way to make your Scorpio spouse love and appreciate you more. When couples learn new things together, the relationship is strengthened. You can practice yoga together, bake together or go swimming often. Opt for activities that bring you both together and enhance closeness.


How do you make a Scorpio woman fall in love? 

You must be the best version of yourself before trying to make a Scorpio woman fall in love with you. I gave 7 ways you can make this zodiac sign woman fall for you.

How do you know a Scorpio girl likes you?

The mystery behind a Scorpio girl isn't easy to understand. They never give attention to just anyone. Women with this zodiac sign are quite serious. So, if she often smiles at you, this could be a sign that she likes you.

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How do you make a Scorpio woman happy?

Compliment her as often as you get a chance to and take her out to try new things. Scorpio women love exploring. You must pay attention to her and the relationship. Get her meaningful gifts, and most importantly, you must have a great sex life.

What do Scorpio females find attractive?

One way to get a Scorpio female attracted to a man is with honesty. You must be an honest person. A Scorpio female finds a man who respects her; a man who loves her for who she is and supports her career attractive.

How do Scorpios act when hurt?

Scorpio women are very sensitive. When you hurt them, they never bottle it up. They tell you they are hurt or give you signs. Their mood swings become so much that you must notice something is wrong.

In Conclusion

I hope you found this article helpful. As a man who wants to have a relationship with a Scorpio woman, you must make sure honesty is your priority and carry yourself with prestige. A Scorpio woman never wants to be with someone who can't stand up for themselves. 

Let me know what you think, and please don't forget to share this article with others.

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Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.

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