How to Let Your Ex Boyfriend Know You Want Him Back Cause You Still Love Him

Last updated on June 12, 2022 by Michelle Devani

Your relationship ended few months ago. However, you are still reminiscing all your memories and haven't move even an inch from it. There are times when you admit it to yourself that you miss your ex boyfriend and want him to be back with you.

Here are how to let your ex boyfriend know you want him back

Wondering about does he still love you too after breakups is probably a normal thing since it is not easy to just forget all the things that happened (better move on by read this Ways to Forget Your Ex). You want him back, but you don't know your ex boyfriend feel the same or not. Here are how to let your ex boyfriend know you want him back that you can do.

1. Don't Look for A New Relationship Yet

The wound you got from the breakups is still here. You think that find someone new could help you to forget your ex boyfriend. However, if you want him back, getting close to a new guy is actually not the best thing to do. You need to let your ex boyfriend know that you might like to fix the things up and be together again so that is why you are still alone.

2. Forgive Your Ex Boyfriend

Whatever mistakes that he made in the past, you should let go your anger and forgive him if you want your ex boyfriend back. The relationship would turn into the same situation as your last breakup if nothing change within you about that.

3. Contact Him Once a Week

You should try to reach him up whenever you are ready, it is one of how to let your ex boyfriend know you want him back, because we all know call the ex boyfriend is a difficult thing to do. But, don't contact him constantly or it will break your dignity. Once a week is enough for example.

4. Running into Him Intentionally

You have been together for quite some time so you must be know places that he love to come. Go there with a little hope you could running into him. What a beautiful coincidence--or he already know it is intentionally. No worry, both are fine.

5. Like and Comment on His Instagram

Go on, like and comment on his new uploaded photo's instagram. It would leave an impression that you are still finding out his activities or simply you are still into him. Well, that's the point, you want to let your ex boyfriend know you want him back. Read: Why Would Your Ex Unfollow You on Instagram

6. Get Close to His Bestfriend

Maybe even you could tell him what you want to do about your ex boyfriend. Or even better, you could ask him for help to get you both back together again.

7. Reminiscing the First Time You Met

Make he remind the reason he fell for you. Read: Ways to Make He Fall in Love with You Again

8. Rewind the Good Memories

It could give him clue that you still remember very well all the moment with him. Also, he could make him miss that moment too by reminding it.

9. Kind of Show Your Intention

If you want to let your ex boyfriend know that you want him back, it can be done by give him some attention like you used to do. It could somehow show your intention that you want that time back.

10. Be Yourself

You might think this is weird but there is no better way than being yourself in front of your love ones. Don't overdo it even though we all know that you still love him and want him back. So you need to Love Yourself and Be Happy.

Sign Your Ex Boyfriend Also Want You Back

You must be worry about what you have done neither he would know you intention to let him know you want him back or not, or even does he still love you or not. Here are sign your ex boyfriend also want you back.

Do you feel like he kind of takes you for granted?
Unfortunately this is one of the most frequent complaints we get from our readers, where they feel they aren't a priority for their boyfriend or husband. They always seem to have some excuse as to why they can't spend some quality time with you like they used to.

To see if he actually likes you take this quick free quiz and we'll let you know if it's worth putting any more time into this guy.

1. Calling You Back

This is such a simple sign you need to notice. Probably doesn't mean anything, but, he hasn't called you for ages, right? So it is definitely a good thing after the one that made call first is you.

2. Like Back Your Instagram's Photo

It means your ex boyfriend still looking at your photo and want to know what you up to. Or he simply didn't realize like your photo. Well, don't hope too much from this.

3. Invite You to that Place

He would ask you to go to a  place that you both love, like your favorite cafe, fast food restaurant, or even the place where the first time you both met. Its been a long time. Maybe he wants to reminiscing the moment when you were together.

4. Give More Attention

He ask you to eat properly, get enough sleep, and he wants to accompany you to the library when you need to borrow some books. This is a clear sign that your boyfriend still care for you which is good. Read: Ways to Get An Attention and Love

5. Say It Directly

Not only know your intention, actually he still love you like the way you do. He say it directly if he really need you and doesn't want to lose you anymore.

More Tips Before You Let Your Ex Boyfriend Know You Want Him Back

Before you learn how to let your ex boyfriend know you want him back, you need to consider couple things. And what is that? Here are more useful tips for you when you about to let your ex boyfriend know you want him back again.

1. Don’t Try Too Hard

No matter how much you still love him doesn't matter anymore because the relationship is over. That is why there is no need you to try so hard even though you want your ex boyfriend back really bad. Let him the one that realize by himself life is incomplete without you.

2. Remember Reasons of Your Breakup

There is no way you ended your relationship without any good reason. Remember those reasons again, is it better to get back together or remain over like this? All yours to decide.

3. Create an Attractive Life

Instead let your ex boyfriend know you want him back, don't you think improving your life quality is way better? With a new attractive lifestyle that you create, your ex would regret the breakups and probably want you back too.

4. Contact Your Ex Boyfriend in Healthy Mind

Okay, you really do decide to let your ex know you want him back. Then, you better contact him after you make sure that you already clean up your mind. No more anger, no more sadness, positively healthy mind! Read: Ways to Leave An Abusive Relationship

5. No Guarantee Your Relationship Would Better

You are already in contact and go out together regularly. All left is you both make another commitment to be in relationship again. However, there is no guarantee that your relationship would turn into better than before.

6. Just Don't Do It

Or simply just not contact him to let him know you want him back.

7. Accept the Fact 

Getting over him and accept the fact that the relationship is clearly over and your ex won't never get back together with you again. Time to move on, babe!

Does it feel like pulling teeth getting him to say how he feels about you?
Some men can be very guarded and closed when it comes to expressing how they feel - it can almost feel like they are pulling away from you and leaves you wondering whether he's actually into you.

Find out to see whether he actually likes you by taking this quick free quiz

Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.
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