Why Did My Ex Go Looking for Another Girlfriend A Week After He Broke Up With Me?

Last updated on June 19, 2022 by Michelle Devani

Why did my ex go looking for another girlfriend a week after he broke up with me? Do you still care about him? What if he doesn't and that is the reason why he wants to be with someone new? Yes, it could be one of the reasons, and here are some other reasons.

  • He wants to be with someone new

He wants to be with someone new that he thinks will be suitable for him. Maybe at first, he didn't feel the love as much as you loved him. This feeling leads him to look for someone new as soon as possible. And it is okay for him to do so.

In another hand, you are the one who is not okay. You need to let him go because you know that the relationship ends and he starts to look for someone new.

Related: How Do You Move On from A Breakup When You’ll Probably See Your Ex with Someone Else Everyday?

  • He does not need your permission to be free

You can't control what you can't control, you can only control what you can control which is yourself. He started to move on, maybe you should too. You cannot force him to go back into a relationship with you if he doesn't want to.

Remember that he is not your boyfriend anymore, he doesn't need your permission to do things that he wants to do. Rather than thinking about him, it is better for you to know the ways to love yourself and be happy with the world.

  • He has a different way of dealing with a breakup

Once you saw your ex looking for someone new, maybe you start to wonder, how do guys move on so quickly after a bad breakup? And the answer is because they have a different way of dealing with a breakup.

Right after the breakup, the one who will feel sad is the girl and not the guy. By the time goes by, time will heal the girl, but the guy just feels the loss. Just focus on yourself to move on from him.

Ways to move on after a breakup

It is okay to wonder, why did my ex go looking for another girlfriend a week after he broke up with me. But, most importantly is to help yourself to recover from a breakup, to move on.
  • Stop stalking your ex

What you need to do first is not to think how to get your ex boyfriend back when he broke up with you, but to stop stalking him. The fact that you knew your ex is looking for someone new already shown that you still want to engage with everything he does and this is bad.

Your relationship ends because of a reason, try to give yourself a better chance by letting him go. If you can't hold yourself, you need to immediately delete his number and throwing away the stuff that you got from him.

  • Find a shoulder to cry

We cry to make us feel better and if it is what you need then do it. You will need time to cry to make yourself feel better and it is okay to do it, and you need to. Find a shoulder to cry and to listen to what you feel. It will make you feel better knowing that there is someone who still wants to listen to you.

Related: How Can I Forget My Ex Boyfriend as I Really Love Him and Miss Him Desperately?

  • Distract yourself with more activities

If you think that your ex is trying to make you jealous by letting you know that he is looking for someone new, throw away the thoughts of what to do when your ex boyfriend tries to make you jealous.

Even though both of you still love each other, but you guys have a bad way to solve a problem.

The relationship isn't working anyway, so better distract yourself with more activities to help you to forget about him. You and he deserve a better person to be with.

Why did my ex go looking for another girlfriend a week after he broke up with me?
You already knew why once you finished reading this article.
Rather than keep worrying about him it is better for you to focus on self improvement. Because losing someone that we cared so much is a big loss, this is how to break up with someone nicely and still be friends.

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Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.
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