Are you wondering what you can do to cheer up your boyfriend when he comes home with a grumpy face?
Do you get confused about what to do or what to say to make him feel better?
Maybe you're currently wondering whether you should do some grand romantic gestures, or write him some little notes…but maybe that hasn’t proved to be enough in the past?
Read on if you’re desperate to help make your boyfriend’s day better. Below, I have created an epic list of things to say to your boyfriend when he's having a bad day.
However, before we get into that list, I want to share a story that I think you’ll find very interesting and useful.
Recently, I have been studying and experimenting with a barely-known part of male psychology.
This is a primal part of the male mindset, which has a significant impact on how attracted he feels to the women in his life. It’s mostly referred to as ‘The Hero’s Instinct’.
When a woman can learn to trigger this part of the male mind, she can begin to make him feel proud, joyful and purposeful whenever he is around her - the emotions men crave from romantic relationships.
He naturally becomes drawn closer to women who can consistently make him feel these emotions. I’ve been doing it myself!
If you’d like to learn more about how this works, click to read my personal account about how I discovered the power of the ‘Hero’s Instinct’.
This concept is more powerful than any set of words you can say to a man, yet so few people seem to know about it.
With that said, here is my list of nice things you can say to a man who is having a bad day.
Is your boyfriend coming home with a grumpy face? Is he upset, sad or in a bad mood? Can you sense from his phone call that he is not having the kind of day that he wants? Maybe you feel helpless on how to cheer his mood back up?
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Do you get confused about what to do or what to say to make him feel better? Maybe you're currently wondering, should you do some grand romantic gestures, or some little notes are enough? Surely you would like to be a part and the reason for your boyfriend's happiness, and help to make him feel better. Worry not, cause here are some things to say to your boyfriend when he's having a bad day.
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Those are some things to say to your boyfriend when he's having a bad day. The main thing is to ask him first, whether he would like to have some space when he is in a bad mood, or whether he would like it if you give him extra care and attention. Though you mean well, it is best to not directly bug him by inquiring questions about his bad mood or push him to talk it out.
When you bombard him with questions and coming up with ways to fix things, the problem might feel like it's a bigger deal than he had thought. Ask him, let him initiate the talking, and if he does not want to talk about it, just talk about something else.
You should also avoid making him feel weak, give him some space to decide for himself how much he wants to share with you and the kind of input from you that he wants. This kind of independence makes him feel strong and feel better as well.
Additionally, keep in mind that you should never compare, nor telling your boyfriend that his bad day is not so bad. Just show him that you're ready to make him feel better, be emphatic and accompany him while he also tries to make himself feel better. Show him that you care for him. You can also show that you're happy and he does have a part in making you happy. Men likes to achieve something, and knowing that he can makes you happy can also makes him feel successful. If your boyfriend likes to joke around, it would also works to say some funny things and be a little sarcastic. Don't directly shower him with judgments, opinions, or any solution.
Ask him if he has calmed down, what can you do to make him feel better. If he chose to vent, listen carefully and be present. Listen to understand, and offer some solution in case he feels hopeless. If he chose to stay quiet for a while, don't be discouraged. You'll find that sometimes, your comforting presence is all he needed to feel better. In conclusion, offer your time to listen to your boyfriend, respect him, and love him through the way.