17 Ways To Get A Gemini’s Attention

Last updated on May 12, 2024 by Michelle Devani

Are you hoping to win the attention of a special Gemini man?

Is it proving to be a bit of a struggle? Perhaps you haven’t tried because you’re searching for the perfect way to do it? 

If so, keep reading. Because, in this guide, I reveal the 15 best strategies to impress a male Gemini. 

However, before we begin, I want to share the story of how I won the heart of the special man in my life. 

It used to be a real struggle to keep the attention of any man I liked!

I was always the woman who would get ‘pumped and dumped’ but I had no idea what I was doing wrong. 

Thankfully, that turned around in an extreme way!

It all started when I began learning about a little-known aspect of the male mind, most commonly referred to as the ‘Hero’s Instinct’

This part of male psychology is responsible for how they feel about the women in their life.

When women know how to activate this part of a man, they begin to experience overwhelming feelings of power, purpose, joy and love. Naturally, he begins to feel emotionally closer to her over time.

Once I learned how to work with a man’s ‘Hero’s Instinct’, men began to look at me differently. They now treat me like an amazing woman to build a future with, rather than a ‘bit of fun’ they can toss away when they get bored. 

I wrote a journal about how I discovered the power of the ‘Hero’s Instinct’ if you would like to learn more about it. It helped me settle down with the love of my life, and I’m sure it could do the same for you.

With that said, let’s take a closer look at my Gemini-specific advice.


Gemini Personality

It’s not so exciting to find a Gemini man you would love to be with and still have to work for their attention. However, Gemini men are a special set of free-spirited individuals. They are always very curious and eager to learn. Plus, their active minds and love for lengthy conversations are another factor to think about.

Geminis love to be out there, and have fun, and listen to intriguing ideas which makes them fun to be with too. Since they’re adventurous, spontaneous, unpredictable, and ready to try out new things, they interest many ladies. They’re not just witty and happy people, they’re also very intelligent especially when they get comfortable with you.

On the other side, just like every other person, they have their flaws too. Geminis could be quite possessive and manipulative when they’re in love. Their spontaneous nature makes them indecisive when it comes to making concrete plans for the future and they could easily cancel at the last minute. 

17 Ways To Get Gemini Man’s Attention

So how do you deal with such a spontaneous and mysterious man, even more, how do you manage to keep their attention in a relationship? 

For such fun-loving and adventurous spirits, the answer seems far-fetched, but it’s not impossible. They are beautiful people and there are lots of loving ways to go around your relationship with them. 

If you would love to get their attention and you don’t know how to go about it, keep reading this article to know 17 possible ways you can do it.

1. Let Them Know

Geminis are never really around for long so it’s best to make the best use of every opportunity you have to spend time with them. If you love him and you would like to take things further, you could ask to hang out. Don’t shy away from it. 

I would advise a physical meeting even if you just met him. It would help you see how they react to the things you say and how you should correct or approach them. Then you can follow with messages or calls when necessary.

2. Be A Spontaneous Person

If you love new things to happen as they come or as you feel, especially fun things, then you’re on the right track but if not—you may have to gradually learn that.

Wake up one morning and ask to buy him his favorite meal or get it delivered to his doorstep if you can. You can also invite him to see a movie or attend a comedy show. Pull off exciting things whether they’re fun, educative, or inspirational. Try to do this especially when you feel he’s getting uninterested.

3. Great Sense Of Humor

great sense of humor

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Geminis are more attracted to your ability to throw in humor when you’re having conversations. 

They want to open their hearts with more laughter than you can imagine. Be funny, tease them a bit, and make sure the atmosphere is light enough for more topics to be discussed. Be as silly as you can. They love it when you don’t hold back, so be free.

4. Give Them Space

As much as Geminis are social butterflies, they love their personal space too. So be friendly but give them time to reflect as well. It may seem a bit hard most times because you’re trying to get this Gemini man to love or appreciate you but it shows you trust him enough and that could be comforting and reassuring. 

Also, let them feel free and not restricted. Don’t try to be possessive or force them to make certain decisions. Be understanding and flexible especially when it comes to their plans.

5. Avoid Depressing Topics

Depressing topics generally have a negative effect on people as a whole, not just the Gemini man. I would advise you to avoid these topics as much as possible. If you want to have a chance of getting closer to a Gemini man, don’t discuss sad topics with him even as a joke. 

It could end up being too serious. 

Avoid anything emotionally draining especially the ones they can’t stand talking about. Since they love being happy, they can’t take a pitch of sadness. When these guys are happy, they are very fun, but a sad Gemini man could be hard to get along with.

6. Increase Their Social Circle

You would get so much attention from a Gemini man when you help expand his circle of friends. Gemini men love being introduced to a large network of friends. Being social is one of the highlights of their lives. They want to know more people in different fields and get to learn a lot from them. 

7. Don’t Act Desperate

don't act desperate

This applies to a lot of things. When you give attention, you should take some as well. It’s a natural law of balance. Yes, you’re trying to get his attention, but you should do it moderately. He should know you have some dignity and that you can always walk away if it doesn’t work out. 

Always rushing to reply or respond to him when he doesn’t do the same with you would make it seem like you’re desperate. Take your time. You could reject one of his requests just to send a message across.

8. Be Different

Some people mistake this with being uptight and stiff or moving in a particular direction even when it’s wrong because they choose to be different. That’s not it. It simply means to be able to handle things differently in a way a Gemini man would never expect you to. 

Not in a boastful way, but show him you’re smart and knowledgeable in so many areas and let him know you also appreciate yourself physically and otherwise. Not just Geminis, people would give you their respect and attention only when you respect yourself.

9. Be Open To New Things

With their social circle that wide, Geminis have a lot of acquaintances to hang around but they don’t relate with everyone especially if they sense such people to be ‘boring’.

Because they are jovial people, they sometimes stay away from quiet and reserved people except they know you’re open to new and exciting things. If you’re an introvert, I’ll advise you to show them you’re eager to try out new things and find ways to show him you’re equally interesting.

10. Have A Positive Vibe

We all love positive vibes. You get frowned at when you’re believed to always carry sad news, and bad energy in general, and this applies to being around Geminis as well.

The Gemini man wants to know that they can always count on you when it comes to being or staying happy. They like seeing the positive side of things and how they’ll work rather than nag or expand on the sad aspect. Show them that you enjoy doing good things just like they do and they can trust you to give them positive feedback.

11. Be Direct With Your Emotions

be direct with your emotions

Let's pay a bit more attention to this part. Some people don’t like straightforward people but this is not the case with Geminis.

The Gemini man wants you to come out straight. Beating around the bush is the last in their books because they like to be straightforward. Let them know when you like them, want to hang out with them, or when you miss talking or chatting with them. Being brave and bold gets their attention in the fastest way possible.

12. Open-Mindedness

Nobody likes to be judged for whatever they do. Even animals react badly when they’re stopped from doing certain things. Geminis are free-spirited individuals and they like moving from one adventure to the other. Because they could be so emotional, they stay away from people they sense would criticize or try to correct their wild explorations. 

You may feel the need to criticize the kind of things and activities they like, but hold on until you get to know them well, then you can subtly and kindly air your views.

13. Get To Know Them

One way to get a Gemini’s attention is by listening to them when they talk. Let them know you’re interested in them sharing their thoughts about certain things. If they love clubbing, ask about the experiences they’ve had in a club or how their first day partying went. The main aim here is to keep things lively and flowing the right way.

The Gemini man has many layers to him, and if you like one, you have to have the patience to really understand him.

14. Be Diverse With Topics

Call it gist, news, or gossip, they want to hear everything. Any sort of ear-catching topic you know would be easy to talk about. Have a variety of topics to talk about especially updated ones. When you give them the information you know, it would come in handy to them generally. 

If you can, concentrate on the topics you know he would like to talk about. Their responses would keep you on track to know your next move. 

15. Different Fun Activities 

Not everything should be planned, especially with Geminis. Come up with different exciting things they’d find hard to resist and you’ll have their attention. You can just call them up for casual hangouts or unplanned fun meetups. Just let things be the way they should without altering or tweaking them. 

The Gemini man is not a huge fan of planned events, so don’t think you’ll be able to draw up a schedule with this one. It may not sound so convenient for you but you need to compromise sometimes to achieve what you want.

16. Flirt A Bit

flirt a bit

Remember something? They love to have fun a lot, and if you’re spontaneous, you’ll have their attention as well. They like flirting and having fun, and their skills are top-notch. You don’t need to match his skills, just flirt a little bit to spice everything up and draw more of his attention. 

Be a bit naughty, that side of you will make them like you more. So, flirt with them, don’t make it nasty. Just make it enticing and captivating.

17. Let Things Flow

I know this sounds like one of the hardest things; to like someone without getting their attention. However, it’s important to give them time. Gemini men like attention themselves, but they also don’t like to be tied in one place.

Let them remember you as that person they want to reach out and be close to. Everything has a natural flow so just do your best and watch things work out. You’ll enjoy it more when they reciprocate your actions so give them some breathing space, take some time off and let them miss you a bit.


How does a Gemini show his feelings?

He would tell you. Geminis are most times open especially when they like you. They use words well and would tell you how they feel about you. Though, some of them may choose not to say it but would be very communicative as frequently as they can be.

How do you get a Gemini man to chase you?

A Gemini man loves it when you take some time to listen and give him your attention. They love compliments and teasing too. Looking good and happy turns them on as well. To get him to chase you more, be unavailable sometimes, talk intelligently, and be unpredictable.

What hurts Gemini the most?

Making them feel unimportant or ignoring what they say, their jokes or their presence hurts them a lot. If you insinuate that they’re not smart, intelligent, appreciated, or that their input is not relevant, it hurts their pride a lot.

Do Geminis like to cuddle?

Geminis love to love, flirt, send messages and make you feel on top of the world. But they are not fans of physical affection. Cuddling with their partner or someone they truly love makes them feel like they just have to lay down with someone without saying or doing anything so important. So it may be important to give these men something ‘more’ than cuddles most of the time.

Do Geminis go back to their exes?

Geminis love to feel connected to people to have some form of relationship with them. If they feel deeply connected to their exes, emotionally and mentally, they would take them back. It’s easy for them to let the past go because they’re social butterflies. They do this a lot of times.

In Conclusion

Geminis are an amazing set of people to be with. You just need to know the right things to do and the above tips can help you achieve that. Don’t forget to try your best and watch the outcome. If you liked this article, please drop a comment and share it with as many people as you can.

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Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.

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