121 Sweet Things To Say To Your Husband To Make His Day
Last updated on June 18, 2022 by Michelle Devani
Are you looking for new ways to make your husband feel appreciated?
Perhaps you’re running out of sweet things to say to make him feel loved?
Do you feel like some unique compliments will help add a bit of spice to your marriage?
Well, this guide is packed with hundreds of ideas for nice things to say to your husband. All you have to do is scroll down and pick your favourites!
However, if you want to dive deeper into the psychology of what keeps long-term relationships strong, I would love to share a story with you.
In the past, I had always struggled to make meaningful connections with men, and it cost me so many relationships.
It felt like I had to learn what I was doing to make so many relationships turn flat.
And that’s when I found out about a concept called the ‘Hero’s Instinct’. This aspect of male psychology is the key to having them obsess over you for months, years and decades.
Once I learned how to activate a man’s ‘Hero’s Instinct’, they began to react so differently to me. I have no qualms in saying that learning this skill played a huge role in helping me attract and keep my dream partner.
We know our husbands do a lot of work. They put up with us, right? That’s a lot to do by itself! So, what are some sweet things to say to your husband? At times, it is easy to forget to thank your husband for the sacrifices he makes for you on a daily basis. You may think that he should already know how you feel even if you don’t say anything, but guess what? He doesn’t.
Men are not mind-readers; they need to hear you say the things you feel every now and then. So, you really do need to know the sweet things to say to your husband to make him feel like you care about him and appreciate the little things he does for you and your family. If he doesn’t get some validation in the marriage, he’s liable to resent you later on for not letting him know.
In this article, we’ll cover quite a few things you can say to your husband to let him know you care and appreciate him. Make your husband feel loved and warm and fuzzy inside, so he will want to come home to you each day.
I appreciate who you are as a person. I am thankful for all you do for our family and me.
Our marriage has seen ups and downs, but I have no doubt in my mind that we will last until the end of time.
I’m such a different person because of your ability to take such good care of me.
You always work to be the best husband you can be, and I love it!
I love how you always cheer me up when I am sick or down.
You can be overprotective when it counts, and I adore that about you.
Your open-mindedness means the world to me.
I love how you take good care of our kids and pets. It shows how responsible and loving you are.
You check on me throughout the day when you’re at work, and I know that isn’t always easy with your busy schedule. Thank you.
When we make love, I truly feel our souls uniting.
Your wisdom and street smarts are so hot to me!
You always work hard at everything you do in life, and I love that about you!
You love our family! Thank you for always putting us first.
I love it when you stand up for me when others put me down. You always defend me!
Every day with you, I learn something new. You are wise beyond your years.
I enjoy it when you teach me new things, like when we went fly-fishing.
I appreciate the fact that you are not conceited or full of yourself.
I know it’s a pain, but it means the world to me that you remind me of appointments and visits with family members. You are so organized and responsible.
I appreciate that you open doors for me. Your old-fashioned values rule!
You are a strong, capable, bright person who always finds a way to rise to the occasion.
I think it’s very sweet that you always want to go to doctors’ appointments with me and the kids.
Thank you for not holding me back, but instead, you let me do what I want when I want.
You are an excellent friend to others and a wonderful spouse to me.
I know it’s not easy, but I love how you never complain about the little things in life.
It’s amazing how you’ve seen me at my worst and still love me just the same, if not more.
My heart, my soul, and my life are full because you are my husband.
Though it has only been a few years with you, it feels like we have been together forever, and I love it.
I know you would do anything for me, and I hope you know I would do the same for you.
I feel like the luckiest life in the world to have a husband who is willing to cook and clean for his family.
You are one of the best men I have ever known because you are honorable and have character. Those are hard to come by these days.
Your sweet nature turns me on, and I love it when you kiss me for no reason at all.
My life was not complete until you came along; now, I feel like a puzzle that has been put back together.
Our marriage and life together are completely amazing, and I wouldn’t change a thing.
Words cannot express how truly special you are to me.
If I could write a novel, it would be about our marriage because everyone needs to hear this love story.
Our marriage is strong because we both work to always maintain the happiness of each other.
When we are apart, I miss you, dearly.
I can’t wait to see what it will be like to be old in wheelchairs together. I’m sure we will have just as much fun as we do today.
I adore how sweet you are with other people’s children and ours. It shows off your kindness.
I feel safe with you in my life because you will always do what’s best for our family.
Why Your Husband Needs To Hear Sweet Words
Believe it or not, husbands aren’t mind-readers; they don’t already know what their wives are thinking, at least for the most part. What does that mean? Basically, you cannot just worry about things, expecting your husband to be able to read your mind. You need to tell him when you are concerned about something or when you are feeling thankful for something he’s done.
Be honest and don’t play the passive-aggressive game with your spouse, expecting him to just know why you are upset or when you are pleased by something that he’s done. How will he know to do something again a second time if the first time he does it, he gets no response? Be open and straightforward about your wishes and desires.
You may think that because you’ve been married for years, he should know what you want. However, they still will make mistakes because men, like women, are human. We need to express our feelings and let others know why we are angry or sad. Just the same, we need to tell our husbands what we love about them and what we are happy about.
Top Questions To Ask Your Husband
Sometimes, marriage is hard, and you have to work to keep things going. You may find it difficult to find the right things to say to your husband at times like this. Remember that being humble is a virtue - a very important part of marriage. It’s also a good quality to have, in general. Wouldn’t you rather be someone who learned from her mistakes than having to always be right?
Many husbands find it hard to talk about their feelings, even when they are going through a tough time. Often, as wives, we need to admit when we are wrong or take responsibility for actions when things don’t work out. Admitting accountability gives wives the chance to take the blame when problems arise. Sometimes, we just need to face it head-on.
So, what are some of the best questions you can ask your husband when things are a little rough at home? Do you go through trials, not knowing what to say? Has your husband ever gone through a difficult time in his life, and you didn’t know how to best respond to the situation? Sometimes, the simple answer is the right one. Try out one of these questions with your man.
I was wrong. Can you forgive me?
I want to just hold you all night. Are you game?
What can I do to cheer you up?
I love you, no matter what. How can I help?
Everything will be okay. Do you need anything?
Take your time, honey. I’m not going anywhere, okay?
I’m not leaving your side. You know that, right?
Would you like to talk about it?
Why don’t you go out with the guys, and I’ll take care of things here?
Can I give you a massage tonight?
What can I say to make my husband feel loved?
Let him know how much you appreciate the little things he does for your family. Make sure you tell him how happy you are to have him in your life. The right words will come to you as you look into your heart to find the right thing to say.
How do you make your husband feel special?
Don’t just say to your husband that you care about him; let him know why you are head over heels for him. One of the most romantic things to say is that you want to spend forever with him, loving him as a woman should. He’ll be floored by that.
How do you flirt with your husband over text?
I think the best words to say over text are how excited you are that he is your husband, how you realize how lucky you are to have him as a husband, and how you can’t wait to spend the rest of your life with each other.
What is the most romantic saying?
One of the most romantic sayings for a husband is saying that you can’t wait to ravish your husband, making him feel really good inside. That will make the husband want to run home to his wife to have mad passionate sex with her.
Do you feel like he kind of takes you for granted? Unfortunately this is one of the most frequent complaints we get from our readers, where they feel they aren't a priority for their boyfriend or husband. They always seem to have some excuse as to why they can't spend some quality time with you like they used to.
Due to popular demand, our friend prepared a quick video (click to watch) that'll show you to one easy but often overlooked thing that you can say to him today that'll help him realize how lucky he is to have you (hint: it's something that taps into how men are wired).
What does a man want to hear from his wife?
A husband wants to know that he makes his wife feel safe in her life. This can be a hard thing to say if you don’t have the right words. Tell your husband that you enjoy every moment you spend with each other and can’t wait to see what’s next.
To Sum Things Up…
What words do you say to your husband? If you are a husband, what words has your wife said to you that you enjoy hearing? Do you think that a husband cares about hearing the right words? What words can you share with our readers? Please comment, and share!
Does it feel like pulling teeth getting him to say how he feels about you? Some men can be very gaurded and closed when it comes to expressing how they feel - it can almost feel like they are pulling away from you. Many women make the mistake of pushing their man to say how they feel, but this is actually one of the worst things you can do as it can push him away further.
To get him to really show you how he feels and communicate how much he appreciates you, there's one simple thing, although often overlooked, thing you can say to him today that taps into how men are wired and can often lead to them suddenly pouring their heart out. My friend recorded a quick free video (click to watch) that shows exactly how to do that.
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.