Things to Say to Your Boyfriend When The Conversation Gets Boring
by Michelle Devani
In a relationship, good communication and interesting conversation between a couple is crucial. It helps a lover getting to know one another, and helps making the relationship stronger. But like any other good things, a fun conversation also have its ending.
At a certain point, a relationship can hit a high wall and get stuck. How to revive the conversation back to how it used to be? Surely you don't want your dating life to be filled with awkward silences, or worse, filled with those lifeless feeling. If you're currently facing this problem, and wondering what to do, here are some things to say to your boyfriend when the conversation gets boring.
First, address the issue with your boyfriend. Make sure to talk over a light mood, to avoid further or bigger problems.
Is there anything that annoys you about my family and friends?
Is there anything that you would like to change from me?
What is your favorite good memories?
What’s one thing your learned that you will never forget?
What was the most humiliating moment of your life?
Who is your biggest inspiration?
What’s the single most important thing you have done in your life?
Who is your favorite relative?
Do you have some dreams that you would like to achieve?
What is the craziest thing that you've ever done?
Would you like to live in the city or the countryside?
What's your favorite body part of the opposite sex?
How do you imagine our relationship together in the future?
So those are some things to say to your boyfriend when the conversation gets boring. You don't always ask him questions, or ask him to share, you can also initiate by telling your story. Give him an equal opportunity to share his story about a similar topic. You can ask him about his current worries, or tell him about what's been bothering you. Being there for each other, listening and discussing together as a team, is key to creating that extra special bond that stands the test of time.
Remember that these things to say to your boyfriend when the conversation gets boring might just be a conversation-starter, and you can continue even further to make it more fun. You can praise and compliment him on some things that he has done recently.
You can also make sure that you treat your boyfriend like a best friend, and remember that you can talk about anything and everything with him. See where the conversation takes you both, and good luck on getting your passion back like it used to!
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.