25 Signs Of A Man Who Is A Player (Warning For Girls)

by Michelle Devani

Are you worried that you're dating a player? 

Is there a nagging feeling in the back of your head that this guy has a handful of side-chicks, even though he's treating you relatively nicely. 

It's a difficult situation for women, especially if you've been hurt by a player before. Is he another bad boy or is it paranoia based on your previous pain? 

I hope that the guide below will help you to answer that question. It features a comprehensive list of signs that a man is a grade-A playboy. 

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With that said, it might be possible to see through this guy instantly if he's ticking all the boxes in the list below.

So, go ahead and scroll down now to peruse my list of signs that a man is a complete player.

15 Warning Signs Of A Player

1. He Talks To You Easily

he talks to you easily

You are sitting in a cafeteria by yourself then someone asks if he can join in your table. He asks your name and introduces himself confidently. From the way he talks you, you can see that he tries to impress you with his words and his looks. He tries to convince you to get attracted to him. You should be careful when someone talks to you easily when there's no reason for him to do that. He may be attracted to you since the first time he saw you and think that you can be his next victim. Wow, it sounds creepy, doesn't it?

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2. He Compliments Your Physical Appearance

When he talks to you, he looks at your body instead of your eyes. He tends to point out about how pretty and hot you are. It's like he only cares about how you look, not what's on your thought. Instead of making you feel appreciated, his way of complimenting your beauty only makes you uncomfortable.

3. He Makes A Move Without A Warn

You only knew him a few hours and he asks if you have time to hang out with him. It's quite a fast move. You really need to be aware when someone asks you out suddenly. A player moves fast and dumps faster. He won't let his time go to waste.

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4. He Gets More Aggressive When You Play Hard To Get

You seem to see that he may be a player. You don't wanna get attached easily, so you act like you're not interested in him. But it doesn't make him give up. He will act more aggressively to get your attention. You really need to watch out, girls. He never runs out of style. It's a classic sign of a player.

5. He Doesn't Take You To His Place

He asks you out to go have some fun somewhere. But, he never takes you to his place. He takes you to the same old cafe. He seems to just wanna have fun, not having a serious relationship. If this still doesn't make you suspect that he's a player, then what will?

6. He Flirts With Everyone

he flirts with everyone

You think that you're only one that he's been hitting on. But actually, he flirts with everyone else. He won't let go of any girl he wants before he gets to taste them. Seriously, if you see a guy like this, just put on your armor. Don't waste your time to a heartless man. You don't want to be like one of those girls, right?

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7. He Doesn't Respect You

If someone wants to get to know you and get closer to you, he must treat you right. But, the way he treats you just has no respect at all. He asks you out but he doesn't think it's a good idea to pick you up. He lets you come by yourself. Moreover, he doesn't drive you home. Is he even a man?

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8. He Doesn't Open Up About Himself

Every time you have a conversation with him, he doesn't seem to be honest about who he really is. He only tells something less important, rather than his life and his family. It feels like he doesn't want to let you into his life. He only wants to have fun and not think about tomorrow.

9. He's Always On His Phone

When you're around him, you often catch him checking his phone. You may think it's normal since everyone in this global world is addicted to phone and social media. But literally, it can be because he has some other girls he's been keeping in touch with. It's not really easy to tell if it's true that he fools with everyone. But, a player is supposed to be smart enough to keep his game going, isn't he?

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10. He Doesn't Ask Permission To Your Parents When Asking You Out

Every time he asks you out to have a dinner or something, he doesn't pick you up and asks permission to your parents. He doesn't care if you go out at night and what your parents will do if you come home late. He only cares to get you alone and do what he wants to do to you.

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11. He Comes And Goes Easily

Sometimes he can get so excited to get along with you, but sometimes, poof, he's gone. Although you and him are not even a thing, if he really cares about you, he should let you know what he does. Of course, he won't let you know, cause he doesn't care. Still not convinced that he's a player? Girls, puh-lease.

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12. He Loves To Go To Clubs

he loves to go to clubs

What is the first thing that crosses your mind when you hear a guy who likes to go to a club? Naughty? Alcoholic? Lonely? or maybe he works as a bartender? Well, whatever it is, a guy who likes to go to the club is someone we should be careful of. There is a big chance that he is a player. In the club, there are so many hot girls and many drinks. It's clearly the best spot for a player to have fun. He can get any girl he wants. He's clearly not a good guy if you seek one.

13. He's Only Nice To Pretty Girls

A player sees girls as dolls who he can play with. When he wants it he will do whatever it takes to get it, but when he gets enough, he will dump it. A player like his dolls pretty. He sees a girl through how sexy she looks. He only wants to play with pretty girls. That's why when he sees a pretty chick, he won't waste any time and let her go. Doesn't matter who she is, if she's pretty and sexy, he will do his best to hit on her. Ugly girls don't come to his radar. Somehow, he doesn't act really nice to ugly girls, cause he knows he doesn't want to play with them.

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14. He Wears Much Perfume

When someone wears much perfume, we can assume that they want to attract anyone else. He wants to make girls around him amazed by his smell and get turned on. Ew, such a typical sign of a player, isn't it?

15. He Gets Offended When You Reject Him

You know that you don't feel like going out with that guy, so whenever he makes a move, you ignore him. At the beginning, he seems to be more aggressive when you don't show your excitement to him. But, when you clearly reject him, he gets mad. It seems like you fail him from playing his game.

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Those are Signs of a Man Who is a Player you need to know so you won't be another victim of his fake love. You have to be smart and careful of boys around you. They can be so nice at first to let you into their games. Don't be fooled by the sweetness. Keep your eyes open to see who's really sincere and who's not. No girls should fall for boys who don't truly love them and appreciate them. Girls need to be loved for who they are not how they look. Girls should know that they are precious and deserve boys who treat them right.

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10 More Signs Of A Player

more signs of a player

Indeed, here are more signs of a player boy who loves to play girls:

  1. They are mostly tall
  2. They talk sweet
  3. They have beautiful eyes
  4. They catch your eyes
  5. They dress up like a movie star
  6. They are kind of seductive figure all the time
  7. They have list of hot girls in town
  8. They smell like a daydream
  9. They are going to make you love him
  10. And leave you hanging by then

In Conclusion

Those are Signs of a Man Who is a Player you need to know so you won't be another victim of his fake love. You have to be smart and careful of boys around you. They can be so nice at first to let you into their games. Don't be fooled by the sweetness. Keep your eyes open to see who's really sincere and who's not. No girls should fall for boys who don't truly love them and appreciate them. Girls need to be loved for who they are not how they look. Girls should know that they are precious and deserve boys who treat them right.

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Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.