Love is the feeling that unpredictable. The comes of love can not be never guessed. Time, place and a guy that make us fallen in love are never figured before. It is the beauty of love. So, for us that love and loved by a guy, sometimes it is not easy to be aware of the love feeling. That is why the vivid signs when guys fall in love with us is required to know.
You may also read:
1. Never stop eye-contacting
For the first vivid signs, eye contact is the first sign if you meet a guy that fall in love with you. S(he) never want to let you without giving you an eye contact intensively even when s(he) feels shy to look at you but the feels of heart never hidden. If you also feel the love with her(him), you can give your smile and eye contact.
2. You are the main focus
Everything about you is sad, worry, gloomy, bored or happy, a guy that fall in love with you knows your feeling. S(he) give her (his) focus on you. You are a center of focus because you are an interesting person in her(his) attention.
3. Love to be closer, closer and closer
The best experience that perceived by a lover is close with a guy that s(he) love. So, s(he) always try to find a way to be closer, closer, and closer. S(he) try to know your daily activities, find the similar interest with you, and try to stay around you, always around you.
You may also read: How Man Fall In Love
4. Try to contact you
The power of love makes her (him) has the courage to contact you. S(he) try to get your contact through your friend or your Facebook. A spy is a common action that s(he) shows for you. After getting your contact, s(he) try to contact you directly to ask something (not really important) as the reason to start the chat time.
5. The hero type, first rescuer!
Because s(he) always try to stay around you, s(he) knows about your condition at the first time and try to help you. You are a safe person because s(he) try to solve your problem.
You may also read: Signs You Are Falling in Love
6. Willing to spend their time most for you
You are a precious for her(his) happiness. It is the reason why s(he) willing to spend her(his) time most for you. No futile time if s(he) kills the time with you. S(he) try to monopolize your Friday and Saturday night to make a date with you (without you know).
You may also read: How to Make Her Love You
7. Brings you to their friend
A Friend is the people around our life that influence our life. It is the reason why s(he) brings you to her(his) friend. S(he) wants her(his) friend knows about you.
Also read: Signs of A Friendzone – Signs Your Best Friend is in Love with You
8. Share and tell their story
If you are the right guy that loved her(him), s(he) shares and tells about her(his) story, family, friends, hobbies, and activities. The story that told her(him), it is a sign if you are a believable and important person in her(his) life. S(he) ‘ll never hide something from you.
9. Invite you to their house, meet family
Love is the deep feeling that can make us as a family. That is why, if s(he) loves you, s(he) invites you to meet her(his) family. House is usually the best place for meeting moment. S(he) introduce you to her(his) family because you are the part of her(his) life like a member of a family.
10. You are a priority, their world
In her(his) busy day, s(he) never forget to contacts you, send a message to know about your daily news. The task of work is important for her(him) but you are more. The first priority is everything about you, you are her(his) world. So cute.
You may also read: Reasons on Dating Balinese Man
11. Immerse in your life, meet your family
Love is the apportion feeling, it is the reason why s(he) wants to immerse in your life, meet your family. The meeting of a family is the one way to know you more and be a part of your part. S(he) wants to be considered as part of you, like a family.
12. Your happiness is their happiness
There is always a cure for the grief and love is the answer to it. The feeling of love can be a cure for the grief, you are better to feel the grief and not to let him (her) to feel the grief. The happiness of him (her) is the one of your happiness in life. S(he) always try to make you happy and avoid the things that make you unhappy. An effort to make you always happy that you can see from her(his) treats.
13. Missing your presence
You are the part of her(his) daily life, so your presence is very important for her(him). S(he) will miss you and try to find time to meet you after no see you for several days.
14. Your inputs are valuable things
The easiest way to give an input for someone is with love way. With love, the guy is easier to listen to the opinions, suggestions, and advice. S(he) that love you consider your opinions, suggestions, and advice are valuable things.
You may also read: signs you are falling in love
15. Little a bit jealous even with your friend
The jealous feeling is the one sign if s(he) afraid to loose you. You are very important and valuable in her(his) life. S(he) will show a little a bit jealous if you have a chummy friend in university, working place or etc. They (she or he) also gets little a bit jealous even with your friend.
16. Giving more, less taking
Love is about the giving, not the taking. If s(he) loves you, s(he) try to give you more impressionable moments and gift than taking them from you. S(he) will put away the phone and not try to play with.
17. Has good memory about the moments
Remembering at every moment that valuable in life as love journey story is the one important for several couples. But, if you have a good memory and s(he) has a good memory about the moments in your stories, it is a sign if s(he) is in love with you.
18. Talk the future with you
The reason of her(him) to talk the future with you is because of you. S(he) consider you as her(his) future, sure to spend long live with you. Spending the long life with a lovely person is a dreaming eagerness.
The commitment is the final of accepting for the relation that you have. If you feel you find the right person you can continue the commitment to the engagement.
You may also read:
“Be happy if you have found the right person to loved but decide to break up soon if you think the person you have loved is not the right person. Love is a feeling of being connected and sharing, not feeling pity and just wanting to help and sympathize.”
How to Handle Your Love Feeling
Here’s how to stop the feelings of love that you already feel for her(him) if you find her(him) is not the right person in your life later.
1. Tell your friend
Meet and tell your friend about your relationships. It is the way to recover your energy and your feeling from the painfulness of your fail in a relationship. It is also the way to avoid your friend ask about him(her) or your relationship.
2. Avoid your attention from her(his) things
If you always remember about him(her) when you see his(her) gifts, you can donate them to a charitable organization.
3. Do your hobbies
If you do not have much time to do your hobbies since you are busy to work or too much focus on him(her), from now you can do your hobbies and try the new hobbies to develop your skills and your knowledge. Do your hobbies or try the new hobbies can divert your attention in a positive way. Positive way comes the positive feeling for you.
4. Take the holiday time, far from your city
You can try to get the long holiday time as the way to forget her(him). Take the holiday place far from your city and refresh your mind from the painfulness (broken heart feeling).
There is no fail in life, only learning on a journey to live. It is the message that you can hold in every situation of your life. There is no most difficult, only easiness that no find yet. Never give up for your fall story in love because your fail is if you are still in wrong relationships.
5. Find the new people, out from your community
Meet the new people is the one of happiness that always give better huge experience in life. That is why find the new people, out from your community is a good idea for your better mood or feeling. The good mood or feeling invites the goodness coming in life. Good vibes invite the good destiny.
6. Be aware of the next relationship
For the future, if you do not want to get the painfulness because of the love story, you have to not to let your fall in love feeling flows and dominate your feeling. You have to give more your attention about the character of the person that you dreamed of your life. It is not easy but it is not impossible to find.
There is no true or false formula in love, even though there are many Signs when Guys Fall in Love. The true feeling is the direction to know about the feeling of fall in love. In case you ever heard, always spread love in every corner.
You may also read:
- Islamic Dating Rules
- Reasons on Dating Balinese Man
- Chinese Dating Etiquette
- Indonesian Woman Characters
- Traditional Wedding in Indonesia
- Dating Indonesian Chinese
- Traditional Wedding in Thailand