There are many relation friends that make us colorful life, such as childhood friends, school friends, neighborhood friends, college friends, work friends, best friends, boyfriends, and girlfriends. From childhood friends, we can continue our relation friends become best friends or boy/girlfriends.
Best friend relations are the door to find a soulmate that can fulfill our heart. But, there are no many people that can decide to make romance relation with a best friend. Friend zone is the reason to avoid the romance relation.
Here, there are 13 reasons to make date with a best friend that you can think over:
1. Knows your behavior (habits)
Have a best friend is a happiness that you can buy in your life because a best friend is a person that can understand about yours besides your parents. It could be nice if you have a best friend that knows about your behavior or habits although he or she is not part of yours (family) and it can be accepted by him or her. He or she has never been disturbed by your habits either good or bad.
2. Knows your failure (past)
There are no people that want to get failed or have the bad experience in life, but it can make your life better. Bad experience or your fault sometimes make you do not want to other knows but a best friend always knows about your stories because a best friend is a person one that you can believe to tell about your faults or your past.
3. Knows each other
If you want to get a date with someone that you never knew before, you can get worries to face with your a date time. It is a problem that you do not find if you decide to get a date with your best friend because you knows each other before with your best friend.
Knows each other is one reason to make you comfort to make dating with a best friend. You knows each other about yours and your best friend’s personality, you can adapt with it and do not try to hide it.
4. Knows your items (likes & dislikes)
Your best friend is a person that knows how to treat you because he or she knows your like and dislike items. A best friend that loved you will make you always happy by giving you favorite items and avoid you from your hate items.
5. Knows how to make you calm when you are in anger or in a bad mood
Sometimes, when we are in anger feeling or really bad mood, we inclined to respond a problem with bad respond. It will not happen if make dating with best friend because he or she knows how to make you calm and how to improve your mood. He or she knows your mood booster things.
Besides he or she knows how to boost your good mood, he or she also can see you from other views even when you shows a bad to him or her. He or she always can understand if your reactions are not your original character. A best friend tries to find a way to know your reasons (the responds reasons).
6. Long relation
The proverb says “Habits can grow love between two human beings”. It is a true fact in life, habits that you always do with your best friend sometimes foist a love you do not realize. You feel get envy with your best friend if he or she has another friend that closer than you. Although you never admit with your best friend but sometimes it can be seen by other people.
It is certainly not easy to find your feeling and evaluate them, love as a friend or love more as a life partner. That is why date with a best friend is a good idea to find your true love if you have same romance feelings.
7. History, moment and moment
The one people that often spend time with you beside parents is your best friend. the spending much time that always you do with your best friend creates the moment and moment. Absolutely from moment and moment you have a history with your best friend that unforgettable in life.
8. Knows your passion
You do not need to explain about your passion and try to get supports with your passion. Your passion that can support your interest and happiness will get always support by your best friend. He or she is the one that always supports your future (your choice) beside your parents and family.
9. No secret
With a best friend, you can be yourself. You can show who you are without the doubt because your friend knows your secrets.
10. Comfort each other
Because he or she knows everything about you even your secret, you can feel comfort if you are beside him or her. Your comfort zone is when you are with your best friend.
11. You are a priority
A best friend is a pearl that never lost shine, he or she always be on your side, good or bad time, happiness and sadness feeling, and up and down position. Those are the reasons why you make him or her as one of your priority in life. He or she is too much important for you. You always present in his or her life.
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12. Knows your friend zone
Have a relationship with someone that you never known before make you have to introduce him or her to your friends. Different if you have a relation with your best friend. Commonly, a best friend knows about your friends in your work, school, neighbor or your past (your ex). Also read: Ways to Forget Your Ex
13. Familiar with your family
There is no worried if you have a romance relationship with your best friend. You do not worry if you do not permission with your relationship because your family knows your best friend very well. They are too familiar with your best friend because often meet and talk with your best friend.
Moreover, your family such as your parents consider your best friend as their son or their daughter or your grandparents always asks about your best friend. Your family feels if your best friend is a part of your family and vice versa.
14. Knows you better than you do
Yes, a best friend is everything. They know everything about you, your fears, your dreams, your pains, your smiles, and that’s why you always want to be around them. If your best friend is in your opposite sex, then you will feel like you want to date him/her for god shake.
15. Like a shoulder
The best thing about having a best friend is you always have someone to talk, about anything. When you fall, they will be there to catch you. Then, a best friend is likely a shoulder to lean on.
16. Better than a boy/girlfriend
When it comes to be a relationship between boy and girl, there will be always fights, sorrows, broken hearts and things like that. Then, if stay as best friends, that might last forever. That is why, this may be one of that silly reasons why you should date your best friend. They are better that typical boy/girlfriends.
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More Signs Why You Should Date A Best Friend
Indeed, here are more reasons why you should date your best friend:
- They would never break your heart cause they love you right
- They would never leave you cause there is something in blood to keep you guys together
- They know how to make you laugh and happy even in the worst time
- They also know how to make you happy when you are not
- They talk silly jokes that want you feel like yourself
- You both know how to rule the world together
- Everything and anything are the best when you with your best friend.
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Why You Can’t Date Your Best Friend
Although it could be nice to find your true love by dating with best friend, you have to think over about the risk that you can face if you decide to date with your best friend. Here, the lists:
There is always a different taste in every change of life, it is also applied to the status change. From friend to boyfriend or girlfriend.
It is a good idea if you want to make an upgraded life include in your romance life, but to make a best friend as a boyfriend or girlfriend, it is not easy. You can feel awkward in your together time (after the breakup moment).
There is no a ban to make dating with a best friend but an awkward feeling is the one risks that you can get if your date does not the success.
2. You don’t want to lost your best friend
This is the fact if “not many relationships end in communication that keeps going well in the future”. If you want to make dating with best friend, you have to understand about this risk.
Aptly, like a cracked glass, broken relationships will also be difficult to repair. You have to be careful with it because the hardest thing in the world is the problem of the heart. So, you have to make a commitment before if you do not want to lose a best friend.
3. Your secret is not safe anymore
There are many facts that show if the broken heart will make someone do things beyond reason. A person who are in broken heart often shows the sadness and depression in his or her life, that is why he or she has a possibility become a person that can open your secrets in public. He or she knows how to make you ashamed, the disgrace in your friend line.
4. Out of comfort Zone
You can get success by dating with a best friend if you have same romance feeling each other. If you do not have same romance feeling, you will not in comfort zone to decide. You will feel sympathy with his or her feeling than listening to your heart self. You do not have a bravery to break up.
It must be admitted that making a friend as a date is a good idea but with a note of success, if it fails or not works very well, the risk of long-standing friendships will be undermined. Here, some tips of to make fewer risks:
5. Make a commitment
You have to make a commitment if everything that will happen in your romance future life with your best friend can not break up your friend relation.
6. Honest with your feeling
It is not easy to be honest if you know that your honesty will make someone that you loved broken heart. But, to hide your feeling, it is also not good idea because it is better if you try to be honest although it would be him or her, broken heart than if you try to lie and let he or she knows about your feeling by his or herself.
A good friend will not be angry with the honesty of the feelings expressed by his or her friend even if it will hurt him or her. He or she will not be selfish and try to understand with his or friend’s feelings. Love can not be forced.
7. Communication as usual
It is so hard but you have to try if you do not want to lose friends. But once you are in relationship with your best friend, the risk of loosing him/her is much bigger. Also, there will be unusual communication.
Indeed, the pleasure of life is to hold best friends with both hands. Yet, there will be time where your best friend is sweeter that any boys or girls, or crushes you ever loved. Indeed, you might find more reasons why you should date your best friend. In case you ever heard, always spread love on every corner.
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