How to Get Back Your Ex Boyfriend after He Dumped You?

Last updated on June 2, 2024 by Michelle Devani

If you are reading this article I am sure that you just went through a period of being heart broken because you just being dumped by your ex boyfriend because of a reason or two, but sad thing is when you are dumped because of no apparent reason. This will make you trapped in a state of frustration and desperation but the one thing that you must do is to not drown away in this situation.

How to Get Back Your Ex Boyfriend after He Dumped You

If you think you already find the love of your life, don't want to let him go and wanted him to be your forever, you should read through this article because this can enlighten you with some things that you must do in order to get your ex boyfriend back.

  1. Analyze The Situation First

How to get back your ex boyfriend after he dumped you? The first thing that you want to do if you want to get back with your ex boyfriend who dumped you is to analyze or find out the reason  why he is dumping you, it is easier when your boyfriend told a specific reason on why did he break up with you but unfortunately some break ups might doesn't have any logical yet apparent reason at all.

If he told you the reason of the break up and it is purely because of you either that you are too close to another guys or you still have the personality that he dislikes than you need to reflect on yourself and try to overcome to those mistakes.

If the break up didn't have any apparent reasons at all, then you are need find out more about it, often in this kind of situation your boyfriend usually developing an interest with another woman, this is seen in his changing of behavior and the decreasing care towards you, to find out more about it you might want to read Clear Signs Your Boyfriend is Cheating on You in Relationship

2. Make Yourself Beautiful

To be sad all the times staying in your room crying in your sweatshirts looking messy as hell will never get his attention and love back to you, instead spend time to improve yourself physically.

Go to the salon and get a new haircut to look more fresh, spend time at the nearest spa and face treatment to erase those tear marks on your fresh that makes you looking less attractive, do clothes shopping with your girlfriends to release all the stress while refreshing your choices of outfit and don't forget to post the new you on your social media, one way or another your ex boyfriend will see you by his own eyes or get told by his friends that you look more beautiful than ever.

3. Avoid Blasting Through His Phone

Being left out all alone while have your heart broken in pieces is not a pleasant feeling to have, if your boyfriend just dumped you without no logical reason then you should avoid contacting him. I know you are right now are having the urges and desires to keep in touch with him, let me tell you one thing, just don't do it.

If you are asking why this is because you will show a heavy reliance towards him, this will make him more self righteous towards the decision that he made. Instead of blasting through his phone all the time you need to do something that will keep your mind away from him.

Learn something new that will be very useful towards your future and start to get experiences that will make your career path easier in the future, when your boyfriend realize how much you have matured then he will surely crawling back to you. (read also: Ways to Get Your Ex Curious about You Again

4. Arrange a Meeting

Instead of blasting through his phone every now and then which is a big no no try to contact him several time but the only text or call that enters his phone is you to ask him to have a meeting with you. In person conversation prove to be more useful than in phone ones because you will have his absolute attention and this emotional feeling towards you when meeting in person and what are you going to talk about in this meeting? scroll down and see the 5th point to find out.

5. Talk About How You have Improved

When you first meet him try not to get instantly emotionally attached towards him, try to hold out the feelings until the right moment, try to look and talk more professional because this will show him how much of a positive change that you make during the break up period. Talk about how is is life being, talk about his work progress and talk about his interest first this step is crucial because you want to win his attention first. 

After you managed to get his attention try to insert talks about how much you have improve, how your life has been sorted out and your starting to work towards a brighter future, but make sure that you won't make it obvious when you talk about this because you will be seen as too much of a bragging instead of having a 2 way conversation, this will make him realize that he made the wrong decision when he dumped you a while ago. You may also find out: How to Let Your Ex Boyfriend Know You Want Him Back Cause You Still Love Him

6. Let Him Know That He Is The Only One That You Love

When you are currently away from him he might have a speculation that you are responding the guys who are hitting you up and your love and attention have shift towards a guy who is not him. To have insecurities is a normal thing after a break up and your job is to make him feel that he is the only one that you love.

How? After you are able to arrange a meeting that I mentioned before contact him like you used to before and try to ask him to begin seeing you again, guys love to be prioritized and to be given a secured feeling. Oh and don't get to excited by saying yes when he ask you to get back with him, "kite" him in order to knock some sense into him so he can think and learn from the mistakes that he made. Indeed, that's how to get back your ex boyfriend after he dumped you. (read also: Signs Your Ex Boyfriend Wants to Get Back Together)

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Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.
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