So you've been dating with a Virgo guy. Congrats, Virgo can make the best lover out there. Everything is great, you guys click well, he's awesome and all that, and you've been getting nothing but a great time.
But one thing concerns you, he hasn't kissed you yet. You wonder that it's your fault like you have bad breath or something.
Well, before dwelling into such unreasonable misery, let's assume that there are many reasons for this, instead of blaming yourself. First and foremost, let's take a look at Virgo's trait.
Their personality has got something to do with his decision not to kiss you yet.
In general, Virgos are:
Based on those traits, we can give a try on how to make him kiss you:
A girl has to give a hint, a very confident and clear one. Not only that most guys can't detect subtle hints, but Virgo also prefer confidence and clarity over something that makes him unsure. Stuff like get real close, watch his lips, all those things.
Let's touch the sensitive side of a Virgo. If you want him to kiss you, make everything in the room support this mission. From a candlelight dinner under the stars, good music, or witty jokes.
If he's comfortable, at some point he would lean in closer to you and you'll get that kiss you've been dreaming about.
And since it's romantic all around you, it also will be a memorable first kiss!
It could be the one thing that prevents him from kissing you is his overthinking tendency. He's uncertain of what your reactions would be.
He's afraid you're not ready and would freak out. If you suspect that it's the case, just kiss him first. In this century, it's more than alright for a girl to make a move. So, why not?
People get more attracted to their date on an energized dates such as going to a theme park or hiking together, it's proven by science. When you get pumped, the adrenaline and all those hormones that bring you excitement and happiness will come into the surface.
These hormones will make him more likely to kiss you. Luckily for you, Virgo is always up for an adventure. So it's easy to lure him for a date where you have to move your body actively.
Imagine hiking a mountain together and you both kiss on the top while watching the sunset. It will be great, wonderful, and not to mention romantic.
If you're not a shy person you can ask him right away. It's true that many guys terrible at readings cues and signals, however clear they are. Virgo likes confidence and straightforwardness.
So if you just simply asking to be kissed, he will appreciate it so much. You can also tell him through text that you want to kiss him.
Nothing a Virgo hate than being pushed over things or being told what to do. If you ask him too much, not only he will be uncomfortable. He would start to pull far away from you. You certainly don't want that to happen.
So the best decision is to go along with his pace. You've already given all the signs you can. If you're impatient or thinking that he will never be serious, you could just look for another guy. But basically, never force someone to do things he's uncomfortable about.
Because he's a Virgo. If he wants to kiss you, he would have done it already. It's because a Virgo is a doer. If he wants something he will get it. But if he hasn't, do not think that the fault lies in you. There are many other reasons in which you got little to nothing to do with it.
Actually, if he kissed you in early dates when you don't know each other that well yet, it could be one of the signs of a player. It's better not to be kissed yet if it means that he's a true gentleman.
A date doesn't always count as successful because you both kissed in the end. A date is more than that. It gives you the chance to get to know each other first.
Physical relationship will naturally follow later if you both feel the chemistry is matched and the timing is right. Virgo will appreciate it if they are given all the time they need. Once they kiss you, it will mean much more, because it is one of the signs that he's serious about you.
Does it feel like pulling teeth getting him to say how he feels about you?
Some men can be very gaurded and closed when it comes to expressing how they feel - it can almost feel like they are pulling away from you. Many women make the mistake of pushing their man to say how they feel, but this is actually one of the worst things you can do as it can push him away further.
To get him to really show you how he feels and communicate how much he appreciates you, there's one simple thing, although often overlooked, thing you can say to him today that taps into how men are wired and can often lead to them suddenly pouring their heart out. My friend recorded a quick free video (click to watch) that shows exactly how to do that.