Ways to Ask Someone to be Your Valentine Over Text Playfully

Last updated on June 14, 2022 by Michelle Devani

So you have decide to make this Valentine’s Day memorable to tell your crush how you feel about them (finally!). Now you have to breathe first. Making up your mind is just not enough without mental preparation. Since you don’t want to stutter in front of them, you can’t help but preparing the best speech beforehand.

Good news is, you don’t have to say it in person. We mean, why does smartphone exist, then? There are many ways to ask someone to be your valentine through text and it won’t make your confession less romantic. Confessing through text makes you feel less intimidated so you can carefully pick the words to make it perfect.

Why does it have to be on Valentine’s Day when you can do it at any other day just the same?  Valentine’s Day makes everywhere full of flowers, hearts, chocolates, and everybody talks about love. Like it or not, your mind is forced to go there, even when you’re single.

Valentine’s Day confession is all about right timing. More than just the fact that they’re single, people tend to feel lonely on that day if they’re not seeing anyone. There you are fill in the empty space. Now you may count on your fingers to do the work

  1. “Just wondering if you have plans for tonight? I’m thinking about doing something with you.”

Honestly, asking your crush out on Valentine’s Day is one bold move. But who wants to be alone on that day? They surely want to be part of it and your invitation is like an open door to them. Just make sure that nobody else asked them first before you do. Also read How to Make A Girl Fall in Love with You Just By Texting Message

  1. “Valentine is so much better with you.”

In case your crush lives somewhere far away, or even worse having some other plans (wishfully not a date). You have to let them know you miss them and wishing you can spend the day with their company. Only make it clear that you want to be more than friends.

  1. “I was chased by cupid the whole day and got hit by their arrows. Apparently, it was from you.”

Love is all about cheesiness and silliness.  Don’t be afraid to show your childish side. They might have goosebumps at first but it’s a good idea to make the confession more humorous and reduce the stress. Also read Ways to Flirt Without Coming On Too Strong

  1. “I got you something special for Valentine’s day…”

To make the phrase work, you need them to ask “What?” then you can say “Me.”

It’s still cheesy but less than the previous one. A text confession should be tempting first to that they are interested to have a long conversation with you.

  1. “I purposely texting you on Valentine’s Day because…”

If you don’t want to sound too straightforward, there is a more subtle ways to ask someone to be your valentine through text. Not everyone can say what they feel out loud and it’s totally respectable. By using the words above you are telling them you’re up to something but leaving them to lead the conversation. Also read How to Make a Guy Fall in Love with You Over Text Messages

  1. “I keep thinking about you all day. Not because it’s Valentine but I have been everyday.”

Texting your crush on Valentine’s Day out of the blue makes them thinking you do it out of impulse or because you feel lonely. Assure them that it’s not the case. And who won’t melt when they know someone is thinking about them all the time?

  1. “You know, everyone is uploading pictures together with their lovers today and all I think about is how cute would we look like on a picture together.”

A not so straightforward line but enough to hit the target. Upon reading those words, they can’t help but imagine how cute you guys are together. Wait, what would they think about it? Also read Scientifically Proven Ways to Make Him Fall for You

  1. “All the love spread this Valentine encourage me to say this: I like you. Not today but since forever. I just don’t know how to say it.”

Someone who is confidence and bold is adorable. Catch them off guard by telling you like them when they don’t expect you to be that honest.

  1. “Will you be my Valentine?”

Cute, classic, and straightforward. Why beating around the bush if you can say it directly? Nobody will be able to resist.

  1. “In case I don’t meet the standards to be your Valentine, would you please lower it?”

Some love doesn’t know denial. And if yours happen to be one of them, try not to sound too forcing but still saying it firmly. You probably don’t meet their standards, but it can always be changed, right? Also read How to Get What You Want from a Man without Asking

  1. “If I call you right now, please don’t hit the reject button.”

What a smooth way to start something serious. They won’t expect much, but they know that you are not your usual self at the same time. Starting lightly can help you lower down the tense as well.

  1. “Are you alone right now? Me too. Maybe we’re meant to be together.”

Why should we spend Valentine’s Day alone if we can be together? This short words leave great impacts on your crush. No need to say more, they know what you want. This suit your bold inside but shy outside personality most.

As Valentine’s itself is romantic, all you need is simple ways to ask someone to be your valentine through text. And not everyone can be straightforward with their feeling, so texting your crush is nothing to be ashamed of.

Does it feel like pulling teeth getting him to say how he feels about you?
Some men can be very gaurded and closed when it comes to expressing how they feel - it can almost feel like they are pulling away from you. Many women make the mistake of pushing their man to say how they feel, but this is actually one of the worst things you can do as it can push him away further.

To get him to really show you how he feels and communicate how much he appreciates you, there's one simple thing, although often overlooked, thing you can say to him today that taps into how men are wired and can often lead to them suddenly pouring their heart out. My friend recorded a quick free video (click to watch) that shows exactly how to do that.

Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.
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