This Is How To Make A Guy Fall In Love With You Over Text Messages

Last updated on June 12, 2022 by Michelle Devani

Are you texting with a guy who you really want to impress?

Are you wondering what messages you can send to peak his interest?

If so, you’re in luck! This guide is heaving with tips for how to make a man fall in love with you over text messages? 

However, before we get into these tips, I need you to read the following sentences carefully. 

It might not surprise you to hear that it’s easier to win a man over in person. 

You’re able to use your body language and feminine energy to create real-life chemistry.

And I have recently been experimenting with a psychological technique that makes you irresistible to men in all situations. 

This technique requires the knowledge to play with a primal instinct within a man’s mind called his ‘Hero’s Instinct’

If you know how to activate this part of his mind, you can trigger the release of addictive feel-good chemicals in his brain, the same hormones that are released when he is feeling attracted to a woman. 

Needless to say, if you can release these whenever you’re around him, he’s going to become obsessed with you pretty quickly.

I know because I’ve tried it myself - and it has made my relationships with men far stronger. I’ve gone from being seen as a quick fling to the woman that men are desperate to emotionally invest in.

You can learn more about how I discovered the power of the ‘Hero’s Instinct’ in this blog post. This is as close as it gets to a guaranteed way to established attraction, so I’d highly recommend you check it out.

Of course, sometimes it’s impossible to be in his immediate vicinity. That’s why I created this list of enticing text messages to send your crush.

How To Make A Guy Fall In Love With You Over Text Messages

Guys are very easy to be flirted and they can fall in love with a girl in no time. As long as you know the right text to be sent to him. In many cases, guys are losing interest to a girl because of the text she sent. Your text should contained a bunch of reasons why you should date me right away.

Exactly how to make a guy fall in love with you over text messages? Here are the things you need to know:

1. Show Your Affection Through Text

Affection comes along with love. A guy easily fall in love with affectionate woman and you have to make sure you give him that. How to make him fall in love is by sending him text that shows your concern to him. "Don't skip the lunch for today", or "Make sure you have enough sleep. I won't disturb you" is a very good start.

2. Don't Demand To Be Replied Right Away

don't demand to be replied right away

Girls can be immature when it comes to love. They can't stand waiting for the guy they like to text back right away. It's almost impossible for him to stay on the phone all long and on top of that, so that he can text you back anytime. He's going to lose interest with you in no time.

3. Text Only On Certain Times

Imagine you getting text every other hour from a man that you haven't have any feeling yet. You must be annoyed, right? It's what will happen to him when you text him all day. Make sure you only text at certain times like morning, lunchtime, and night. Create a routine for him that he will miss you when you skip to text him someday.

4. Don't Text Him When You Drunk

It's an extremely wrong move if you want to make him fall in love with you. People are out of control when they're drunk and the last thing you want is you making a drunk mistake to him. Just stay away from your phone when you're drunk. Text him only when you're sober and on the right state of mind.

5. Show Positivity In Your Text

Happiness is highly contagious and guess what happen when a guy is happy? He falls in love easily. You need to show him the positive vibes you have by sending text like, "Have a nice day" or "Your smile is the most beautiful so don't forget to share it with others". It may look cliché but it has a huge impact for someone to kick off the day. Besides, you could use it as the ways to flirt without coming on too strong.

6. Start A Good Conversation

Instead of of sending cute text message to send your crush to keep them interested, you better start a good conversation with him. Unless you're a middle schooler or high schooler, cute texts won't work. You can exchange text about common interest such as latest recommended movie or new books to be launched next week. That way you can ask him to spend the day with you.

7. Never Bombards Him With Text

It's highly related with no.2. If it takes him all day long to text you back, patiently wait for it. Let him take his time. Keep positive thoughts like he could be busy that day so he barely on phone. Bombarding him with text only because he doesn't reply to you right away is a huge turnoff for any man, even when you're already dating.

Signs He Likes You Through Text

signs he likes you through text

After doing all the effort, you must have want to know the result. If you made it, you will see all the signs of good husband material from him. Here are what he might do if he likes you back.

1. He Asks Your Whereabout

He starts to show some interest in you. He asks where you are, what are you doing, and who's your company. Don't be annoyed with this since it means an initial success for you.

Do you feel like he kind of takes you for granted?
Unfortunately this is one of the most frequent complaints we get from our readers, where they feel they aren't a priority for their boyfriend or husband. They always seem to have some excuse as to why they can't spend some quality time with you like they used to.

Due to popular demand, our friend prepared a quick video (click to watch) that'll show you to one easy but often overlooked thing that you can say to him today that'll help him realize how lucky he is to have you (hint: it's something that taps into how men are wired).

2. He Makes Time To Reply Your Text

Maybe he's not texting you back right away but he make sure he reply your text. Even when it's late at night and your text was sent in the morning, the fact that he texts you back shows that he makes time and not forgetting you.

3. He Is the First One To Text

Not only that he texts you first but he texts in the morning! And if he adds that you are the first thing come into his mind after he wakes up, what else could it be?

4. His Text Starting To Get Longer

A guy is interested when he text you longer text. Not just hello, yes, or no, he also asking question. Guy is simpler than you think and if he makes it a little longer, it means he is flirting with you.

5. He Starts To Be Curious About You

Finally he asks about your interest, your day, your work, your work, your life, etc. This curiosity means he wants to know you better.

After you know how to make a guy fall in love with you over text messages, it's not actually that hard. The vital point is that you have to hit him right and not coming on too strong. Guys usually lost his interest to a girl who is too flirty.

Does it feel like pulling teeth getting him to say how he feels about you?
Some men can be very gaurded and closed when it comes to expressing how they feel - it can almost feel like they are pulling away from you. Many women make the mistake of pushing their man to say how they feel, but this is actually one of the worst things you can do as it can push him away further.

To get him to really show you how he feels and communicate how much he appreciates you, there's one simple thing, although often overlooked, thing you can say to him today that taps into how men are wired and can often lead to them suddenly pouring their heart out. My friend recorded a quick free video (click to watch) that shows exactly how to do that.

Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.
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