How to Deal with a Girl Flirting with Your Boyfriend? Kick The B*tch This Way!

by Michelle Devani

Woman can be over sensitive sometime, especially when she already in a relationship with her boyfriend for years. The fact that someone able to stay within a relationship for years already shown that the person is really committed to her partner.

And of course, since she loves her partner so much, she can be over sensitive sometime and even trying to limit her partner or her boyfriend interaction with other girls.

But, before your emotional game of feeling jealous when your boyfriend talk to other girls including his friends, please know the signs of a girl flirting properly before judging. And here are some more tips on how to deal with a girl flirting with your boyfriend.

  • Analyzing the situation better

First thing you know on how to deal with a girl flirting with your boyfriend is to analyzing the situation better. I know maybe you will have the tendency that another girl was the one who starts to flirt.

But, what if you are over reacting without knowing the whole story? What if the one who actually started to flirt the girl was your boyfriend?

So, bear in mind to analyzing the while situation first before you decided to blame someone for your relationship condition. Know the signs of a cheating partner in a relationship to prevent you from unreasonable judging of your boyfriend.

  •  Ignore her

Next up, you will need to ignore her. Yes, you need to. Because, the more you give her response, it will benefit herself and not you. Know how to deal with a girl who is trying to make you jealous properly. Don't you realize something?

If there is someone who is trying to take your boyfriend away from you, of course the first thing that she needs to do is to break the relationship. And when you feel annoyed by her existence and trying to get rid her out of you relationship life, you can also indirectly affect the relationship that you have with your boyfriend.

When you feel annoyed because there is a third party within the relationship you will have the tendency to be over sensitive. You can do stupid things because of it, such as blaming your boyfriend for everything. These things can lead your relationship to an end because of your own act but, it can be avoided by thinking the way out with cool head.  

  • Be in control of your emotion

I know it will be hard to hold yourself not to get mad or out of control knowing your boyfriend is being flirt by another girl in public. It will only make you look worse to get mad and treat your boyfriend in a bad way in public because a random girl flirt him. You will need to manage your emotion better in order to solve any problem including the relationship problem.

Be in control of your emotion, know how to make a guy emotionally addicted to you so that you don't need to worry to much about other girls. But, just because you are good at managing your emotion does not mean that you can't feel sad or mad. You can, obviously. It will just be a better option if you get mad and sad in private. Talk to your boyfriend in private and let him know about what you feel.

  • Talk to your boyfriend

The next thing that you can do and you need to do is to talk to your boyfriend. If your boyfriend already shown the signs a man is emotionally connected to you then of course you don't need to be afraid to talk to him about what you feel. Meanwhile, it is good to keep communicating about what we feel to each other in order to improve the relationship quality.

By talking to your boyfriend, you might be able to dig more information about the girl who is flirting your boyfriend. Maybe they had a story together and she is still into him after all this time. And by knowing this information, you and him an figure out what both of you can do to face the current situation.

 So, those are some ways on how to deal with a girl flirting with your boyfriend. Remember to keep your mind to be calm during the difficult times. Because if you are not, the girl will surely succeeded in getting your boyfriend to be apart from you. Be a smart woman, who is not only focusing on what you feel but analyzing the whole situation logically.


Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.