Obvious Signs Of A Girl Flirting With You (No.4 Is True)

Last updated on April 23, 2025 by Michelle Devani

The first thing guys do when she got interest toward a girl is showing them. And so does girls. Not only guys can show that they are interested. Girls can also flirt with some ways you never imagined. And be careful, you might swoon and carried away with their flirt. But sometimes it was difficult to tell whether a girl was flirting on you or not.

No other ways, you have to pay close attention towards her talks and her body language. Here comes a number of signs when a girl flirts with you. Hey, you may find some familiar signs of a girl flirting on her!

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1. She Leaned Her Body Towards You

A clear signs when a girl flirts with you is how she wanted to seduce you. She loved to lean herself towards you even when you two talked over a table. This body language was sending the sign that she want to get closer to you. This body language usually came along with crossing leg.

2. She Maintain Her Eye Contact With You

She paid the utmost attention to you by focusing her eyes on you all the time. If she was an expert in love, she will find a rhythm to it so you wouldn't find him annoying. Sometimes she threw her looks over your coffee, another time she fixed her sitting position. She would look like she doesn't really care about you, but if look at her carefully she never take her eyes off of you.

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3. She Covers Her Mouth When Laughing

Girls think they look a thousand times pretty when a guy see her laugh. But a big laugh would make you look uncontrollable in front of them. A girl who flirts know how important this is, and she tried to control her laughter by covering their mouth. This way the guy will find her ladylike and polite.

4. A Change In Her Look

You were engaged in a conversation with a girl, and she suddenly excuse herself to the bathroom. After waited for her (for a quite long time), she comes back with a noticeable changes in her looks. Her lipstick look a lot thicker and what's with the messy bun to her long locks? Hey, she just wanted to show that she was interested in you. And take a look on her button, if she got the first one undone, you can be sure about her intention.

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5. Default Expression When She Met Your Gaze: Smile

Many things could be defined with just one single movement on the lips. Smiling is one basic flirt there is. From the way she smiled at you, you can read her intention and personality. If a girl sent you a soft and slow smile, maybe she wanted you to come and talk to her.

6. The Need For Urgent Help

A girl deliberately walked toward you and asked, "Can you please tell me where the bathroom is?" when the sign in clear to be seen, she didn't do it for no reason. It's how she showed her first move.

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7. Act Mysteriously

Became too open and make the flirt too obvious is not a good thing, since the guy could be irritated and found her annoying. Girls completely understand this, so she play some push and pull while flirt. Going back and forth between look at his face and not, it's not only make her curious about you but it also can make yourself calmed down.

8. She Asked A Lot Of Questions

A girl who is interested in you want to know you better. As much as it was the initial meeting, she would probably ask about basic profile first such as your hobbies, your work, or what's bring you there. However, she looked particularly interested and in fact, she did.

9. She Responds Enthusiastically

You can also asked her some questions in return in order to not feel being interrogated. And this was the important point, pay attention to her responds. If she answering just by one word and no more, she has no interest in you dude.

10. She Constantly Appear Into Your View

Let's say you are attending your friend's party. There is this one particular girl who continue to appear withing your view, not matter how many time you have moved spots. Man, she is trying to catch you attention. She wanted you to notice her presence and hoping that you will come and talk to her.

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11. She Throws Compliments To You

A girl who is interested in a guy has the sweetest lips. She will compliments you in every way and never seems to know when to stop. Starting from your perfume and your outfit, and as the conversation going deeper she compliments your personality.

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12. She Promotes Herself Well

A girl has countless ways to get noticed by a guy she was interested in. After complimenting the guy, the time has come to promote herself. Don't be surprised when she told you a lot of things about herself and her life even if you never ask her. She advertise herself to drew you in.

13. Making Plans In The Future

When a girl really interested in you, she will send signals that indicate she wanted another meeting. It will be to much too spill out everything on the first meeting, so she wanted to know you better.

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14. She Laughs At Your Lame Joke

Come on, not every joke is funny and laughter-worthy. But if a girl showing a little too enthusiastic laugh at your not-so-funny jokes, she wanted you to know she likes you. Indeed, do you find the signs of a girl flirting on her?

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Girls' Body Language When They Are Flirting

Meanwhile, you can find these signs of a girl flirting with you by their body language:

Twirling her hair unnecessarily
Keep touching her lips while looking at you
Biting her lips for no reason
Leaning back on her seat
Crossing her leg while looking at you
Tossing her hair every now and then
She is adjusting her hair in the middle of talking
She tilts her head while talking to you
She throws you a seductive looks
She giggles prettily
She blushes when you talk to her
She look at you over her shoulder
She mimics your move and body language
She blink her eyes a little bit too often
Her nostrils are flared
She crossed her arms while sitting back
She plays with the objects near her to get rid of her nervousness
She rest down her chin on her hand
She got caught staring at you secretly
She act sweet in front of you, but not to other guys
Her body shifted every other minutes
She try to be friendly with you
She look around to find you when you are away

Thus, those signs of a girl flirting with you maybe the signs of love tho.

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How To Flirt Her Back

Well you boys, you may need this trick to flirt her back for sure.

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Mirroring her gestures, just like she did to you
Make an eye contact with her
Compliment her looks
Or say that she has a good sense of humor
Say that you have a common interest
Nod when she was talking, show her that you pay attention to what she said
Smile over what she said
Do not cross your arms
Stay relaxed and at ease when she touches you
Covers her hands with yours when she touches you, do not move quickly. It will offend her
Excuse yourself for a moment, let her feel your absence and see if she misses you
Make her laugh
Tell her you are enjoying the time you spent together
Text her after she got home

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Do not respond too enthusiastically to her
Give a polite smile to her jokes
Keep a low and stable tone of voice, showing that you don't get affected by her
Keep a space between them and do not let her come closer
Answer to her by one word, so she will know that you are not interested
Or simply nod your head, if she notice she wouldn't carry the conversation further
Do not stick around her, this will give her impression that you are interested
Do not reciprocate her jokes
Use defensive body languages
Let her know that you are not interested

So those are the signs that a girl shows when she has interest in you. Whether you like her or not, now you know how to act. In case you ever heard, always spread love on every road.

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