How To Make A Guy Emotionally Addicted To You (21 Tricks)

by Michelle Devani

Are you hoping to make a stronger impact on a guy you’re seeing?

Do you struggle to keep guys around after you’ve initially attracted to them?

Are you wondering what the secrets to making a man want to commit to you? 

If the answer to any of these questions above is YES, then you’re in the right place, because this guide will explain how to make a man emotionally addicted to you.

These 21 tricks are mostly based on a psychological concept called the ‘Hero’s Instinct’.

This is the part of the brain, which is most responsible for men’s feelings of attraction towards women. 

So, if you have no idea what this is or how it works, I’d urge you to read my guide on the power of the ‘Hero’s Instinct’ first. 

But if you’re clued up on the basics of male psychology, feel free to read on and make the most of these powerful tips.

21 Smart Ways To Make A Guy Emotionally Addicted To You

Love is all about the emotional game, right? the emotional game exist when you are both in love , after the love and most importantly before the love starts to arise. In order to have that love we need to win the heart of the person we absolutely adore. The trick to instantly have them is to control their emotion which is a way to their heart. How do you make someone crave you so much that makes them always cling to you?

When a guy is emotionally addicted to you, it controls their whole life. They will show Signs A Cancer Man Likes You More Than A Friend. They will crave you more and more unlike the guy that is not emotionally addicted to you. The guy that is not clinging to you emotionally will be more prone to let you go and treating you badly. Now that you know that emotional addiction is the real deal, how do you really do it? Here are ways on how to make a guy emotionally addicted to you:

1. Listen to what he says to you in a conversation

Being understood is probably the most basic psychological human need. When you are not understood your whole mood will fall down and even your self esteem. To be understood you need to be heard. So to fulfill your man’s basic psychological need, you need to listen to what he have to say to you when you are conversing with each other.

Listen not to reply. Just listen to what he have to say even if it sounds absurd or boring. Make sure you do not zone out or look like you are bored because it will hurt their feelings. If you really listen to them they will realize that you are a trust worthy person and they will always come back to you for more.

2.Accept who he is

People will love you the most if you are the person that can accept who they are. Even in the worst part or the quirky side of themself, you need to accept who they are. Accepting them means that you will not put their flaws against them, will not be distant when they do something slightly bad and will not cringe when they show their true self. Validation creates trust and safety which in the end will grow to a strong based love. If you accept who he really is he will definitely cling to you even tighter.

3. Support him

Sometimes there are too much pressure that it makes us put down what we really need to do to grow as a person. But with the right support from the people we love, we will feel like we can do anything and it will push us even more. So what you need to do in how to make a guy emotionally addicted to you is by supporting him.

He will slowly see that you are the person that can lift him up when he is down, so he will come back to you in time of need and he will always cling to you because he is forever grateful for your kindness. But do not blindly support him. See if the action that you support will make him grow or not. He will appreciate it if you push them to be a better version of himself.

4. Keep the adventure going

In a relationship, you always need to spice things up in order to make the relationship more lively and go a long way. Spicing things up means doing some little things that will make your partner happy. So what you need to do is do fun and creative things to make him interested.

Therefore he will see that he is happy with you and you are the source of his joy. Joy is a really strong feeling so for sure, he will always come back to you for more adventure. These adventure does not necessarily need to be expensive. It just needs to break your routine, be creative and bring both of you happiness.

5. Become a woman of worth

become a woman of worth

Everyone values a great thing. In fact they will treasure it and make it stay forever. One of the most important ways on how to make a guy emotionally addicted to you is by becoming the great thing that he treasure. Becoming a great woman means that you have a lot of admirable things in you that will make him value you more.

If he look up to you and is constantly inspired by you, he will want to make that feeling stay forever by staying with you. So it is less likely for him to leave you in an instant. In order to do this you need to know Signs of A Wife Material.

6. Open up to him emotionally

People tend to feel more safe towards a person when they open up with each other. If he have opened up to you, great. But sometimes some men do not open up themselves to people easily so you need something to start the conversation about their emotion. What you need to do is to open up to him emotionally. You can tell your deepest fear, or your intimate thoughts or maybe just any honest feelings that pops up in your head.

He will feel  safer once you initiate the conversation. He will also be tied to you more because now that you have shared your honest emotion, you have reached a new kind of intimacy and he will feel happy and safe when he is with you.

7. Be mature in a fight

A lot of good relationship break over small fight that somehow grows bigger as the time goes. He will start showing you Signs a Guy is Breaking Up With You. Do not let this happen to your precious relationship. What you need to do to avoid this is to be mature in a fight. Sometimes, in a fight people are not mature by sulking, or attacking each other personally or by making huge decisions when they are in a state of a high emotion.

In order to have a mature fight, you need to calm yourself down and know if the mistake is done consciously or not. Either way, you need to tell them how it makes you feel instead of blatantly pointing out what they did wrong. Do not scream at them when you say it.

If you do this steps it will be more likely that you can get out of the fight as a stronger couple. Plus he will feel attached to you because you are the person that will not make them feel bad about their mistakes. Instead, you are the person that can help him grow from that mistake.

8. Respect his boundaries and values

Everyone have a set of boundaries and values that we carry through every part of our life. Men will respect and cling to you more if you are able to respect his boundaries and values. Give him space if he want to, do not tell his deepest secret to everyone, and many more.

There are a lot of boundaries and values which varies from person to person. Once you know theirs, do not try to use it against them or to test their limits. If you respect their boundaries and values he will admire you more and more.

9. Praise him

Having a fan is never a bad thing. A fan is someone that adores you and praise you. These praises goes a long way. Do not just praise him when he is in a good mod or in a good position in life. If he hits rock bottom, praise how resilient he is or how good he is as a person. When you praise him, you are actually highlighting the good qualities in him which he sometimes forgets.

More Ways On To Get Him Addicted To You

1. Share secrets 

Secrets are a great bond for an intimate relationship

2. Show your gratitude 

Show how happy you are by being with him. He will feel touched, happy and really appreciated as a person.

3. Understand their emotion and react properly 

Do not force them to be jolly when they are really sad or don’t tell them to be happy when they are mad. Acknowledge their feelings and do what you can to make them better.

4. Create trust 

Keep the promises you make them and it will make you his number one person.

5. Be yourself around them 

be yourself around them

He will not be attached to people who are fake because he will feel awkward and uncomfortable.

6. Give them space 

Giving them space is one of the way to make him miss you more.

7. Remember the details 

Details matter. It can be used to make them happy and knowing details proves to him that you care and you listens to him.

8. Do things that makes him happy 

Do selfless things with the purpose of making him happy. He will forever be grateful.

Signs That He is Emotionally Attached to You

1. He is himself around you 

No holding back, he is completely himself around you. He shows his true self without being worried or tense.

2. He tells you everything 

Secrets, thoughts or just how the day went. He will tell you everything because he is comfortable with you.

3. He misses you when you are not around 

There are a lot of Ways to Get Him to Miss You Like Crazy. Even if you are not around for just a short time, he will go out of his way to show you that he really miss you.

4. Your happiness is his main priority 

If he is attached to you, you become his number one person and he will do anything to make you happy. This is because if you are happy, you will not leave him. This is a  Signs That Your Boyfriend Loves You.

Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.