Having a man is an idea that everyone love. The thing is, it have always been advertised in romantic movies and in every aspect of our life, it starts to get suffocating. Maybe you don’t need all that.
Dependency is a killer and that means having a man might not be a good idea for you. It might be hard to fathom right now, but you need to start learning to be independent. If you are still not convinced, here are the valid reasons why you don’t need a man;
Being in love with a man means you are letting yourself be hurt by him in so many ways that you couldn’t even imagine.
A strong desire like this usually comes from a place in your mind where you don’t feel like you are already enough You should fix that mindset first.
Knowing yourself is more crucial than anything according to Reasons You Should Know and Love Yourself Before You Love Someone Else If you rush to get a man, it will be hard to know yourself.
You don’t need love from the outside. Throughout your life, self love should always comes first.
Having a man will take a lot of your time, energy, and focus. Having no man means that you can improve your life first.
That sweet, complimenting, encouraging talk might be the one you crave from him. But actually you can say that to yourself.
It’s not as smooth as it is in the romantic movie. The awkwardness will be surreal and mistakes that you regret will come because you are so blinded by your emotion.
A guy will expect so much so when you are with them, you will be prone to being more insecure about who you are and your worth.
When you are trying to please a man, you will start to doubt your self worth which would never happen if you are happy being single. This is the best reasons why you don't need a man.
Depending your happiness to someone is never okay. This will definitely happen when you are with him.
You start to lose yourself into the image of the girl that he wants. In the long run, you will start to feel lost and directionless.
Competing with other girls will not feel good and you will be left feeling tired.
Because you are competing with many people you start being badly judgemental.
Making him show the Signs That Someone is In Love With You will make you glued to your phone.
You start forgetting the important people in your life.
Not being understood will leave a deep cut in yourself.
The Signs a Guy is Breaking Up With You and the actual break up will break you to bits.
You will start to do unimaginable things for him which will not always be good.
Tied by your love, being played will be too easy.
Anxious about what he thiks about you and the overall relationship will happen
Having a man means doing a lot of activities that cost money.
You start to enjoy little things more rather than the big prospect of love.
It’s not as beautiful as the romantic movie, in fact, the love will be messier. It’s really not worth it. Nevertheless, here are more ways to know why a man really isn’t worth your time;
He will limit your freedom as a woman.
Do you feel like he kind of takes you for granted?
Unfortunately this is one of the most frequent complaints we get from our readers, where they feel they aren't a priority for their boyfriend or husband. They always seem to have some excuse as to why they can't spend some quality time with you like they used to.
Due to popular demand, our friend prepared a quick video (click to watch) that'll show you to one easy but often overlooked thing that you can say to him today that'll help him realize how lucky he is to have you (hint: it's something that taps into how men are wired).
He will start to show the Signs of A Possessive Male Friend.
If you don’t have a man, you start being comfortable with being by yourself.
If they leave, you will forget your worth altogether.
It’s never okay to hurt other people but you will do it.
All the experiences will come back to you to hurt you.
Inevitably, you will lose a part of yourself.
Being single might not be the life that everyone wants but it is a life that is absolutely beautiful. Here are the signs that you are okay with being single;
You are content with yourself and the love you give yourself is authentic.
Growing into a better person is always done by you.
Meaningful relationships will start to come when you already love yourself.
Gratitude will come from the self acceptance.
Being in a relationship is all the rage right now. Many people are too much in a rush to get into one that it starts to get messy. That is why you need to know the reasons why you don't need a man. Only then will you leave a meaningful, peaceful life that is full of self worth and self love.
Does it feel like pulling teeth getting him to say how he feels about you?
Some men can be very gaurded and closed when it comes to expressing how they feel - it can almost feel like they are pulling away from you. Many women make the mistake of pushing their man to say how they feel, but this is actually one of the worst things you can do as it can push him away further.
To get him to really show you how he feels and communicate how much he appreciates you, there's one simple thing, although often overlooked, thing you can say to him today that taps into how men are wired and can often lead to them suddenly pouring their heart out. My friend recorded a quick free video (click to watch) that shows exactly how to do that.