Should You Tell Your Ex That You Are Pregnant His Baby or Not?

by Michelle Devani

There are some condition in life that makes us confused and not knowing what to do. And one of the problems that we might face is the question whether, should you tell your ex that you are pregnant his baby or not? Before you make the decision of telling him or not, I have some consideration that you might want to think of. So, make sure you read the article until the end.

Reason to tell him that you are pregnant

Maybe you are in doubt or confuse whether you need to tell him or not. Do not let your negative thought take over your logical thinking. There are some reasons on why you should you tell your ex that you are pregnant his baby. Here are some.

1. He has the right to know

First thing first, whether in the end your ex boyfriend is going to accept or reject the baby, he still has the right to know. He has the right to know that you are pregnant with his baby. You will never know his response to you until you try to talk to him about your pregnancy. And this can be a way on  how do you know if your ex boyfriend still cares about you.

2. Your baby needs to know his father

You are choosing to keep your baby since you still reading this article. During the time when you raise your kid later, he will keep asking about his father. And he also has the right to know about his father, he did not choose to come to the world, but you guys made him come to this world, so he has the right to know about his parents.

3. The baby is your and his responsibility

Knowing the fact that you are pregnant with your ex has been your and your ex boyfriend responsibility to keep the baby. Because you guys chose to do an unprotected sex and the baby is there right now. It was not an accident, it was already a choice between you and him since the very first place. To take a good care of the baby is you guys' responsibility.

Ways to tell him about your pregnancy

Maybe you will find it hard to tell your ex boyfriend about your pregnancy. And confusing about the ways on how to tell your ex boyfriend that you are pregnant with his baby. So, I have some ways that you can try in order to tell your ex boyfriend about your pregnancy.

1. Be in control of your emotion

Be in control of your emotion in every condition of your life is important. Before you decide to meet and tell your ex boyfriend that you are pregnant, make sure you are in control of your emotion.

Saying something in a high tone or anger will not solve the problem, yet it can make the problem become worse. Also know the signs a man is emotionally connected to you so you know that he is there when you are talking to him.

2. Make sure you are in touch with him

Usually after a break up people will directly lose a contact with their ex. In order to let him know about your condition, try to make that contact again. Slow but sure approach and contacting him once in a while routinely. Get in touch with him routinely will make you and him closer.

Your ex may also know what to do when your ex calls you after no contact, so make sure you know how to drive the situation so you are able to keep in touch with him. Because he surely gets obvious if you contact him all of sudden.

3. Set a meeting

After a period of time where you are contacting him, try to set a meeting. The best way to tell him your condition is by seeing him in person. Make sure that he is approachable and set a meeting where he definitely able to come and see you. And when you finally able to talk to him, remember to be in control of your emotion.

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Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.