How To Tell Your Ex Boyfriend That You Are Pregnant With His Baby

Last updated on June 2, 2024 by Michelle Devani

Break up is a hurtful process that nobody who wants to have a happy and everlasting relationship wants to experience. You will feel empty, sad and depressed all the time when you finally realized that the person that you love so much is not there beside you anymore.


How To Tell Your Ex Boyfriend That You Are Pregnant With His Baby

While being able to withstand that alone itself is already a hard task to do but to realize that you are pregnant with it's child? whoa boy, you will have an absolute mix feelings with this one.

The first you do: keep calm, you do want to panic and finally do things that you will regret later on. Try to tell your closest friend first about this news while looking cool doing it, look for Cool Ways to Tell Your Best Friend You’re Pregnant.

Before you rushing through and blasting through your boyfriend's phone you might want to read this article to find a glimpse of the solution that you have been seeking and if you decided to raise it together you need to find a way on How to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back When He Broke Up with You.

1. Make Sure You Have A Positive Result First

This is important because you don't want to go false accusation on someone when you don't have enough valid data or evidence. Before you talk to your boyfriend about this situation you gotta do some pregnancy and DNA test first before you talk to him. If the DNA says that it is not his baby you could think of another solution on who is the real father is and if the DNA result is positive then you can move into step 2 in this article.

2. Get Control Of Your Feelings

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How to tell your ex boyfriend that you are pregnant with his baby? To know that your are pregnant is a life changing experience but from someone that is not your couple anymore? Whoa, that is gonna take lots to take it. Don’t get overflowed by your feelings because it is not an advisable thing to do, you might feel excited, scared, surprised, anxious or maybe even angry.

If you both are breaking up with him he is definitely not in love with you anymore and you need to stop loving someone who is no longer in love with you. If you are able to control on what you are feeling right now you might want to plan what to say to your ex boyfriend, which is going to be explained in the next step.

3. Don’t Tell Him Straight Away

The most common mistake that a girl do when she found out that she is pregnant with her ex boyfriend’s child is panicking when she find out that she is pregnant and screaming out at her ex asking for him to take responsibility.

You need to remain calm and asses the situation, get any updates about him because every latest update is crucial, you don’t want to ask for his responsibility when he is currently on a business trip because you will only showed up to him as an annoyance to his future, don’t ask his responsibility when he is currently on a family dinner because it will only ruin the mood not only for him but for all of his family if they know about this news, the key to tell your ex boyfriend is to find the right time to tell him at right time as fast possible. 

4. Get In Touch With Him

Most couple after a break up usually trying to cut off connections with each other, it can be real life connection even social media such as unfriending you on facebook. If you are involved in a relationship which does this when the relationship ends then you will find a hard time to interact with him.

It can be caused by the avoidance of bad memories that has happened between the both of you, it can be caused by that you both already moved on and don’t want to interact with each other ever again, and the list goes on and on.

You must find a way how you can get in his phone because it seems like all of your contact is already blocked by him, you can either find a contact that has not been blocked by him such as his email address or maybe you can reconnect with him via the mutual friends that you both have, whatever it is you need to find a way to contact him.

5. Acknowledge Him Via Text Message

Okay, this is the big moment, you need to tell him that you are pregnant without all the rushing and screaming around, start it off with something simple like how he is now, how’s work, all of those cliché stuff. Once you are able to get his attention then you can start to get into the main point, try to find a cute way of telling him that you are currently pregnant with his child because there are chances that he will be flattered by it. 

6. Ask Him For A Meeting

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Telling him via text will have you risking to be ghosted on, which means that when he heard about the news he will suddenly ignore all of you text and calls. Which is not the reaction that you are hoping for. Instead of telling him the news via text message, why don’t you ask him to meet you, some ex boyfriend are easy to meet with but that are those who are hard to meet.

When your boyfriend are the hard type then you need to find a mutual reason that can also benefit him so he is interested to meet you but if you are the impatient and straightforward type then you can just find the will and courage to ask him to have a meeting with you to talk about the future of the baby that you are pregnant with. And if he agrees then congratulation, now you only have to prepare what to say when the meeting time comes.

7. Have A Cool And Matured Conversation

When the day of meeting him to talk about your pregnancy comes make sure you've got what all you are going to say prepared because you don't want to look fragile and hopeless.

The point of you reading this article is to find out the solution together with your ex right? not just crying all over his face and hoping that he will be crawling back to you. If you are able to talk like a matured woman by being very prepared for the meeting then you can easily negotiate with him for the solution that you are hoping for.

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Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.
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