Clear Signs Your Boyfriend Still Thinks About Me

Last updated on June 14, 2022 by Michelle Devani

So you think your boyfriend loves you so much. Now that you are dating him, there is no guarantee that no other girl is occupying his mind. Don't believe it? You may want to check out all the signs your boyfriend still thinks about me. It's not me who wants to snatch your boyfriend, but it's him who hasn't get over me.

Just so you know, I am not interested in your boyfriend but you have to be aware of the signs that you are not the only one in his heart. It means you have to work harder to for him to love you even more.

Check out all the signs your boyfriend still thinks about me.

1. He Makes Excuses to Contact Me

The first sign to watch out that your boyfriend is clearly have me in his thought: he makes all excuses to contact me. There's always something to talk about and he never runs out of question to me. He reach out to me without no reason. He is testing the water on me. Also read How to Move On from a Relationship when You are Still in Love

2. He Said He Misses Me

He often say is as a joke that he misses me. This joke is not funny but I think he's only want to say that he really misses me. Then again, this kind of thing is not joke-worthy. You know that he shouldn't be joking about it too, but the fact that he mention it to me many times is enough.

3. He Show Up Everywhere I am

If you are out for dinner with your boyfriend and you "accidentally" see me there, trust me that it's not an accident. He brought you there on purpose since he knows that I will be there too. He keeps showing up wherever I am. It's enough as signs your boyfriend still thinks about me. Also read How to Know Your Ex Girlfriend Has Moved on Someone Else

4. He Stills Curious About My Love Life

My relationship with him has ended long ago and I suppose he has moved on judging from the fact that now he is seeing you. But I keep wondering why does he always curious about my love life? He ask my friends around about my current relationship status. Sorry to say but seems like your boyfriend hasn't get over me.

5. He Keeps Reminding Me About Our Memories

What's in the past stay in the past, we live in the future. But every time we meet, he gets nostalgic. More than that, he even texted me the other day saying that he was having lunch at my favorite restaurant. He keeps remind me of the past and as someone who has moved on from him, it's bothering me so much. Also read How to Tell Your Ex to Stop Contacting You Again After Bad Break Up

6. He Calls Me When He's Drunk

Let me ask you, what does it mean when your ex calls you when he's drunk? When he's at his highest emotional states, he calls me and starts mumbling about unreasonable things. He's not showing his usual self and I'm pretty sure that you never see that side of him as well.

7. He Uses You to Make Me Jealous

At first I think he's moved on from me. But the more I see it, the more I assume that your boyfriend dated you to make me jealous. He talks about you so much in front me, wishing I'll give him a "jealous" response about it. But for me, it proves that he's not over me. I think it's time for you to open your eyes. Also read Signs You are Ready for a New Relationship

8. He Wants to Meet Me

He did all sort of things to see whether I'm still positively responding to him or not. As if calling and texting me a lot is not enough, he said he wants to meet me. He is curious to know how I'm doing and trying to catch up with me. Surely it's not something you should do when you try to move on from a person.

9. He Stalks My Social Media

The reason why I didn't cut him off of my social media is because I don't want to look childish and that I have gotten over him after all. But he sees it as an open door that I might still welcoming him to my life. He always up to date with my social media. He's the first person to like my newest post and he never miss the chance to leave a comment. Seems like he doesn't want me to quickly move on from him. Also read Signs You Have A Stalker

10. He is Always Happy to See Me

Have you even seen your boyfriend feeling down and suddenly his mood lift up after lunchtime? Well, because he spent the lunch with me and it happen several times. He always happy to see me that he said it made his day. He's enjoying my company, and that's the reason he always make excuse to contact me.

11. He Keeps Sending Signs He Misses Me

There are too many signs that he misses me. He never try to hide it from me. First, he makes jokes about how he misses me too often. Then he keeps reminding me of the old times, telling me that he hasn't forget about it. He always curious about how will I respond to him.

Do you feel like he kind of takes you for granted?
Unfortunately this is one of the most frequent complaints we get from our readers, where they feel they aren't a priority for their boyfriend or husband. They always seem to have some excuse as to why they can't spend some quality time with you like they used to.

To see if he actually likes you take this quick free quiz and we'll let you know if it's worth putting any more time into this guy.

12. He Talks About Me Every Now and Then

I'm sure I annoyed you most of the time because your boyfriend keeps talking about me. You know perfectly well that it's the strongest signs he still think about me. At this point, you will start questioned his feeling for you.

Now that you see all the signs your boyfriend still thinks about me, maybe you want to rethink about your relationship with him. He's not over me yet and I'm still all around his mind. It's not that he's not loyal or trying to cheat on you. He's just not ready for a new relationship yet. You may want to give him chance to sort his feeling first.

Does it feel like pulling teeth getting him to say how he feels about you?
Some men can be very guarded and closed when it comes to expressing how they feel - it can almost feel like they are pulling away from you and leaves you wondering whether he's actually into you.

Find out to see whether he actually likes you by taking this quick free quiz

Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.
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