Easy Ways To Get Closer To Your Crush - They Will Notice You

by Michelle Devani

So it's all started by having a crush. Before you falling in love with someone, you developed a crush on them. Having a crush with someone is probably the most uncomfortable phase ever, especially when you are not close to them at all. To do the Cute Ways to Let Your Crush Know You Like Him is still far away. But you must not stay still and not doing anything. You have to move fast before someone else snatch away your crush! So how are the ways to get closer to your crush and make them falling in love with you? Here are some useful tips that you can do.

1. Get Them To Notice You

This is why doing the Ways to Make a Guy Notice You in School is important. Your chance is very small if they don't know a thing about your existence. Be someone noticeable by busy living your life. Make an achievement so that you have something to be bragged about.

2. Make A Lot Of Friends

To get yourself closer to your crush, find as many friends as possible. One of them could connect you to your crush, and your way to get close to them become easier.

3. Be Friend With Their Friends

After making a large connection with lots of people, now it's time to get into their inner circle. Find out who their friends are, and make yourself close to them. This way they will notice you.

4. Be A Nice Person

People fall in love easily to a positive person. Treat everyone the same and be polite to everyone. Always say nice things and stay away from the negative vibes. Don't quickly judge a person by their outer appearance.

5. Find A Common Interest

Find an activity that both of you interested in, and talk about it. For example if they like to draw, say things like, "What kind of drawing that you like? I prefer the contemporary ones." And many other Things to Say to Flirt with Your Crush.

6. Be Friend With Them

Everything started off as friends. It's important to know him better as a person. Never let love blinding your eyes and make you think that they are perfect person.

7. Listen To Them

Be a friend they can trust so that they feel comfortable to share things with you. All you need to do is to listen to them well. Don't forget to give a proper responds like, "It's so interesting," for good news and, "It must have been hard for you," for the bad ones.

8. Just Be Yourself

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You have to be yourself if you want to get close to them. Don't fake anything in front of your crush and let them fall in love with you because of who you really are.

9. Join In Their Community

You can get close to your crush by joining the club they're in. If you are still a student, join a club that he is in. Things would be better if you are also interested in it. Such as a basketball club or the study club.

10. Give Them Your Hand

Be ready to help them whenever they need it. It will leave a very good impression in them. They will never forget how you help them, but remember not to help them all the time because they will take you as an easy person.

11. Show Them You Like Them

It's okay to test the water. Send a little signal that you like them, and see how they react. Give them more attention than other person or make an intense eye contacts.

12. Flirt With Them

If they seem to reciprocate your feeling, you can start flirting with them. Try Different Ways to Tell Your Crush You Like Him by saying, "The smell of you perfume remains even when you're not around."

13. Stay Cool

This is what you should do if they haven't develop a feeling for you. Keep it slow and stay cool. Stay close to them by being their friend and let everything goes slowly.

14. Don't Stick To Them

It's annoying to have someone following you around all the time. They are not the center of your universe. Give them space and let them spend time with their friends and hobby. Hold everything back even if you have the Signs You Miss Your Crush. That's it. Follow those ways to get closer to your crush!

What To Do If You Are Shy

One thing you have to get rid if you want to get close to your crush is your shyness. As you like them much, you become loss of words in front of them. Gain your courage easily by doing all of these things:

  1. Learn to say hello to other people until it becomes a habit.
  2. Smile. Smile. Smile.
  3. Be friendly. Be good. Be bold.
  4. Find a topic that you can connect to them, such as their hobbies or their interest.
  5. Loosen up your tensions by taking a deep breath. Do this every time you feel nervous around them.
  6. Just smile. It helps your muscles to relax and boost up your confidence in front of them.
  7. Start by texting them first if you are too shy to meet them in person. On their birthday, do the Ways to Wish Your Crush Happy Birthday to get close to them.
  8. Dress yourself nicely. You have to look best and it helps you to be more confidence around them.
  9. Find your talents and brag about it.
  10. Don't be in a rush, take your time as long as you need it.
  11. Don't let your nervousness takes away all your courage.
  12. Ask help and some motivations from your friends.

So those are the easy ways to get close to your crush, even when you are too shy to do it. All you need is to take the first step. First step is always the hardest, but once you step in, everything will be easier. So let's gather up all the courage and start to make a move to get closer to your crush.

Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.