What Does It Mean When Your Boyfriend Breaks Up With You In A Dream

by Michelle Devani

Dreams are sometimes considered as the garnish in the cake of sleep, but it becomes a nightmare once you have a bad one. Who wants to wake up from a bad dream where your boyfriend breaks up with you. It must leave you wondering about what does it mean. Will something bad happen in your relationship or dream was just a dream? Searching the meaning behind your dreams is indeed a little bit complicated.

What Does It Mean When Your Boyfriend Breaks Up With You In A Dream?

In a psychological science, the dream you had when you were asleep deeply affected by your inner mind. That is why you have such a scary dreams. It's not wrong to wonder what does it mean when your boyfriend breaks up with you in a dream. You may take it as a warning.

1. You Are Afraid Of Break Up

Is your relationship not going well recently that you are afraid you might break up? As much as you're afraid, it pierce through your dreams. It can be happen when you feel like there are many Reasons for Your Boyfriend to Break Up with You and it makes you worry.

2. You Have An Unsolved Problem

Relationship won't always going smooth and problem-free. There are times when you have some serious problem that it is unsolved for quite a long time. It occupied your mind a lot that it follows you to your sleep. You can't deny the uneasiness it brings. If you did have an unsolved problem, go fix it up immediately.

3. You Suspect Him To Cheat

Every girl has this instinct that told them their lover cheats. You become suspicious of the recent changes in his behavior, how it becomes hard to reach him, and that he has become cold in front of you. You are afraid that he might cheat and lead to the break up with you. Since you are not telling him yet, you dreamed of breaking up with him.

4. Or He Did Cheat On You

Or the dream could be the sign that he did cheat on you. Of course when he also show many of the Signs Your Boyfriend is Cheating on You in Relationship. Confirm about this first and make sure you have enough proof. So that you won't make a wrong decision solely based on your dream.

5. You're Not Sure About The Future Of Your Relationship

you're not sure about the future of your relationship

When your relationship in on the edge and you're not sure whether you should keep going with him or not, the dream about breaking up may popped up. It could means that the right thing you should do is break up since you're hesitating either.

6. Your Relationship Will Advance To The Next Level

When you're going to advance to the next level, any kind of test would coming in. One of them is that you have a dream of breaking up with him. Instead of a bad thing, the dream could be the Signs That Your Boyfriend is Going to Propose Soon. Not all bad dreams are literally bad.

7. You Haven't Get A Grasp Of Recent Break Up

Well, you've just had a break up several days a go and you seemed like you have get a grasp of it. It could happen when you're in a long term relationship with him, so that the break up seems unreal. You think you're dreaming, but it actually the reality from days ago that going into your dream.

8. You Feel Insecure In The Relationship

It's one of the bad Signs of an Unhealthy Relationship with Boyfriend you must avoid. What caused the insecurity? Him might cheat up? You're not equal to him? He could leave you anytime? You feel like you can break up with him every second and it caused you worry.

9. You're Afraid He Might Abandon You

For some reasons, you are afraid that someday he will abandon you. You never know how afraid you actually are until you had those dreams. If it due to a problem with him, go resolve it. Don't let the insecurity going for a long time.

How To Deal With The Situation

If the dream you've had bother you so much, don't just stay still and go find the a way to stop it. Here are what you can do to deal with the situation:

1. Share The Concern With Your Boyfriend

share the concern with your boyfriend

If the dreams coming often and you get worry, share the concern with your boyfriend. He will calm you down and assure you that it won't happen. Once you told your boyfriend about it, you will no longer have the anxiety and the dream may stops as well.

2. Take A Deep Breath And Move On

So you have broken up recently but seemed to haven't accept the fact yet. Now it's time to really move on since mourning over a break up did you no good. Let bygone be bygone and prepare yourself for many good things that would come instead. There are many, many Tips to Move On you can do.

3. Do Everything That Makes You Happy

How could you get over the anxiety you have from the dreams of accepting the fact that you have broken up with your boyfriend? It's by doing the things that makes you happy. Do your hobby, go travel somewhere, spend time with your friends, and many other things so that you have no time to be sad.

4. Go See A Psychologist

If none of the things above seemed to work, it's time to seek the help from an expert. Go see a psychologist to consult about your mental state. Why did you have to worry that much and having the dreams endlessly.

Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.