What To Do When Your Boyfriend Keeps Asking You for Money

Last updated on June 11, 2022 by Michelle Devani

It seems hard to realize someone is just using you when you fall so hard with them. Not every relationship is healthy which means it made from a solid love. There is a time they want something for you so they pretend to be a loving and caring person.

We can see Signs of a Materialistic Woman You Need to Know and it doesn't rule out the possibility of a man doing it too. They might seem to treat you so well until you would know they actually want to earn something from you which is your pocket. It sucks, don't you think?

Here are what to do when your boyfriend keeps asking you for money

Even though you don't mind and never think it's a big deal, you'll eventually realize that it's a bit annoying. Moreover, your saving would run out if you keep give what he wants.

This is what to do when your boyfriend keeps asking you for money to help you out from this situation. You should also learn about What to Do When Your Boyfriend Breaks Up with You for No Reason.

1. Ask For Reasons

Before you give him some money, you should first your boyfriend what's this all about. If he gives some kind of stupid reason or doesn't even have a reason at all then you better not give him a penny.

2. If He Really Needs It, Then Help Him

Here is what to do when your boyfriend keeps asking you for money. On the other hand, if you've found out that he is in pinch therefore maybe give him the money is a better choice.

But if he shows Signs He is Player, you should really stop to help him.

3. Never Give Him The Money Easily

never give him the money easily

Probably why your boyfriend keeps asking you for money is because you simply give it to him when he asked. Don't do it anymore, you're not his walking pocket.

4. Ask Him To Return The Money First

This is what to do when your boyfriend keeps asking you for money. When you give him the money, make sure you tell him that you want the money back after whatever he uses it for.

5. Stop Giving What He Wants

All you need to do is actually tell him to stop. However, we know it's never easy since he always has a way to make you give him what he wants. But still, you can start by stop giving it slowly.

6. Tell Him It Annoys You

You may want to know what to do when your boyfriend keeps asking you for money. It is getting annoying when he asks for money every day. You must tell him immediately!

7. Make Him Realize It's Wrong

It isn't about a nice thing to do or not. When he keeps asking for money, as his girlfriend, you should make him realize that it's wrong.

You should explain to him that you don't him to do that because it feels like he is only using you.

8. Change The Topic

You can do this on what to do when your boyfriend keeps asking you for money. When he starts babbling about how much he needs the money, you can change the topic.

It would definitely make him mad on the inside and you can expect he won't ask anymore. Also read about this Things to Say to Your Boyfriend to Make Him Realize You Love Him.

9. You Also Need The Money

Even though you really want to help when he's really in the need of help for money, you should consider about your situation too. You don't have that much money and you also need it. So, you better not give him.

10. Just Leave Him

What to do when your boyfriend keeps asking you for money? Just leave him already because he's clearly using you. Therefore you should learn these things to Say to Your Boyfriend When He’s Being A Jerk.

Signs Your Boyfriend Is Using You

Here are signs your boyfriend is using you that you should know. You may want to learn about this too How to Tell Someone You Don’t Want to Be Friends Anymore.

1. Selfish

You can see he's clearly using you when all he thinks about is himself. The more reason you should leave him!

2. Relies On Your Finance

Once he knows that you'll provide all he needs, he would start to rely on your finance. It is a clear sign he's using you.

3. He Doesn't Show Affection

It is because he is selfish that's why he doesn't show some affection. You should tell him this How to Let Your Boyfriend Know You Need More Attention.

4. Talk To You Only When He Needs

Moreover, he only talks to you when he needs. This time, he'll probably act as he loves you so much and you are the only one he has.

5. He Has A Bad Reputation

he has a bad reputation

You should listen when people around warn you about him. You have your own proof now.

Why You Should Leave Your Boyfriend That Keep Asking You For Money

Here is the more reason why you should leave your boyfriend if he keeps asking you for money. Or maybe you want to read this What to Say to Boyfriend Who Is Depressed to Feel Okay Again.

1. It Is Going To Be A Bad Habit

Once you provide the money he wants, he would ask more for it. That's why you should stop.

2. Use Deception

When he can't find a reason, he would do any use to make you give the money for example by lying to you. You'll find every time he asks you for money he would lie to you about the reason.

3. Disrespect

He'll eventually won't have any respect for you if you keep give him the money.

4. It's Unbalanced

You aren't the one that needs to give him the money. The relationship isn't healthy anymore to keep.

5. You Deserve Better

Why would you stay with boys that didn't appreciate you that much? You should leave because you deserve better than this!

Do you feel like he kind of takes you for granted?
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Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.
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