This Is What to Say to Your Crush Who Has A Girlfriend

by Michelle Devani

You know you can't choose whom you fall in love with. In one of the tragic cases, it turns out your crush is in a relationship. He has a girlfriend. However, you certainly can't just ignore your feeling. It was there, and it wants to be let out.

You know you ought not to pursue someone who is in a relationship. You know being a relationship wrecker has its own karma. You would not like it if you're in your crush's girlfriend position.

But one of the way to move on and forget him is to just confess. It's something what to do when your crush has a girlfriend. He would likely reject you if he is a good guy and faithful to his girlfriend. You know it, but the most important thing is you are able to express your feeling. You need closure to move on. And you want to feel relieved.

Here's what you can say to him:

  1. I know I should have said this, but I want to let you know that I like you.
  2. I like you, I have a crush on you. I know I shouldn't have to because you have a girlfriend. But I need to let you know.
  3. I know you have a girlfriend, but I've been crushing on you since forever. I want you to know that.
  4. I want you to know that I like you more than friends. It's okay you don't need to say anything back.
  5. For some times, I've been liking you. You have a girlfriend already, so it doesn't matter what your response would be. I just want to say it.
  6. I know you're a good guy and I know you won't cheat. I just want you to listen while I confess that I like you.
  7. I'm not supposed to tell you this, but I like you.
  8. I know I don't have a chance, but I want to let you know that I'm thinking about you a lot.
  9. I know you won't cheat so just listen to me, I like you.
  10. There's something I've been wanting to tell you. I've been asking myself should I do this or not. It's that I like you, even though you have a girlfriend already.
  11. I like you. Because you have a girlfriend, I have no chance. But I need to tell you that for me to move on.
  12. I like you, I wish the situation is different. It's unfortunate that we can't be together right now.
  13. I like you. I hope someday, the future will be in our favor.
  14. I'm interested in you more than just friends. I feel so wrong because you have a girlfriend already.
  15. Lately, I've been thinking a lot about you, even if you have a girlfriend.
  16. I like you, although you have a girlfriend already. But I'm happy knowing the guy I like is in a happy relationship. That's enough for me.
  17. I'm in love you. It's sad because you will never be with me.
  18. I think I'm in love with you. I don't know why! You're unavailable currently. But I can't help it!
  19. I know we wouldn't be together, but I like you.
  20. I've fallen in love with you. And it's bad because I don't want to ruin your relationship.
  21. I like you a lot. But I'm trying to just like you as a friend since you're in a relationship already.
  22. You will probably avoid me after this. But I just need to get something out of my mind. I want to confess that I like you.
  23. I just want to get something off my chest. I like it. Yes, I know you have a girlfriend.
  24. There's something I want to tell you. I like you. I have a crush on you. Although you have a girlfriend.
  25. It's embarrassing to say this, but I like you. There, I said it. I know you won't like me back. You're a good guy. I know you won't cheat. I just wanted to confess.
  26. I like you. But you have a girlfriend. Maybe we can just be friends.
  27. I like you. Whether you like me or not, it doesn't matter. You have a girlfriend so I don't need an answer from you.
  28. You'd probably think I'm crazy. But I like you.
  29. I want to tell you something. If I don't, I would go crazy. I want to tell you that I like you.
  30. I'm happy that you're in a great relationship. I like you but I won't do anything to break you two.
  31. I really can't help it that I'm falling in love with you.
  32. I know it sounds inappropriate, I like a guy who has a girlfriend and that guy is you.
  33. My crush has a girlfriend already. Yes, that crush is you.
  34. I admit that I've been thinking about you a lot. I like you, it's obvious. But I won't do anything about it because I respect your relationship.
  35. I would never ruin anyone relationship, especially yours, the guy I'm in love so much.

If he doesn't have a girlfriend, that's good news. Instead, you can tell him you want to be more than friends. Also, learn how to ask your crush out without embarrassing yourself. You can also slowly make your crush fall in love with you over text. If he's single, anything is possible.

Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.