Clear Reasons Why Your Boyfriend Pushes You Away All Sudden

Last updated on June 2, 2024 by Michelle Devani

He pushes you away, why he does this to you? It might many reasons behind it. However, recognize your boyfriend’s act. Is he always do this to you or he does this just in a difficult time? Below these are many reasons why he pushes you away. Let’s check it out.


1. He Deserves To Do This

he deserves to do this

As a man, he believes that he has the power to do this. Yes, he thinks he is your boyfriend, in this case, he can do anything. This is the first of the reasons why he pushes you away. In this time just tell your boyfriend that he is actually not treating you right.

2. He Controls You

Does he like to organize you? Some men are dominant in regulating women, which is why he can push you away at will. He did this to make you obey him.

3. Another Way To Express How He Loves You

However, some men carried out this act as a love statement against you. Maybe he is afraid of something that is why he did this to you to make you comfortable, even though this is a bad way.

4. He Is In An Uncomfortable Feeling

When a man feels uncomfortable, his mind and heart it feels shaken. He seemed unable to manage his emotions. That's why he did this.

5. It Is Very Difficult To Express How It Feels

Maybe he is depressed, and indirectly you make him feel cornered. This also made him pushes away to you. He does not know how to express this feeling. He does not know how to tell it to you, he is so confused.

6. Stressed Out

stressed out

He got a family problem that makes him fully stressed. Do not judge or force him. If you do this, he pushes you away. If your boyfriend stressed, you might help him with these ways, there are several things to say to help him who is stressed out.

7. He's Not Interested In You At All

Besides, if there is no reason and he pushes you away every time. It might be he's not interested anymore in you at all. Check about him, is he hide something from you?

8. You Are Too Dominant

Leo woman, if she is in a relationship with someone, she will be more dominant than her boyfriend. So, in here you need to learn to reduce it a little because actually, men are the leaders. Your act makes your boyfriend lose confidence, that's why he pushes you away.

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Do you want to check some signs that he has someone new? Are you sure about these? Below the following are some signs that your boyfriend has someone new. So, let’s check it out.

1. There Is A Distance Between Both Of You

The distance is so far between both you two. Both of you really busy at the same time, and in here there is rare to make quality time together.

2. He Hides Something From You

he hides something from you

He looks kinda awkward these days, you feel that your boyfriend is not acting like as usual. Is he hide something from you? Just asks him, what is going on? Make an honest discussion about this.

3. It Takes More Time To Respond To Your Text 

So, if your boyfriend takes more time to respond to your text on Whatsapp. It might he ignores you on Whatsapp, so what to do if he ignores you on Whatsapp? Notice, his signs. It probably, you are not his priority.

4. Lost Your Quality Time

All day is busy day, you just request one day to make a quality time. But he rejects it. Why? Is this a sign that he wants to break up with you? You can try these tips on how to break Up with him without him, it will very useful for you.

5. He Asked For A Break

After he pushes you, he asks you for a break. He needs more time to be alone. So, would you accept it? What to do now?

6. He Becomes Sneaky Lately

You made a surprise. You are in his apartment, prepare the candlelight dinner that in his apartment. In here, you wait for him for a long time, he comes too late. In here, you always wondered, why he becomes sneaky lately? Is it true he is busy or he has a date with someone? It is very curious.

7. He's Been Caught By You

So, you test of him. You are in his room and you wait for him. It doesn't takes much time, he comes in and brings a woman here. You surprised and you caught him, your boyfriend is hugging that woman. 

What To Do If Your Boyfriend Pushes You Away

There are many reasons why your boyfriend pushes you away. So, what to do if your boyfriend pushes you away? Is it correct to push away your boyfriend back? No, it is not right. As a woman you should do these following require steps.

1. Ask Your Boyfriend

ask your boyfriend

Ask your boyfriend nicely, what is going on or what happened? Let your boyfriend answer it. Do not force him, just wait for it until he tells you truth.

2. Give Him A Space

If he doesn't answer your question, just give him space. It might be that he needs more time to express his feeling on you.

3. Just Accept It

Okay, if he pushes you, just accept it. Go away and do not turn back again. He will feel what are you feeling. He will feel disappointed because he has pushed you away.

4. Listen 

Try to be a good listener to him. If he cries, let your boyfriend cry. Do calm his heart as much as you can. In this time, he needs someone who knows his feeling.

5. Try To Be Good In Front Of Him

If you are a bad girl, try to be a good one in front of him. Make him sure that you are a good girl that knows how does he fell.

6. Make An Honest Discussion

A discussion is a right solution to know what is going on upon him. Make an honest discussion and do make eye contact with him. You will see the truth when you see his eyes.

7. The Right Time To Talk

The right time to talk with him is when your boyfriend is calming himself. When he is in normal, you can talk to him carefully.

8. Show Your Feelings

You can show your feeling after he pushes you away. Just tell him that is so hurt. Let your boyfriend know what it feels like.

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9. Ask Him Again 

Ask him again for the last time, make sure if he wants to come together again or he wants to end this relationship. you know what, when he has dumped you. There is a time that he will contact you again.

10. Make A Decision For The Both Of You

make a decision for the both of you

You have discussed with your boyfriend and finally, both of you found the solution. So, the result of this discussion is that you want to fix it. Improve your relationship with this you should always make love with your partner in the morning.

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Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.
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