7+ Best Ways How To Get Your Ex Back When You Still Live Together

Last updated on June 9, 2022 by Michelle Devani

Are you still living with your ex who you have broken up with?

In some cases, this can be an unavoidable nightmare scenario, but it can also prove useful if you want to try and get back together. You're still likely to have plenty of face-to-face access, after all. 

This doesn't mean it's easy though! You need to be savvy with the way you behave around your ex during this time, that's for sure. 

That's why I decided to write this guide to help you out. 

It features a list of proven strategies to get your ex back when you still live together.

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Having said that, keep reading for more ideas on how to get your ex back when you still live together.

8 Ways To Get Your Ex Back When You Still Live Together

1. Respect Personal Space

Okay so still live together but you’re no longer lovers. Then don’t act like one. People say old habits die hard, but you’ve got to do it. Stop invading their personal spaces, starting from smallest thing like buy your food yourself to crucial ones like not asking about their private lives.

You may want to get back together but acting like you’re still together probably not the best choice. They could end up feel annoyed, slimming down your chance of reconciliation.

2. Disappear From Their Sight

Just because you’re under the same roof, doesn’t mean you can’t avoid them. Like the common breakup phase, both of you need to out of each other’s sight. Take off earlier before they do and be the first one to come home later in the day.

That way, you live together but you living your own life separately. You don’t have to see their face that often. And see how it will affect both of you.

Also read: What to Do When Your Boyfriend Breaks Up with You and You Live Together

3. Make A Drastic Change

make a drastic change

People who have just breakup make over themselves to surprise their ex. Living together shouldn’t stop you from doing so. Remember the previous point where you try not see their face even though you share a home?

Don’t avoid them forever if you want to get back together again. After weekdays of a tight (but fake) schedule, you inevitably see each other on weekend. Make the most of the moment to let them see the new you!

Putting some make up on would be too much since you’re at home anyways. But you can show your freshly cut hair, or slimmer body of your successful diet. The change should be quickly noticeable though.

Also read: Reasons Why You Should Not Live Together Before Marriage

4. Be More Independent

Living together as a couple make you become more and more dependent to each other. She used to prepare food, he used to fix broken things in the house, but now it’s not the same. you have to cook your own food separately, fixing the broken by yourself, and more.

Now that you realize you can’t count on each other anymore you become more independent, showing the unknown side of you. This one charm will make you irresistible and if you ask them to get back again, they probably say yes!

5. Don’t Overthink About It

Before you decide that you want to get back together again, you must have think about it thoroughly. You have make sure of your feeling, make sure, they’re not dating anyone, and you are about to take the first step.

But don’t overthink of how would you do it. This is not a math formula so nothing is sure. Do what you feel right, be open and honest about what you want. As you have been living together means your relationship have reached certain points.

Also read: Ways to Make Your Boyfriend Miss You When You Live Together

Do you feel like he kind of takes you for granted?
Unfortunately this is one of the most frequent complaints we get from our readers, where they feel they aren't a priority for their boyfriend or husband. They always seem to have some excuse as to why they can't spend some quality time with you like they used to.

Due to popular demand, our friend prepared a quick video (click to watch) that'll show you to one easy but often overlooked thing that you can say to him today that'll help him realize how lucky he is to have you (hint: it's something that taps into how men are wired).

Nothing is wrong with discussing your feeling and your wish regarding the relationship. Don’t rush anything, don’t overthink, don’t overdo. Keep everything in a good pace. That is how to get your ex back when you still live together.

6. Start Lightly

The fact that your ex still lives together with you and they haven’t date anyone just yet means they’re still trying to get over. Which is the right spot for you to jump in! First thing first, open up the communication again.

You must have spent a few weeks not talking or seeing each other, but as you want them back you have to start from the most crucial point.

Make things natural such as light conversation over dinner or breakfast, talking about trivial things and let it flow. Let them find the comfort when they’re with you like the old times.

7. Stop Being Nostalgic

stop being nostalgic

No matter how much you want them back, you must restrain yourself from doing obvious things. You broke up so it’s normal to have some things in your relationship change. Don’t start act like you’re still an item.

For example, you start wash their clothes together when doing the laundry or making their bed. While cooking for the once in a while is still acceptable, the first two things is totally big don’ts!

It only make the situation more awkward, especially when they’re not ready to get back together with you again.

Also read: How to Get Back Your Ex Boyfriend after He Dumped You

8. Don’t Try To Make Them Jealous

Bringing up somebody’s name to the conversation is very, very childish. Remember that you ex also knows it’s hard for you to move on because – please! – you live together. Pretending that you already have an eye for someone new only make things worse.

Rather than jealous, they will pity you. And it’s a red sign if you still want them. Be mature, forget the old tricks.

In Conclusion

So those are all the tips how to get your ex back when you still live together. If in the end you still unable to reconcile, do believe that someone better will come along.

Does it feel like pulling teeth getting him to say how he feels about you?
Some men can be very gaurded and closed when it comes to expressing how they feel - it can almost feel like they are pulling away from you. Many women make the mistake of pushing their man to say how they feel, but this is actually one of the worst things you can do as it can push him away further.

To get him to really show you how he feels and communicate how much he appreciates you, there's one simple thing, although often overlooked, thing you can say to him today that taps into how men are wired and can often lead to them suddenly pouring their heart out. My friend recorded a quick free video (click to watch) that shows exactly how to do that.

Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.
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