Instagram remains one of the most popular social media around the world. It also comes in handy in your daily life too, as you use it to keep up with the life of everyone you know or adore. Which is why following your crush on Instagram is a must. That’s how you know what they’re up to, what they love to do, and how their daily life is.
But have you ever thought that your crush might unfollow you someday? Have you ever thought what to do when your crush unfollows you on Instagram. Somebody’s heart is ever changing, so it’s normal for someone who do surprising act. Also read How to Get Your Crush’s Attention on Instagram
Well, if this ever happen to you or already is, we’ve got some tips to keep you grounded after you find out that your crush doesn’t want to be connected with you through Instagram. Here they are.
- Do Not Freaked Out
Okay, we know that this is your crush we’re talking about so how on Earth could you stay calm? But not to freak out is the ultimate rule to clear your mind before deciding the next move.
Especially when you are in the same circle with them (schoolmate, college friends, co-workers, etc.), you can’t help but thinking there must be something wrong with you. Also read How to Text Your Crush without Being Annoying
You don’t know the whole story yet and you won’t gain nothing by blowing up. The rightest thing to do at the moment is taking a long, deep breath. Don’t rushed anything and don’t make any decision when you are emotionally unstable.
- Try to Find Out Why
You must be dying to know why. Find out the truth by asking around you, not directly why did they unfollow you but by checking their relationship status, maybe. You may seek for clarity as much as you want but don’t let go of your dignity.
Never show others – unless the best friend you’d trust your life with – that you are being unfollowed and you’re not calm about it. Well, you can directly ask them too because you never know why. It could be a pure mistake where they hit the wrong button, right?
- Acknowledge and Move On
Let’s say that you have found the answer, so the next step of what to do when your crush unfollows you on Instagram is moving on. Before that, you have to acknowledge that they might not follow you again on Instagram. It’s another heartbreak you should move on too.
It’s hard and sad and you can grieve over it. Cry out loud if you want but keep it short. Don’t let your grieve eat you and taking too much of your time. Also read What to Do If Your Crush Randomly Stops Texting You?
- Unfollow Them Too
This is the most essential step you have to take if there is no possibility of your crush to follow you again: unfollow them. It may seems easy but it is not. You must be dying to know how they are doing and what are they up to.
But those curiosity only kills you slowly. You won’t be able to move on because you keep their shadow close to you. Don’t think about it too much and don’t take too much time, go unfollow you crush too. Also read How to Know If Your Crush is Not Into You
- Show Them What They Miss
This is the last stage you must have recovered already from the whole unfollowing fiasco. Now it’s time to create the new you. Be a better person, make yourself more attractive so that they will realize what did they miss.
Show them that life without is just fine, and even better. Open up your heart once more.
Why You Should Unfollow Your Crush Too
Here are the reasons why you should unfollow your crush too.
- Moving On from Them. Unfollowing them is the way for you to move on and let go of them. It will feel like losing the war before fighting in it, but you have to get through it safely. Also read How to Get Your Crush’s Attention Through Social Media
- Don’t Let Them Stay in Your Life. Consider them as someone who is not worth to be kept in your life. Now that they have gone from your social media, they might as well gone too from your real life.
- Opening the Door for Better Possibilities. There is an old saying that goes, “When you stare too long at the closed door, you might not know that another door is opened.” You have to close them once for good so that you can start looking for a better person, someone who deserve your love more than they were.