17 Best Ways To Make An Aries Man Fall In Love

Last updated on April 12, 2024 by Michelle Devani

Is there a special Aries in your life who makes you weak at the knees?

Are you desperate to make him yours? 

Do you wonder if there are any special moves you can make to attract him into your life?

The good news: there surely is. 

In fact, there is a definitive list of behaviors that tend to drive an Aries man wild with desire - and I’ve penned them for you below. 

However before we begin, I need you to read the next few sentences carefully. 

In my teens and early twenties, I was always the woman discarded for someone better.

No matter how good I thought the first few dates were, it would never last. And I had no idea why!

Then, everything changed. 

At this time, I began to read about a little-known aspect of a man’s thought process, called the ‘Hero’s Instinct’. 

This deeply primal psychological trigger appears to be held dearly by all men, and it can have an incredible impact on their levels of attraction towards you. 

When a woman can learn how this way of thinking works within a man, it serves to make him feel so strong and purposeful. If she can push these buttons the right way, he can become addicted to these feelings. He can become addicted to you. 

I know this because I learned everything there is to know about the ‘Hero’s Instinct’ - and went from being seen as ‘a bit of fun’ to a man’s OBSESSION 

If you’re interested in creating deeper, more meaningful relationships with men, read this article I wrote about how I discovered the ‘Hero’s Instinct’.

Or you can scroll down for my list of Aries-specific tips.


Aries Man Personality

Strong, fearless, bold, and sociable; the Aries man fits into most women’s specifications of the perfect man. They’re usually very handsome yet even the less attractive Aries men are very comfortable in their skin. 

Their confidence is what adds to their charm. So, if you happen to find yourself falling for an Aries man, it's not your fault, very few women are able to resist him. 

The Aries man is an exciting partner, he’s very particular about what he wants. This is why his partner also needs to know what she wants and needs to be confident as well. Most women who try to throw themselves on Aries guys end up discovering that they can’t coax him into liking them. 

Fortunately, you don’t have to be one of these unlucky women, below are a few tips and tricks to winning an Aries man’s heart.

17 Ways To Make An Aries Man Fall In Love

1. Flirt with him

flirt with him

The Aries man is everything but slow; he’s very quick to react to anything daring or challenging. His zodiac sign represents fire, sexuality, and passion and that’s why he’s sure to appreciate some nice, subtle flirting

However, he’s able to sniff out uncertainty and any form of fear and has a very low tolerance for a lack of confidence. So whatever you do, don’t step too far out of your comfort zone, and don’t be fake. There’s nothing wrong with an ounce of coy flirting. This will draw him in, in no time.

2. Serenade him

The Aries man does not hold back on self-admiration. He has quite a healthy self-esteem so he loves it when the people around him are able to maintain that energy. 

Whenever your Aries man is looking good, don’t hold back on the compliments; let him know. Dating an Aries man won’t feel so confusing; especially if you tell him when he’s being thoughtful when he’s being sweet, and even when you think he’s a complete gentleman. This fire sign loves to feel appreciated, seen and loved.

3. Be clever

Aries men are usually very quick, smart, and witty; they’re one of the most intelligent Zodiac signs. So, it’s expected that he would want to be with a girl who can match his brilliance. The Aries man also hates boredom, so he’d like to be with a woman who can hold an intelligent conversation and perhaps pique his curiosity. 

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If you want an Aries man to fall in love with you, maybe try reading some books on a few topics he’s interested in. This way, when he’s sharing his likes with you, you don’t end up clueless. 

4. Challenge him mentally

As mentioned earlier, the Aries man loves a smart woman; they also love a good mental challenge from time to time. Once in a while, bring up some topics in politics, law, movie plots, and casts. 

Have some fun yet mentally challenging debates on the issues, and watch that man fall in love with you each day. However, remember that he also has a very fragile ego, he does not like to lose. So keep it friendly and light.

5. Go on adventures together

go on adventures together

Aries men get bored very easily, so if you’re going to be with this Zodiac sign, then you have to bring out your most daring side. 

Try some new things together. Visit places you’ve never been to before, take a hike together through a trail in Machu Picchu, go sky diving, scuba diving, or climb a mountain. Perhaps you could take it up a notch and try some adventurous things in the bedroom also. That way, you’ll be exploring all his curious sides.

6. Be yourself

Aries men are very intuitive, they can see right through you if you’re being fake or if you have ulterior motives. If you don’t genuinely love him, then dating an Aries guy is a no-no. He’ll most likely sniff out whatever you’re hiding. If you’re uncertain about your feelings for this guy, don’t jump straight into a long-term relationship with him, be honest with him, and take things slow.

7. Let him chase you

When you’ve been trying to get your Aries man’s attention for a while, it may be a bit hard to let him chase you. Patience is the last thing you’d like to exercise at that point, but if you want this fire sign to value you, it would be better to let him make the moves. Let him make plans for the dates, let him do the pampering, and generally all the wooing. 

This doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t surprise him from time to time or get him special gifts on his special days; just let him enjoy chasing you.

8. Let him lead

When dating an Aries guy, you’ll notice how he loves to be in charge. He loves taking the lead and may want to make all the major decisions. As cocky as this sounds, the Aries man is very good at leading. If you happen to end up settling down with this guy he will give you and your kids a good, secure and comfortable life. 

So if you have a chance at a relationship with an Aries guy, trust him enough to let him lead, and he’ll reward you with all the love and affection he can possibly give. 

9. Value the humor

value the humor

As previously mentioned, the Aries sign does not like to get bored; humor is one of the things they value. Embrace and amplify your humorous side when you're with him. He’ll enjoy your company and love having you around him. As much as he likes his women being smart and brainy, he still loves to be amused, so don’t be too serious when you’re around him.

10. Give him some alone time

Having some personal time is something that everyone needs; your Aries love interest inclusive. No matter how much you love being around him, try not to get clingy and choke him; give him some time to himself. That way, he’ll have time to make other friends, read and do the things he loves, the way he wants to. 

11. Keep up with him in bed

Like other aspects of his life, the Aries guy is confident, daring, and adventurous in bed. Getting intimate with him is anything but boring. He has one of the most incredible sex drives of all the zodiacs. 

Once an Aries guy loves you and decides to be with you, he’s definitely going to want to spend more time with you between the sheets. Try to match his sex drive, it helps if you already have a high libido. However, don’t feel pressured to do anything you don’t feel comfortable doing.

12. Don’t kill the chivalry

The Aries zodiac sign is quite old fashioned when it comes to the way they treat their love interests, He loves to do all the chivalrous, gentleman-like things that we read in romance novels and watch on tv. 

If you’re one of the extreme feminist types, you’d probably not love being with an Aries guy. This is because he loves to open car doors for you, pamper you, and just cherish you the old fashioned way.

13. Be ambitious

One of the biggest turn-ons for an Aries guy is an ambitious woman; they love a woman who can match their own ambition. Before getting involved with this fire sign, try to have an active career and be sure that you’d want to keep advancing in your field. This would definitely catch his attention. 

14. Brownie points for being sporty

brownie points for being sporty

Aries guys are usually athletic, so they admire women who also like sports. If you play sports, then you already have an advantage. Most of your weekends and dates will involve lots of physical activities. That way, you’ll find it easier to connect with him, and actually agree or even banter on some sporting events. 

15. Sharpen your expensive taste

Aries men love the finer things in life, be sure to look classy and sophisticated, preferably without breaking the bank. Pick classy-looking clothes, shoes, accessories, and even gadgets; that make you feel good about yourself. Just by embracing the finer things in life, you can make this guy obsessed with you.

16. Get along with his friends and family

The Aries guy is one of the most social star signs, he loves to connect with people who share common interests with him. Since he’s quite volatile, talented, and multi-faceted, he’ll most likely have a whole lot of friends. Without trying too hard, do your best to have a good relationship with his friends. 

Even if you don’t become close friends with them, try to be cordial and friendly with them. You may struggle with this a bit if you’re an introvert, but feel free to only do what you can. His family is also very close to his heart; if you get along with his family, you’ve already won his heart.

17. Be confident

The Aries guy is quite confident, he loves himself sometimes to a fault. To catch an Aries man’s attention and keep it, you’d need to match his confidence levels. The Aries sign is very attracted to a woman who is comfortable in her own skin. He’s very turned on by a woman who knows who she is and is not apologetic about it. 

He also loves a woman who knows what she wants and won’t settle for less. So, if you want to win your Aries man’s heart, try your best to increase your confidence levels. Know and highlight your strengths. Don’t outline your setbacks in front of him, he finds it very off-putting and has very little patience for self-pity. So, whatever you do, avoid putting yourself down for any reason.


How do you make an Aries man fall in love with you?

To make an Aries man fall in love with you, you need to allow him to be the man and chase you; he likes a fair chase. Also, he responds, very quickly, to flirting; if you know how to flirt appropriately, you’re bound to catch the Aries man’s attention. 

How do you tell if an Aries man loves you?

An Aries guy hardly hides his feelings when he likes someone. So, if this Aries guy is head over heels for you, you will be able to tell. He won’t hide his admiration for you, he’ll agree with most of the things you say, and you’d always be his first priority. 

What does an Aries man like in a woman?

Since the Aries guy has a strong type ‘A’ personality and has very high energy levels, they’re more comfortable with women who can keep up with their lifestyle. They’re also quite old fashioned when it comes to lavishing their partners with affection; for them, chivalry is not lost. 

Do Aries miss their ex?

Of all the other star signs, the Aries sign tends to get more attached to the memories he shared with his ex. He may be completely over his ex yet still think about the special moments they shared. They’re more prone to feelings of nostalgia compared to the men of the other star signs.

What does an Aries man need in a relationship?

The Aries guy values equality in his relationships; he respects a woman who can argue with him when he’s unreasonable, who isn’t afraid to voice out her own opinions. More so, he can boldly question certain decisions he makes. An Aries man's appreciation for a woman who can think for herself should not be mistaken for weakness, he doesn’t appreciate a bossy or rude partner.

To Conclude

I hope you found this article helpful. Remember, if you want to charm your Aries love interest, match up with him on his major traits. These include his confidence levels, his appetite for adventure, and his intelligence. Also, let him chase you! Please let me know what you think about this topic in the comment section below and be sure to share it.

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Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.

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