7 Ways on How to Get Over of Your Long Term Relationship

Last updated on June 4, 2022 by Michelle Devani

Anyone who has ever been in long term relationship must have their own difficulties. Not like many short relationships, it might be harder for a partner that wants to end their long term relationship. One of the reasons why it is harder to end it is because of the time spent together.

But remember that most of any relationships can be ended, and it is a common thing that happens. There are also most important things in a relationship that everyone must know. Unfortunately, it is going to be a different thing to deal when it comes to ending a long term relationship.

As mentioned before, ending a relationship is a common thing that happens to almost everyone. But ending a long term relationship needs more preparation from both partners.

It is not easy to let go someone that has spent many years with us, and you should also know signs its time to let go of someone. The decision on ending a long term relationship must be prepared well, so that we can be ready for anything that might influence our life.

It might be hard to move on at first, but you will get better eventually. Here are some tips to help you get over of your long term relationship.

  • Avoid being alone

We are born to be a social creature. Even when you have a partner, you still need to socialize with other people. Especially after a breakup from your long term relationship, you need to socialize with other people.

If you are holding yourself away from other people, it is going to be harder for you to move on. Interacting with other people, such as family and friends will help you through the problems in your life. This also helps you from get over of your long term relationship.

  • Don’t hold back your sadness

Sometimes you are going to feel really sad once you have broken up, especially after a long term relationship. It is totally fine for you to cry out loud. Nothing is wrong from crying over a sadness, because crying is a natural thing that happens when we get really sad.

If you are not someone who cries over thing, it is fine to express it in many ways, such as listening to a loud song, taking a long bath, or maybe just screaming on the pillow. Any way that you are doing will give you a relaxation, and make you calmer.

  • Make your days more fun with new hobbies or activities

It is good to try something new. It is better if you know how do you move on from a breakup when you'll probably see your ex with someone else everyday. Prove to your ex that you can be a better person after breaking up with them.

You can try new hobbies or activities out there. There are a lot of advantages of joining those new activities, such as gaining some new skills, make some new friends, and of course—most importantly—be happy with your new life after the breakup.

  • Spoil yourself a bit

It is a part of loving and accepting yourself. Go shopping, buy anything you want once in a while, go to the spa or massage place. It is your time to treat yourself with something that makes your body relaxed.

It is a good way for you so that you can get distracted from any sadness after your breakup. But remember to do it once in a while, not every time you are feeling sad. Too much spoiling yourself is not good anyway. You also need to know how to lead a happy and a peaceful life in a simple way.

  • Hang out with your friends or family

Once again, don’t be alone for too long. You need to spend your time with family or friends. You can hang out with them for couple of times in a week. Hanging out with people that are close to you helps a lot, because they will entertain you.

They care about you, and will try their best to help you get rid of your sadness. You can go to any park, cafe, mall, or any other places with them. You can also just hangout in your house and accompanied by your close friend or family member, so that you won’t be by yourself at home.

Remember to be open with your close friend or family about your feelings. You will feel relieved once you tell them your feeling, and gradually you can get rid of your sadness.

  • Stay positive

Last but not least, you need to stay positive. You also need to be a better lover. Convince yourself that breaking up with your ex is a good thing in your life.

You need to believe that you will find someone better sometime. You deserve to be with someone that will love you just the way you are someday. So, make sure that you are surrounded with positive vibes from people around you.

Finally Solve Your Relationship Problems

If you’re like me you have probably spent endless nights worrying about your relationship and trying to find an easy way that will help you fix it.

I’d endlessly spent hours browsing the internet to find that one golden answer that would finally fix my relationship and allow me to go back to my happy old self.

As I discovered the hard way, there is no ‘one-size fits all’answer that will help everyone. Everyone’s relationship is different.

That’s when I decided it was time for me to talk to someone knowledgeable about the specific issues I was facing, and I found Relationship Hero.

Within 1 minute, I was able to chat directly to a relationship consultant to whom I could explain the specific issues that I was facing in my relationship.

She gave me suggestions that I could immediately start implementing and we agreed to set a follow up meeting to see how it went.

As soon as I started implementing her suggestions I immediately noticed a big improvement in my relationship. This felt like a huge sigh of relief.

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Of course, it still took hard work, but at least with my relationship counselor’s suggestions I now had a plan of action.

If you’re in a similar situation, I would therefore highly recommend that you do the same.

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I’m sure you can get your relationship back on track as well!

Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.